As we all know, the most dangerous thing in the entertainment industry is to establish a character.
has a character of "academic top", and if you don't pay attention, you will be disappointed, such as Zhai Tianlin .
has a "right and red" character, and maybe you will go in one day, such as Li Yifeng .
But there is a personal channel, which is the most crowded and overcrowded:
Good dad.
Thanks to series of variety shows such as " Where to Go, Dad, " and " Dad, Dad, ", all married and childish male stars are almost "kind fathers" outside.
is very pampering with his wife and patient with his children. It can be called the " male virtue " model.
Is it possible that good men are all gathered among celebrities?
Wake up, look at the Cao Ge over the years, maybe you have the answer...
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Cao Ge cheated? When
" Where to Go, Dad 2" was broadcast, Cao Ge looked like a "good dad".
He took care of two babies alone, and he was the youngest at that time, so it was hard to say. In the program
, although he is always unfamiliar with his methods of taking care of his children, he is patient enough and the children trust him very much.
This made the audience believe that he is indeed a conscientious father. During the recording process of
, he also expressed his longing and love for his wife from time to time. Looking left and right, he was a super good man who was a family-friendly man.
No one expected that Cao Ge in the real world would be so unbearable.
is hard to imagine. In recent years, I heard about Cao Ge, and I was almost always "going crazy", and it was not normal.
Just a few days ago, he posted a photo of his face with a strange woman. He looked intimate and ambiguous. The caption was "It's a heart to heart moment".
and his wife Wu Suling 's divorce has not come out, so I will announce my relationship with others first?
Then look forward, it is not difficult to understand his approach.
Since June this year, some media have revealed that Wu Suling has separated from Cao Ge with her two children. She also posted a message to express her determination:
"I used to be wronged and accepted by myself, but now I have to face it if I see it clearly."
Many people are speculating whether they are about to divorce.
The marriage change has been spread for 4 months, but it has not really been hit.
Until October 16, Cao Ge was interviewed for the concert. When asked if his wife and children would come to support him, he replied: his son has a football game, and his wife is in the Cold War with him in .
"I'm not sure that I will be with her for the rest of my life, but we must love children very much!"
Now it seems that is just laying the foundation for a new relationship?
But perhaps for Wu Suling, her husband's cheating is no longer a bad thing.
The 14 years of marriage with Cao Ge cannot be said to be dancing with the devil.
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No. 1 madman
Compared to cheating, a person with an emotional instability and often out of control is even more terrifying.
The entertainment industry is "number one crazy man", Cao Ge deserves it.
He was drunk, beaten, flammable and explosive, and embarrassed the people around him many times, allowing irrelevant people to bear the consequences of his anger.
As early as 2009, Cao Ge was reported by social news for beating people because of alcoholism.
He and his friend Baida fought at the bar door. After being separated by others, he rushed forward and kicked Baida in the car.
He was driven by alcohol and acted like a madman; but after waking up, he actively admitted his mistake and promised not to make any more.
But can you believe it if you are drunk?
In 2013, he lost control after drinking while singing, swearing repeatedly, shouting "Bull shit", madly comparing to the middle finger, and rushed off the stage to warmly embrace the female employee.
vividly interprets what "once going crazy" means.
As usual, after sobering up, he began to apologize sincerely and said 16 times in a row, "I won't drink again."
even made a "military order": if you commit again, donate 10 million yuan and withdraw from the music industry. Wu Suling believed in the guarantee of
and believed it 100%.
However, he broke the precept again.
Time is coming March this year. Cao Ge was drunk and scolded passers-by, and acted violently. He picked up the things around him and smashed the people hard.
This incident caused heated discussion on the Internet. He posted a message to deny it, saying that he was wronged, but soon, he was slapped in the face by the official report.
Not long after, he suddenly called Lan Xinmei :
"Sister Lan Xinmei, can you not take my wife out to meet a man?"
This series of operations made the people who were obsessed with the melon-eating people and seriously doubted whether Cao Ge had any mental problems.
Wu Suling had to rush to Lan Xinmei's house to apologize, and finally started the journey of separation unbearable...
Cao Ge is sick, it is true.
In 2017, he was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Wu Suling did not retreat because of this, but stayed by his side to accompany him to treat his illness, and believed that he could truly correct his mistakes.
But all kinds of extraordinary actions show that Gauge is more willing to use alcohol to anesthetize himself.
Hiding under the shell of "drunk", he can do whatever he wants.
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"good dads"
Cao Ge is not a good match, it is obvious.
His name as "good dad" comes quickly and goes quickly. " collapsed " like
is not only Cao Ge, but he collected a basket of "Where Are We Going, Dad?"
"Artist"Wang Yuelun , spoiled his daughter into a little princess, what in the end?
were photographed meeting other women again and again, not having any loyalty to their wives, and the cheating farce was known to everyone in the world.
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Not only does it become a sexual act, but the face of a "domestic violence man" cannot be hidden.
"Big Man" Guo Tao has achieved the transformation from "strict father" to "kind father" on the show. What about outside the show?
Under the shell of harshness and love coexist, there is contempt and disrespect for women.
. The actresses they collaborate with believe in violent means and often "titled"; they also stigmatize them, thinking that they are "vain" and "emotional" and never look down on them.
To her wife, she doesn't let her go out to work, she just lets her "serve" herself. Belittle your wife and tame her in a way that "care".
These all appear clearly in his interviews and books.
They may be really full of fatherly love for their children, and they may not be pretending in front of the camera, but they are full of irresponsible to their wives and families. Can people like
also be called "good dad"?
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What is the standard
A cruel fact is that it is much easier to paste the label of "good dad" than "good mom".
Two simple examples: Edison Chen and Li Xiaolu .
In the eyes of the public, they are two people who have both their own morals. After becoming parents, their reputation has taken different directions.
When Edison Chen was young and frivolous, he passed by in the flowers, but once he calmed down and showed his intimate photos with his daughter on social networking websites, everyone would feel that the prodigal son would never change his gold.
"Although he did something wrong before, he is still a good father now."
And Li Xiaolu clearly gave birth to Tianxin for ten months, clearly taking care of the child with her patiently and getting along with her with her friends, but in the eyes of the world, she is a bad mother.
Even Tianxin dances a girl group dance, they will think "Li Xiaolu is so stupid."
Why is this?
This is a great unfair role given to mothers by society.
They must take care of their children's daily life at all times, treat their children gently and considerately, and be clear about their children's academic problems and progress.
As for all your needs, you must put them backwards, otherwise one rope after another will be kidnapped.
"You are so young, you are going to divorce. Have you ever thought about your child's feelings?"
"Why are you so selfish when you are not taking care of your baby at home and running out to party?"
In this way, it appears in every corner of your life at a very high frequency. Every word points to the nose of "mother", giving birth to long shackles that make them unable to move.
And my father just needs to show patience at critical moments, and his status will be instantly improved.
papi Jiang said that fathers should accompany their children more than mothers.
Because men do not become fathers naturally, even if they accompany their wives into the delivery room, they do not really participate in the fertility process. Their relationship with their children needs to be maintained after all.
They should have paid more.
But because of some long-lasting habits, the sacrifice of my mother is called "natural" and the care of my father is called "unexpected joy".
Who can remember that most of the "good fathers" who were praised as god have only achieved the level of "ordinary mothers".
Looking back, the "good father" in the entertainment industry has been repeatedly upset. Could it be because the society's standards for "good fathers" are too low?
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