Beijing News:
US Southern California famous lawyer and education expert Fang Xiaowei held a lecture at the exchange area of Peking University Global Student Innovation and Entrepreneurship Center on the 19th, and shared with students from Peking University: [How to equip yourself to face international (important) challenges].
lawyer Fang Xiaowei's speech was welcomed by teachers and students.
Under the arrangement of Teacher Yang Aimin, more than 50 students and VIPs attended the audience to listen. Fang Xiaowei analyzed the future plans of life with the students through 4 key points: 1) Set goals in life, establish foundations, and move forward steadily without any rush or steadily. 2) Good plans are important, and having an adjusted attitude and courage is more important (the environment changes at any time), 3) The supplementary effect of social sports and social activities (green leaves) on life goals (red flowers), 4) The importance of Hungry for success, and accumulate small victories to become champions. Lawyer Fang and students' interactions are particularly exciting. They can explain their classmates' problems in an easy-to-understand way with examples, and students gain a lot of gains. Lawyer Fang also authorized Peking University Library to use the entire videotape for teachers and students. Now the new industrial revolution is in progress - automation and the Internet have accelerated social changes and progress. We should all do things humbly and positively. How to equip yourself to face the international "important" challenges in life:
Lawyer Fang Xiaowei was invited to Peking University to give a speech.
lawyer Fang Xiaowei gave a speech at Peking University.
1. Life planning (MASTER PLAN)
You need to have a good vision (VISION). We need to establish a good pattern in order to establish a life planning. How many people can establish a life planning? After establishing life goals, we also need to adjust due to changes in the environment.
The college entrance examination determines the world or the graduate students of college are just short-term goals in life. Many domestic students mistakenly think that this is the goal of life because the college entrance examination determines the world. Although the college entrance examination (the imperial examination system) is the fairest way in China in thousands of years, the college entrance examination is just a short-term goal in life after all, and we cannot put the cart before the horse.
When we are equipping ourselves, we need to realize:
(1) Academic achievements: accounting for 30% of the personal score (IQ)
We often judge a person's academic qualifications, experiences, and these are the most superficial and easiest to detect. It is a doctoral, master's, undergraduate (bachelor's degree), junior college, which prestigious university or first-class university (the top 15 universities in the United States), many Chinese people can reach 27% or 28%.
(2) Family background: accounts for 40% of the personal score (BQ)
The success of the second generation of official and rich second generation is higher than that of those who rely on themselves to make the world, because the influence of family background exists, and many things can be of some help and have certain effects. In fact, those with strength can even help their children achieve academic achievements. Some people donated tens of millions of dollars, and their children entered prestigious schools, while some families in Taiwan donated millions of dollars to certain prestigious schools every year, and they can get several admission quotas every year.
(3) Personal quality: 30% of the personal score (EQ)
A young person's quality cultivation must be noted 1. Is there discipline (DISCIPLING) 2. Is there good time with classmates and friends and get used to group life 3. Is it possible to deal with crises 4. Is it thirsty to succeed and give up enjoyment 5. Is there decisiveness (DETERMINATION) 6. Is there perseverance 7. Is there confidence to win 8. Is there the domineering spirit of a king?
A person's quality is the basis for a person's success. Sometimes being with a group of classmates or friends with good quality can achieve subtle effects. The so-called "Men Meng's mother moved three times", "Those who are close to the red and those who are close to the ink are black". Many people look at the superficial achievements of others, which are far more than the cultivation of a person's foundation. Only when a building is built on a solid rock can it last forever. If it is built on a beach, it will definitely become a mirage (it will fall). Shanghai Financial Center has 128 floors, and its foundation may have 45 floors. How to build these 45 floors is crucial for young people.
2. Facing problems, solving problems
Our generation has experienced hardships and hard childhoods and has encountered opportunities to create some conditions. Young people have the opportunity to face problems and solve problems. The help from others is too much and too fast, which deprives them of their ability to think and the opportunity to deal with sudden crises.
The United States is not a perfect country, but it is a paradise for cultivating children around the world, because since early childhood education, the United States has no concept of standard answers, and there are few rules and regulations, so children's creativity is easier to develop. We often ignore the nutrients that setbacks and tortures bring to the growth of young people. Without all-round development, only academic leadership, this result is immature. Without the accumulation of experience of failure, how could he desire success?
3. I would like to give an example here. A good friend of mine, Sengma, has a good education, , , , java 3, jurisprudence, doctorate in law at Harvard University, has complete political experience, and was once called a "big idiot" by the British media. Why? Because he has never faced and solved problems since he was a child. The parents are strict in discipline, and the four sisters are also strict in discipline. Therefore, when there is no reward for doing the right thing and six people blame it for doing the wrong thing, it is natural to develop the habit of not doing good things. Crisis handling ability is completely unfamiliar with him when he is cared for and grown up, because his family education is too cared for, which becomes a flaw in his life.
3. Important social sports and social activities
In the United States, many teenagers and teenagers have begun to learn tennis and golf . In addition to the environment (lots of collapse), the coaching level is very high, and the cost is reasonable, these two sports themselves will produce many effects, especially tennis, which has better effect and more impact on further studies. The following is for your reference:
Tennis always have good discipline (DISCIPLINE)
Now, there are very few young people who are disciplined in life, but discipline is an important cornerstone of success and of course they need to be cultivated. If the tennis match is scheduled at 8 o'clock in the morning, what time should the contestants get up, have breakfast, wash and go to the toilet, do warm-up exercises, and drive time, you must report 15 minutes in advance. These procedures are included. The children need to get up from 5:30 to 6:00 in the morning. The usual time is already very hard, what if the temperature is below zero? It is difficult for the contestants to get up, and they have to play basketball outdoors. How hard it is, this is discipline. The temperature is over 100 degrees Fahrenheit, and I can't stand it if I walk outside for 5 minutes, let alone playing for 2 hours in the high temperature and I am willing to compete. This is discipline. Everyone knows the importance of discipline, but being willing to do it yourself without complaining is the result of training.
Tennis training will develop a strong body
Tennis is an all-round exercise 1. Strength (muscles) 2. Requires speed (fast movement – front and back and left and right) 3. Coordination ability of eyes, hands and feet 4. Play while marching 5. Play with your mind 6. Be able to attack and defend 7. You need to train long muscles instead of large muscles for fitness (which will slow down speed) 8. Focus on (FOCUS) 9. Be able to control emotions, be able to let go of everything, and pay attention to the next ball (LET IT GO), many big-name players, a very simple ball has not been handled well, and I have been thinking that the ball should not be made mistakes, I cannot concentrate, and my emotions are out of control, and I lose all the way, and the whole momentum (MOMENTUM) is reversed, and I lose all the way, which is often seen in the tennis Grand Slam. 10. There is no coach next to you to guide you. There is a coach who calls a timeout when he loses control, adjusts his tactics, and calls for spiritual voice. Golf coaches can be regarded as caddies and guide players at any time. Only tennis coaches are not allowed to provide on-the-spot guidance. Players must know how to control their emotions, correct their shortcomings, insist on playing style or pursue victory. Plan or adjust their plans in such a short time. This is the most valuable and valuable thing. 11. Have the demeanor of a king. Once you enter the stadium, you must have I am the king of this stadium (I AM THE KING OF THIS COURT) or I am the queen of this stadium (I AM THE QUEEN OF THIS COURT).
Tennis is the main social sport in the upper class of the world
The main social sport (tool) in the upper class of the world is tennis and golf. It takes 5 hours to play 18 holes on golf, and two people take 5 hours to ride a cart.His dog's name can be talked about, so the relationship is naturally easier to establish, but it does not take 5 hours at any time. In addition, the driving journey is spent for half a day, so it is not the daily itinerary. In big cities, in the parking lot, there are 6 courts and 8 courts in the community to form a tennis club. It is more practical and feasible. A few friends play tennis every week, and they can have 1-2 hours of fitness and socializing at the same time. To give an important example, Miss KATIE in the UK married Prince William, and after sorting it out, it was composed of several conditions: 1. KATIE attends a private school 2. Play tennis often plus 3. Regularly attend private banquets (PARTY). From these backgrounds, we can see that in addition to academic and professional life, when you have more conditions, life will become colorful, and it will be easier and more likely to succeed.
Things that cannot be learned in books
Fighting will and dealing with important matters wholeheartedly. Tennis is the king of sports, like the small Atletico Madrid. Every game is facing wins and losses. How to win without being arrogant (cultivate the habit and confidence to win) and not be discouraged from losing (learning more when losing, are you solid basic skills, are you smart in playing, and whether you use diverse balls to make the opponent guess at any time when playing with strong opponents. There is no fixed mode to play, and use strength to suppress the opponent with no strength... etc.).
Nowadays, most of the listed large companies in the United States, especially investment and financial management companies, are the first priority for recruiting college tennis teams, because they understand the spirit of teamwork, they have the endurance of being trained and endured. Relatively speaking, their minds are relatively mature, and they will naturally be very experienced in handling crises.
4. HUNGRY FOR SUCCESS, have to have a hungry heart, long for success, long for solving problems, and for the former president of Apple Computer STEVE JOB once said that the two most important qualities of a person: "hunger" and "humility". Many rich children have good conditions, but they have too many choices, but they are not hungry enough. Therefore, even if they have good conditions, they lose the most important motivation, which is a pity. Former Lakers center knight, O'Neal said "I AM STILL HUNGRY, I AM STILL ANGRY" when someone suspected that he was getting older and losing his dominance. It can be seen that HUNGRY is very important to be hungry about things.
King Solomon has wealth that is as rich as a country. In his coffin, he asked to dig four holes, and his hands and feet stretched out to let the world know that even if he is as rich as him, he can't take a penny away. How can we not know when we plan our life, money is important, but money is not all. It is not worth it to give our precious life for what we have in a short time.
When we plan our lives, our goals are there, we move towards our goals step by step, and at the same time we spend time and energy to build our foundation solidly. As our foundation becomes more and more stable and rich, our achievements are expected. Don’t lose your way when you look at the flashy life. We need to do our best, not be afraid of setbacks and failures, accumulate a lot of experience, overcome shortcomings, become Winners, accumulate many small wins (Winners) and finally become champions (Champion).
Source: US News Express (http://www.usnewsexpress.com)
