families have twins
Wu Mingbao (Haina Baichuan)
Six years ago, the country began to implement the policy of "single" families with two children. It happened that the eldest daughter-in-law, who is the only daughter, is pregnant with her second child. So, with the support of Changsun, who is already in the second grade and his family, he received a birth certificate and prepared to have a second child. Unexpectedly, when the eldest daughter-in-law was more than 5 months pregnant, she was found to be twins. Since it is given by God, it can only follow God's will.
The eldest daughter-in-law is more than 7 months pregnant. According to the opinions of obstetric experts, she must have a caesarean section immediately, otherwise both mother and son are at risk. On September 8 last year, a pair of twin boys were born 50 days early. Because it happened to be the Mid-Autumn Festival, the nickname of the twins was designated as "Tuantuan, Yuanyuan" at the suggestion of the child's mother. Because Changsun’s name was Wu Peijun, that year was the Year of the Horse, I decided to use "Jun" as the last word in the twins’ names and widely collect words from relatives and friends. As a result, the word "Chicheng" proposed by cousin Zhou Xuwei was approved by the whole family. "Wu Chijun" and "Wu Chengjun" became the names of twins.
Because the twins were born, they weighed only 3.6 catties and 3.8 catties at birth. They had a very poor physical condition and were in the insulated box as soon as they were born. The twins survived the barrier stubbornly and successfully passed the barrier. One lived for 7 days and the other lived for 10 days, and were discharged from the hospital one after another. It is not easy to grow a healthy twin baby with a weight of 4 pounds and poor physical fitness. For this reason, my grandfather quit his job and lived with my grandmother for a permanent residence in my daughter's house. My wife and I also lived in the eldest son's house. The whole family went all out to raise the twins together. Because premature babies have poor gastrointestinal function and their eldest daughter-in-law basically has no milk, the child mainly relies on artificial milk to feed him. Almost every time he feeds, the child will vomit, and must hold him up and pat his back continuously. The whole family had to take turns holding the child 24 hours a day.
Because the child is young, every time it is my turn to hold the child, I put the child in the cotton coat on my chest, so that the child can stand in my arms comfortably. Because I have the problem of early awakening insomnia, I am responsible for the task of holding the child in the second half of the night every day. In this way, the whole family worked hard for several months. In less than half a year, the twins' weight, height and various health indicators met normal infant standards. The whole family felt very relieved when they saw the child’s sweet smile.
After the age of one year, the twins will not only call "mother and dad", but also gradually learn to call "grandfather and grandma, grandparents". When seeing older and younger neighbors and strangers, they will also take the initiative to call "grandma, uncle, aunt, brother and sister" respectively, especially to their brother, and they are very intimate, and "brother, brother" keeps shouting. He is particularly attached to his father who works in another place and often picks up the phone or shouts "Dad" in the photo. However, seeing that children of the same age have learned to walk one after another, the whole family is very anxious, fearing that there will be problems with the child's bone growth. So we often helped and helped our children learn to walk. Soon, the twins stumbled and learned to walk by themselves. After learning to walk by themselves, the twins no longer wanted adults to help them. They insisted on walking by themselves. After falling down, they got up and continued walking.
But unfortunately, it still happened! After one and a half years old, due to adult negligence, Yuanyuan accidentally fell off a large toy in the playground. Because her right hand supported the ground, she caused a slight fracture of her right forearm. Although she was cast, the bones were not growing very ideally. More than a month later, the cast was not removed. However, Xiao Yuanyuan was very strong. Except for crying a little in the first few nights, she still smiled happily every day and called intimately, including the doctors, nurses and aunts in the hospital. When Brother Tuantuan saw Yuanyuan’s younger brother being injured, he played with toys with one hand and gradually learned to be humble. Sometimes he would take the initiative to deliver toys to Yuanyuan’s younger brother.
The most worrying and heartbreaking thing is when the twin grandsons are sick. The twins get sick together almost every month.When they were about two years old, the twins suffered from viral dysentery one after another, vomiting and diarrhea every day for seven days and seven nights, and there was no cure. However, the twins still smiled and called people sweetly, followed the music and dance, followed the adults to count, and read books carefully... Of course, the twins often cried, sometimes because of illness, sometimes because of hunger, sometimes because of snacks, sometimes because of wanting to watch TV... But as long as they take them outdoors, they no longer cry, shout happily, and run quickly! Outdoors, my twin grandson is really loved by everyone. Everyone wants to take a look at him when they see him. The words are all said: "Handsome!"
After than two years old, the twins learned to ride bicycles and scooters and walk quickly in the community. I memorize the children's songs, Tang poetry, and the three-character classics with meticulous memorization. It is difficult for the two children to learn singing, dancing, and painting. I also like to perform. When I arrived at a crowded place, I pretended to introduce myself with the microphone and then started performing. Of course, two children are inevitable to quarrel and fight together. Although they were still reluctant to give in to each other, gritted their teeth, fought for each other, and refused to give up, but in a moment, the clouds disappeared and the reconciliation was as before. As they grow older, the number of quarrels and fights between the two men is getting less and less.
Nowadays, the twins are in the kindergarten and are about to enter the first grade in the second half of the year. A tense learning career is about to begin. I hope they will always remain innocent and childlike. I hope the whole society will reduce the burden of learning for children. I hope children will grow up healthily and happily every day!
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Wu Mingbao, the commonly used pen name Haichuan, male, born in 1952. The retired predecessor is the head of the Education Supervision Office of Zhenjiang Jingkou District Government. He is currently the secretary-general of Zhenjiang Wenjie Research Association, the secretary-general of the Working Committee of the Elderly of the Education Bureau of Jingkou District, Zhenjiang City, director of Zhenjiang Couplet Poetry Association and Zhenjiang City Jingkou District Writers Association, Zhenjiang Writers Association , member of Zhenjiang City Education Youth Writers Association, special editor-in-chief of "Zhenjiang One Week", and special editor of "Jiangsu Education Daily". He has been hired to participate in the compilation of ideological and moral teaching materials for primary schools in Jiangsu Province for more than ten years. He has published tens of thousands of words such as prose, poetry, and literary commentary in the province every year, and has won many awards.
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Li Shuhua, pen name prodigal son in the book, female, born in 1966, senior middle school English teacher, Zhenjiang Writers Association, Danyang Writers Association, Danyang Poetry Couplet Association, Zhenjiang Municipal Party Committee United Front Work Department Non-party Intellectuals Association, Danyang Municipal Party Committee United Front Work Department Non-party Intellectuals Association, Danyang Charity Federation Volunteer, Danyang Husheng Xiaoju, Danyang Feng Huang Charity and Danyang Ruyi Charity members have published or won more than 1,500 papers, poems, essays, novels, comments, etc. in micro-issues, poetry, essays, novels, and comments, including "Synchronous Reading", "Writer Platform", "First-line Writers", "People's Magazine", "New Yangtze River Literature", "Art Gathering", "Women's Flower Literature", and other newspapers and magazines, as well as large and small websites, and forums such as "Simultaneous Reading", "Writer Platform", "First-line Writers", "People's Magazine", "New Yangtze River Literature", "Art Gathering", "Women's Flower Literature". Special columnist of "Chinese and Foreign Literature", "Contemporary Digest" and "The Most Beautiful Writer", founder, editor-in-chief and anchor of "Rand Flower Literature". The collection of essays "Song of the Waves" was published in August 2020.
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Chinese: The intense study career is about to begin, I hope they will always keep their childishness and fun.
English: Nervous learning career is about to start, I hope they will always maintain childlike innocent.
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