Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been difficult. The mother-in-law is the natural enemy of the daughter-in-law. At least eight out of ten families are incompatible with each other.
The essence of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is that two women compete for the love of a man. Therefore, in order to have a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, men must take the initiative to shoulder the responsibility of reconciliation. Men who can balance the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in a better way will generally have good family relationships.
In addition to the essential problems of the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there are also problems caused by the differences in the ideological concepts, education levels, and living habits of the two generations. When two people who have nothing to do with each other are connected, various frictions will inevitably occur. .
Most mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law firmly believe that distance creates beauty. Both parties should maintain a certain distance, lend a helping hand in time when the other party needs it, retreat to a suitable distance when the problem is solved, and maintain a suitable sense of boundaries, so that both parties can get along comfortably.
In "The War of the Roses", Wang Ji plays the heroine Gu Nian's mother-in-law. From some aspects, she should be the best mother-in-law in the entire network.
The daughter-in-law was very busy with work and moving alone. She took the initiative to run between the new house and the old house to help with the moving and packing.
The mother-in-law prepared meals and took care of her granddaughter after eating, washing, tutoring her homework, and soothing her to sleep. The daughter-in-law has not yet come home from overtime work, so she waits until she goes to bed; when the daughter-in-law comes back, she immediately heats up the food, and then catches the last subway back to her home; When driving to the downstairs of the house to pick up his daughter-in-law, Fengsheng, played by Huang Xiaoming, opened the door for Gu Nian in a very gentlemanly manner. This scene happened to be seen by the daughter and mother-in-law upstairs;
When the daughter questioned the behavior of her male colleague At that time, the mother-in-law maintained that it was just a gentleman's behavior and that her daughter-in-law was so popular that everyone liked her...
After seeing these pictures, I couldn't help but give her mother-in-law a 99. How did she cultivate a mother-in-law with such high emotional intelligence and knowing how to protect her daughter-in-law? ?
Of course, these are the interactions between Gu Nian’s husband and mother-in-law’s son after they were detained for investigation and revealed to have cheated on each other.
The mother-in-law's mentality at the moment must be that she feels guilty towards her daughter-in-law because of her son's mistakes, and wants to do her best to help her daughter-in-law stabilize the small family. However, it can be seen from the little things they get along with that their daily relationship should be good. , both are highly educated and emotionally intelligent people. They love the same man and the same daughter/granddaughter. Maintaining a good family is their common goal.
When a daughter-in-law has a harmonious relationship with her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law can be your solid backing. In this family you won't fight alone, you two will fight together.
After her son’s accident, her mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law Gu Nian fought together. They want to take good care of their daughter/granddaughter together and rescue their husband/son together.
Inevitable, because their son cheated on her, how could there be no gap between them? Because Gu Nian was hit hard emotionally, she no longer wanted to hang the photos of her family of three in the new house. Her mother-in-law went to the old house to move all her son's belongings and also hung the photos in the living room;
Gu Nianxiang I took down the photo, but remembered what my mother-in-law said (the daughter misses her father) The mother-in-law smiled bitterly and kept the photo where she was; because the daughter-in-law did not want to deal too much with her son's affairs, the mother-in-law directly questioned and accused her when she was emotionally broken...
However, as both women and mothers, they were kind-hearted and chose to understand each other after the argument. , work together to find a way to rescue the husband/son.
With different roles in the same family, how can we tell who is right and who is wrong?
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