"Have you ever been that kind of annoying ex?"
Guangzhou has been blocked for too long some time ago. After I released it, I heard any friend talk about him and didn't treat him as a normal person. The same is true for the friend who held the wine glass in front of him.
But he took a sip of wine and patted my knee to move closer. Then he took out his cell phone and pressed a live photo (the kind of moving and sound photo) in Weibo : "I've watched this many times every day."
A simple sunset photo.
He put the receiver of his phone close to my ear and a girl's voice came out.
"Wow, it's so beautiful, the sunset."
heard it. That was the voice of his ex who had broken up for several months.
"It's really annoying."
"What, pretend to be affectionate after breaking up? Why did you go?"
"Brother, please give it a break, stop."
In a few seconds, I have organized these most direct and mean words in my mind. But looking back, my friend must have realized his behavior, otherwise how could he take the initiative to ask me the question "Have you ever been an annoying ex?"
no longer contacts, but also pays attention to social platforms, and repeats the live photo of "Wow, so beautiful, sunset", which is his nostalgic daily life.
"Does the unrequited love after barely breaking up need to be blamed?" At the end of the drinks, a friend asked a similar question in distress.
He was drunk. And I opened my mouth and couldn't give a definite answer.
people are prone to watching pure love movies in winter.
Like " Jingxue " that I have been stuck in my heart every episode recently, and "First Love". When you are in the snowy sky, people will become soft and start searching for signs of love between scarves, sweet potatoes, and the white air you exud.
And it is not surprising that the drama of "remembering your ex when the weather gets colder".
is just "First Love" is too outrageous.
When I saw Sato Ken taking a taxi around the circular flower bed and suddenly found that the driver of the taxi next to me was his first love girlfriend, I thought he was very excited at most. Or go home immediately and turn out a dusty biscuit iron box from the bottom of the bed, review the letters and photos they wrote when they were in love on a winter night, and fall asleep.
This is what most people are most likely to do after they encounter their first love.
But he was a security guard, and he actually used his position to try to find a radio channel for a taxi driven by his first love girlfriend in a city of 2 million people. Listen while eating, while queuing, before going to bed... Even in the past ten years, he still believed that he could hear the other person's voice from the radio at once.
is reasonable. This plot by Takesa Sato is much more perverted than my friend's behavior of replaying live photo 100 times.
Screenwriters may also realize the pervert. So they added a key element to the pure love film: the protagonist "barely breaks up", which has a reason to make the audience sigh. "Jingxue" is the male protagonist who suddenly became deaf after graduating from high school and was disconnected from then on.
And the heroine in "First Love" lost her memory due to a car accident, and even got married and had children with a new person and divorced. The male protagonist met her again after more than ten years. His heart was as moved as before, but the reality had already turned upside down.
pure love films provide the most scarce piece of "sigh puzzle" in modern people's love. The cute secret thoughts and sweet details of getting along in front are enough to just outline the outline. The most touching thing is when the puzzle is completed. He pointed to the missing hole in the middle and told you: "What a pity, it would be great if there was no such regret.”
Which audience would not sigh?
But what is the breakup of modern people? It is a topic that once you enter a public space, you cannot have a gray area. Everyone is withdrawn from the audience roles of pure love films, supervising you to cut off your feelings with your muscles and bones.
When my friend asked in distress, "Is this annoying?", I also pressed the pause button of the warm pure love movie, turned my head and said to him coldly, "I've broken up, why are you still so persistent?" If this conversation was placed on Xiaohongshu, the "respect and blessing" breakup three-piece set should come soon.
Pure love is dead.
At least in the modern people's love I have come into contact with, I have long died.
A while ago, I watched the reaction video of "Transfer Love 2" on B station. This is a program that you participate in with your ex. Choosing to change your partner to develop or reunited with your ex is allowed within the rules.
Even if you haven't seen it, you can definitely imagine that among the people who participate, there will be those who are obsessed with their ex and hope to get back together, there will be those who have longed for a new relationship, and there will still feel that their ex is better after contacting them.
In the eyes of those who post the barrage, "what you miss your ex" is the bottom of the food chain. Everyone has at least 100 ways of ridicule about the "pure love" behavior in reality.
has the brush " Boiling Sheep ". Because in "Pleasant Goat", Feiyangyang always stands out to protect beautiful goat , so he becomes a dog licking (?)
has a "Pure Love God of War". On the surface, he praised his courage, but when he looked closely, he was sarcastic with a dog's head.
made me so tired. As expected, the public discussion space for love topics is still mostly "primary school students" (generally referring to young people with poor emotional experience). People who have never had much of a serious relationship are indeed keen on pointing fingers to other people's feelings.
I turned off that reaction video and returned to the heavy snow in Sapporo, Hokkaido. I would rather watch Sato Ken wave to his first love girlfriend who had lost her memory for more than ten years and say, "I'm happy to meet for the first time." No matter how old-fashioned the plot of
, at least there is still a pure love private place here. Leave it to those who understand that love is more complicated than the human brain and hope to let emotions surge for a while, stand in place and watch the snow quietly.
We need pure love. Even if it is not literally pure.
Just like I like watching the Japanese drama "Jingxue" because no one in it is so thoughtful.
The heroine met her ex-boyfriend who was deaf after graduating from high school. In order to chat more comfortably, she signed up to learn sign language. Not to mention the male lead, even the audience couldn't help but wonder, "Is this a sympathy attack?" But the heroine can say openly: "I am with you not because I sympathize with you, but because I really want to stay by your side."
The male protagonist once wanted to escape the meeting. But the heroine insisted on talking face to face because she understood that there are too many misunderstandings between people and wanted the other party to know that "I said this with a smile."
The straight ball plot that I can express my heart in my heart is always made me feel that my heart is full during the 45-minute time of watching the show in each episode. Just like a dense and quiet group of bubbles at the bottom of the water, it expands as it rises to the sky, and ultimately it does not usher in a violent escape and destruction, but turns into a gentle snow scene.
is neither black nor white nor is it just ridiculed. Human emotions should be so delicate and firm that they can resist the erosion of old-fashioned secular views on emotions.
Finally, if you ask me, is that friend still looping out the ex's live photo? Is he still unable to let go?
I'd better write the ending of pure love.
Let him do this. This is the best way for him to treat himself without disturbing the other party. Like the male and female protagonists of pure love films, they searched for radio signals that were likely to have no response.
always has one of these channels and he will receive them.
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