The mistress took the initiative to end her extramarital affair, and there was only one reason. She couldn't get what she wanted in a cheating man and was constantly giving.
No one was willing to do a loss-making transaction, and the small san would choose to leave and stop loss after losing for a while.
So the original wife, the best way to get the mistress to leave and end the extramarital affair is.
Let the cheating man not give the love the mistress wants, and he still has to keep having sex with the mistress.
Jiaxin had been exposed to an extramarital affair case before, which was done in this way.
The original wife Ms. He and her husband have been married for ten years, and her husband cheated on her female colleague.
The mistress is a typical mistress who lacks love. She is indeed with a cheating man for love.
The mistress’s parents divorced when she was nine years old. The mother married a rich man, and the mistress’s stepfather could not have children.
treats mistresses as their own. The mistress also lacks fatherly love and gets along well with her stepfather.
But when the mistress grew up, her relationship with the stepfather was a bit deteriorating. The stepfather was a normal person, and
noticed the situation, so she began to alienate the mistress, but she did not treat the mistress badly in terms of money.
The mistress told the man that her situation was to prove to the man that she was just lacking love.
She is with a cheating man because she loves to cheat men and needs the love given by the cheating man.
A cheating man does not have a deep relationship with his mistress because his mistress is young and beautiful, and is very proactive.
The man cheated on him did not refuse, and the two people developed an extramarital affair. The mistress behind
talked about her situation, and the situation of the two people getting along.
A cheating man feels that the mistress has psychological problems and his behavior is more extreme.
So the cheating man wanted to break up with the mistress, but the mistress was unwilling to break up.
even wanted to tell the original wife about the extramarital affair and tell the company's senior management to threaten the cheating man.
A cheating man is afraid that he will lose his marriage and his job will be lost, so he has to deal with his mistress perfunctory.
But a cheating man doesn’t love mistresses, and he is even a little afraid of mistresses.
naturally gets along well, and the cheating man even feels very painful in this extramarital affair.
So after persisting for a while, he chose to show off with his original wife Ms. He.
Ms. He came to Jiaxin for help, and on the one hand, he asked how to solve the mistress.
On the other hand, it is actually because I don’t trust the cheating man very much and don’t know what it is to cheat a man.
Jiaxin learned about the situation and believed that the cheating man was telling the truth.
he took the initiative to show off,
on the one hand is to confess to lenient and prevent problems in marriage.
can also allow the mistress to threaten him, reduce some of the handle and relieve his psychological pressure.
On the other hand, I want to use my original wife Ms. He to deal with the mistress , hoping that Ms. He will tear the mistress away.
This is also considered a cheating man's trick. Jiaxin told Ms. He not to be fooled.
Jiaxin told Ms. He that before solving the mistress, two points must be clear.
First point, a man who cheats is not a victim, and he is not innocent, and cannot be forgiven easily.
No matter whether the mistress takes the initiative to develop an extramarital affair, whether the mistress continues to entangle cannot solve the extramarital affair.
doesn’t hide anything, that is, there is a problem with the cheating man himself, and his betrayal is his own choice.
The mistress forced him to continue his extramarital affair, but did not force him to cheat.
Is it a cheating man’s fault? This is the original partner must be clear.
If you make a mistake, you have to pay the price, otherwise you will not have a memory and the original wife will never be forgiven easily.
What is easily forgiven must be the cheating man's cheating again.
Second point: the original wife will take the lead against the mistress, which is easy to divert hatred.
Just like the cheating man said, this mistress has some mental problems and is also more extreme in behavior.
It seems that she will have some feelings for her stepfather that she shouldn’t have, and even expresses it, and you can see the problem.
There is also a cheating man who wants to break up. The mistress directly threatens the cheating man, which can also show the mistress's extremeness.
So Jiaxin does not recommend Ms. He to deal with the mistress directly, because you are not sure what the mistress will do to hurt the original wife.
Obviously this mistake was made by a cheating man, so there is no need for the original wife to take risks and help the cheating man clean up the mess.
Jiaxin suggested that Ms. He resolve extramarital affairs without contacting the mistress.
Because Ms. He does not plan to divorce, she also wants to end this extramarital affair.
So referring to Ms. He’s appeal and the previous analysis, Jiaxin gave the following suggestions.
First of all, Ms. He wants to talk to the man who cheated on her.
wants to make the cheating man think Ms. He will help him, but she also tells the cheating man.
Ms. He herself is more prone to stimulation, and she can't bear it even if the mistress is so extreme.
So she can't face the mistress directly, but she will give advice to the cheating man.
The two faced the mistress problem together and solved the extramarital affair together.
can not only gain the favor of a cheating man, but also avoid head-on conflicts with mistresses.
Secondly, it is to let the cheating man not give any fantasies to the mistress.
The mistress is the mistress who loves. If a cheating man just doesn’t give the mistress the feeling of love.
If the mistress is not satisfied with the cheating man, the mistress will easily retreat.
However, because the mistress is more extreme, she will also threaten the cheating man.
makes the cheating man have to show that he loves the mistress a little, so the cheating man still needs to have a relationship with the mistress.
The mistress negotiates with the cheating man, asks the mistress to give him money, and then spend the money at home.
The man cheating in the car obviously doesn’t love mistresses, and he keeps talking about money with the mistresses.
After a long time, the mistress naturally cannot accept it, and cheating on a man is not irreplaceable.
The mistress quickly gave up on the cheating man and began to find another man to take the initiative to sacrifice herself.
Finally, Ms. He will continue to talk about the cheating issue with the cheating man.
It is necessary to let the cheating man pay some more price to cheat.
What books to admit mistakes and guarantees must be written by cheating men.
Don’t feel sorry for a cheating man at this time, and easily forgive the cheating man.
Instead, we need to find a way to make the cheating man have a memory and prevent him from being cheated twice.
At the end of the article, Jiaxin wants to say that all mistresses, no matter what they are looking for.
They can't accept it. In this extramarital affair, they are the party who suffers.
So a cheating man doesn't give his mistress loves, and he also makes his mistress pay.
, such as extramarital affair that can't get anything and only loses, and the mistress doesn't want it either.
If you have an extramarital affair and don’t know what to do, you can follow Jiaxin and send a private message to talk about your situation.
I am Jiaxin, a marriage maintenance teacher who focuses on the separation of third parties.
