variety show " My Girl 2" is currently on the air. At the beginning of the show, four social focus topics: love, marriage, family, and life.
tries to show how female celebrities get along with society and themselves. It can be seen that the ambition of the program team is still very large. They not only want entertainment, but also want to pursue depth of content. After the show
was broadcast, the express delivery piled up in front of the door of Lin Yun attracted the attention of a large number of viewers, and even became a hot search topic.
Lin Yun's image in the variety show is very similar to that of a 20-year-old girl who suffers from severe hoarding disorder. She has a house full of clothes and various cosmetics, and she is still trying all kinds of new gadgets endlessly.
struggled repeatedly between hoarding and not hoarding. Driven by the desire to hoard, he could not suppress the ancient power in his body, and his home was so full that he could not move his feet.
Living in the mountains of things, even opening the door to get a takeaway is like climbing over mountains and mountains. Even Zhang Xinzhe shed tears after hearing this.
The living conditions of the other daughter Wang Ou are different. There is no smoke and smoke in the whole room, just like a model house.
Wang Ou himself is the same. He doesn't play with mobile phones, doesn't want to try any new content, and is content with his own life. His whole person is boring.
Wang Ou's daily routine is to walk back and forth in the room, turn on and off the lights, or stand on his head.
is like a walking machine without emotions, even her dog is like this.
After seeing Lin Yun trying various beauty equipment.
Wang Ou said frankly that if it were him, he would only choose something that is easy to use and suitable, and then keep using it, and he would not try anything new again.
Compared with the various types of clothing in Lin Yun's home, Wang Ou's home only has simple, elegant and practical styles, all in very plain colors.
Maybe even the program team felt that her living condition was too boring, so in the later episodes, some skating and rock climbing were arranged for her, which was called: stepping out of the comfort zone.
But from Wang Ou's face, we can see that she is completely resistant to these activities. It is just a job she took. Her participation in these activities is just due to her cooperation and obedience to the work assignment arrangement.
Similar to Wang Ou are Zhang Bichen , who may have been deceived by the screen image of singing "Liangliang" and "Ring of the Year".
In the eyes of many passers-by, Zhang Bichen should be an intellectual and elegant woman.
But Zhang Bichen's character is very manly, especially like a boy, straightforward and unpretentious. He is a walking Uncle Zhang. The clothes at home are very few compared with ordinary female celebrities. He is really a fairy on the stage and a straight man off the stage.
Zhang Bichen’s wardrobe contains a large number of sweatshirts, which are basically loose, comfortable and simple. The shoes are also flat shoes and sports shoes.
At first glance, there are no gorgeous, elegant, feminine, high heels and dresses, and no cosmetics. She herself does not accept very feminine clothes, cannot accept exposing her thighs, and her aesthetic when buying clothes is more straight than that of straight men.
Her friends wanted to change her image and took her out shopping to buy clothes. Zhang Bichen went out with a big resistance face. Compared to some girls who were full of excitement as soon as they arrived at the mall, Zhang Bichen was just paralyzed. Sit on the couch.
In the end, I didn’t choose the right clothes. Instead, I fell in love with the sofa in a store.
We can see the essential differences between Lin Yun, Wang Ou and Zhang Bichen from the comparison and summary of their living conditions.
Lin Yun belongs to the type of person who makes additions in life. He maintains a girlish heart and enthusiasm for life, constantly increases his life experience, keeps exploring and trying in life.
has good male friends and good female friends around him.
My daily life consists of putting on makeup, researching new hairstyles, playing with clothes, checking in at milk tea shops, skiing, and taking beautiful photos.
In short, life is very lively.
It can be said that her life is very exciting and interesting. She turns her daily life into an idol drama, which is in line with many young girls' longing for a sweet life.
Wang Ou and Zhang Bichen are people who make subtractions in life. Maybe they look a little lonely and boring, because their lives are not lively enough, so the viewers will not feel happy.
What everyone calls "getting out of the comfort zone of life" may not be so worthy of praise. For example, Huang Yali , she is creating beauty in her small life.
Not only did she have her own spiritual pursuit of music and use a "borrowing light plan" to achieve it, she also lived an enviable life earlier than the rich people in the urban jungle.
People's energy is limited. It is also a good choice to find your own circle and delve deeper into it.
Japanese craftsman Akagi Akito visited 20 craftsmen and wrote "Creation is Spiritual and Beautiful" through their records and self-perceptions. This is also a book that represents the spirit of Japanese craftsmen.
leads from minimalism to perfection, and from perfection to craftsmanship.
The book writes:
The process of making utensils is a process of communication with materials from beginning to end. In the encounter with materials, we create new things. In this process, we can feel something material and something close to personality from the material, and sometimes it even seems like we can touch the divine realm from the material. The world is naturally full of unknowns, and materials are born from this. Through materials, we integrate into the world and nature, and we will find that our own interior is also full of mysterious and unknown nature, as vast as the sea.
Huang Yali is the first-hand practice of this matter. When she was about to hold her solo concert, she suddenly suffered a withdrawal of funds.
When she was feeling depressed, she used old straws to piece together a starry sky, and it was through this that she realized the value of art and self.
She personally designed her own rental house "Yamada Heart".
There is a pavilion and two ridges of vegetable fields. It is a shade pavilion made of old trees and has its own vegetable garden and fireplace.
The picture of life is very enviable, just like Li Ziqi living in the entertainment industry.
Huang Yali said something in the show that impressed me deeply:
Houses are rented, but life is not. Only the present is real.
She is not the richest or most prosperous among celebrities. The reason why she can live an enviable life is due to the purity of the spiritual world.
It is because she makes subtractions in her own life and combines unimportant attempts with Only by cutting off the experience can I free up time and energy to create my own exquisiteness.
She built her own mountains and rivers in the house. From then on, the mountains and rivers were far and wide, and the fireworks of the world could be seen at a panoramic view.
Compared with Wang Ou, who is also doing subtraction, the reason why Wang Ou feels bored and lonely (at least according to the show) is not because of subtraction, but because she has not found the core support point of her life, which is what she really wants. Something to love.
If there is nothing to fill the empty space in the spiritual world, it will naturally feel empty.
In other words, in the 21st century, no one is lonely. Only love and abundance in the spiritual world can fill the loneliness in life and make oneself calm and peaceful.
For example, Steve Jobs’ home is like the minimalist madman Mai from the Japanese TV series “My Home Is Nothing”. There are almost no furniture or furnishings, and his clothes are all black because he doesn’t want to waste time picking out clothes. superior.
Jobs devoted all his energy to Apple throughout his life. This ultimate sense of minimalism allowed him to build the Apple empire. Spiritual minimalism is the real minimalism .
Thoreau wrote in his famous " Walden ":
A picky person can find flaws even in heaven. Love your life, even in poverty. Even in a workhouse, you can have a fun, exciting, glorious time. The afterglow of the west-slanting sunset reflecting on the windows of the slums is as radiant as the light shining on the mansions of wealthy people; the snow in front of the door also melts in early spring. I only saw that a calm and leisurely person could live a contented life there, with uplifting and optimistic thoughts, as if he were living in a palace.
I hope you find the love in your heart and live a simple and prosperous life.
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