May 12, 2008Wenchuan earthquake is a painful day that Chinese people cannot forget. Many lives have left this world. Some people are lucky enough to avoid the disaster, but their bodies are left with disabilities.
Just like the heroine in this article Liao Zhi, she was the lucky one for the Wenchuan earthquake that year, but she was unfortunate again, because as a dance teacher, she lost her legs, her 10-month-old daughter, and her marriage.
The unfortunate Liao Zhi did not fall into a slump and did not sink into the sea of suffering in life.
Natural disaster made Liao Zhi lose his legs, daughter, and marriage, but after learning from his mistakes, Liao Zhi had a happy life like a rebirth of "nirvana", opening a new chapter of his life full of positive energy, full of inspirational success.
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1 December 12, 985, Liao Zhi was born in Hanwang Town, Mianzhu, Sichuan Province.
When Liao Zhi was 21 years old, he met his first husband.
Liao Zhi walked with his first husband despite his family's opposition and soon became pregnant.
When Liao Zhi was 6 months pregnant, Liao Zhi discovered that her husband cheated on him. Due to the reality of his pregnancy, Liao Zhi did not propose to break up with her husband.
or eight days after giving birth to her daughter, the strong Liao Zhi went out to shop and buy daily necessities.
As a dance teacher, she even conceived her future work plan and discussed with the principal that she would open a dance branch and become the principal of the dance branch herself.
In a blink of an eye, it has been 10 months since my daughter Zhu Chongzhu came to this world.
The footsteps of time came carelessly to the afternoon of May 12, 2008.
After lunch, Liao Zhi and his mother-in-law took care of Chong Chong at home.
The leisure and quiet afternoon has not been enjoyed for long, and the Wenchuan earthquake, which is shaking in the earthquake, ruthlessly destroyed all this.
A few seconds ago, the house that was still a warm harbor turned into ruins in a blink of an eye, weighing heavily on my mother-in-law, Liao Zhi and Chong Chong.
In the darkness, accompanied by severe pain in the lower limbs, Liao Zhi woke up and turned around.
was rescued by the rescue team after Liao Zhi was buried in the ruins for 26 hours.
That ruthless earthquake not only took away her legs that were inseparable from her dance work, but also took away her mother-in-law's life and her 10-month-old daughter Zhunzhun's life.
Life just opened a window for Liao Zhi, but it closed it again with a clang.
The impermanence of life and the suffering of life were grimacing at Liao Zhi and laughing fiercely.
Liao Zhi's life suddenly fell from a paradise with flowers to hell.
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Liao Zhi was transferred to a hospital in Chongqing for treatment, and his legs had to be amputated.
When I was hospitalized, Liao Zhi repeatedly asked himself: "Why didn't I protect my daughter? Why did I survive by myself?"
Why? Why? Why are they like sharp daggers ruthlessly and cruelly cutting off her weak heart?
Countless days and nights Liao Zhi was immersed in the sad feelings of self-blame and guilt, and could not extricate himself for a long time.
Looking at another female patient in the same ward who was slightly injured in the earthquake and had her husband to accompany her throughout the whole process, Liao Zhi felt as if he had been knocked over a bottle of five flavors.
At that time, Liao Zhi was puzzled: Why is the difference so big when it is the same woman?
When she was buried deep in the ruins, her husband left without waiting beside her; when Liao Zhi was in the hospital for treatment, he needed someone to take care of her and her husband was once again heartbreaking absent.
The reason my husband didn't go to the hospital to take care of Liao Zhi, and the reason he gave sounds very strange.
"Did you know, I did this (not going to the hospital to take care of Liao Zhi, Yulequan note) to make you stronger."
When Liao Zhi heard this, he retorted sadly: "Why should I make me stronger? ”
008 Spring Festival, Liao Zhi divorced his first husband.
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At the end of June 2008, when he lost his legs, Liao Zhi, who loved dancing, had the idea of returning to the stage. After consultation with relevant people, everyone came up with the idea of letting Liao Zhi, who had lost his legs, kneel on the drum and dance. This is the origin of Liao Zhi's dance "Invigoration".
At that time, Liao Zhi's left leg bone was still remaining and stabbed outside the skin. The entire support point of his kneeling on the drum was completely dependent on the remaining little Knee . The pain of tempering can be imagined.
However, no matter how painful or difficult it was, Liao Zhi gritted his teeth and survived, because Liao Zhi said, "I would rather bear the pain in my body than face an empty self. "
The sword is sharpened, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold.
instead of being in pain, he is pitying and sighing and sinking, how can you cheer up and try to save yourself?
More than a month later, the dance "Invigoration" led by Liao Zhi was a great success. Applause and praise were like invisible awards flying overwhelmingly towards Liao Zhi, who was insulated and strong.
Liao Zhi's "Invigoration" inspired many people and also inspired her to "Nirvana rejuvenation" "The confidence of life".
As long as you have lofty ambitions, as long as you have strong will and take positive actions, then there is nothing in this world that can defeat you. The only thing that defeats you is your own laziness and self-deprecating self.
Later, Liao Zhi and his partner Yang Zhigang jointly performed the dance "Blooming Life" in the program "Dance Out of My Life" to win the runner-up.
Judge Yang Liping 's evaluation of Liao Zhi was: "The heart is soft, but in fact her will is strong, so I especially admire you. "
Host Zhou Libo 's evaluation of Liao Zhi is: "Little Liao Zhi's stand up can make many people who have already lying down mentally stand up again. ”
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Liao Zhi has seven or eight prosthetics, each with its own characteristics, and the applicable occasions are different.
Whenever a friend comes to Liao Zhi’s house to play, Liao Zhi will show her prosthetics to his friends, introduce their own characteristics and what kind of prosthetics to them on which occasions.
The expression is natural and the attitude is friendly, as it is known to everyone.
never dodges or avoids sensitively.
Liao Zhi's favorite prosthetics are prosthetics without packaging and only black steel pipes. She thought that the pair of prosthetics without any modification were cool.
Walking on the street, some children were curious about Liao Zhi's lost legs. Liao Zhi always said with a smile: "My legs have gone to Mars. "
Faced with everything unfortunate, Liao Zhi was relieved. She had regarded the heavy and dark yesterday as a light joke today.
The attitude of lifting weight is always the relief of the strong after seeing through the vicissitudes of life. After fully understanding the cruelty of life, he still loves life's open-mindedness.
and he carries the heavy and difficult snail journey of yesterday, how can he put down the past with heavy loads and move on to tomorrow's pace.
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For a long time after her daughter Zhucheng passed away, Liao Zhi was unwilling to be with the children because it would make her fall in love with her and she couldn't help but feel affectionate.
One day, when Liao Zhi was doing an activity in a hospital, she watched a group of children perform. Liao Zhi stood on the podium and looked at the child's tender little face and lively figure. She couldn't help but think of her deceased daughter Zhucheng. Bitter tears flowed into a river on Liao Zhi's face.
Once Liao Zhi said to someone: "I won't get married again, and I won't have children. ”
Time is the best medicine to cure pain.
As time goes by, as Liao Zhi's work gradually gets on the right track, Liao Zhi's heart that longs for love grows like a grassland blowing by the spring breeze.
In 2012, when Liao Zhi was doing prosthetics, he met Wang Qifan (Charles), a Chinese American who worked in the mainland.
Wang Qifan is an engineer who makes prosthetics, and the two are the same age.
After the two met, Wang Qifan often gave Liao Zhi help, and the two kept in frequent phone calls.
Once, when the two were talking, Wang Qifan said, let me guess what your future partner looks like: he is tall and big, and he will patiently help you adjust your prosthetics.
After a long guess, Wang Qifan finally plucked up the courage to confess to Liao Zhi: Let's date.
It turns out that Wang Qifan guessed that Liao Zhi's future boyfriend would "guess" according to his appearance and his thoughts.
Liao Zhi heard Wang Qifan's confession and was excited and thunderous as the tide came.
It turns out that Liao Zhi has a love for Wang Qifan, but she dare not think deeply. Unexpectedly, Wang Qifan's Cupid's arrow took the initiative to shoot over. How can this not make Liao Zhi happy to be dizzy?
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Wang Qifan and Liao Zhi are in love.
When the two went out for dinner, they stared at each other at their beloved sitting opposite the table, and were moved to tears.
The vast sea of people, searching for and searching. The person who has his heart belongs to was once far away from the world, it is difficult to find, but now it is close to you, and it can be held or held.
Fate, it turns out that it is so wonderful. The taste of happiness can only be understood but not expressed. The eyes are all about love confessions, and every move is a declaration of love.
However, Wang Qifan's parents did not agree with this marriage at first, but Wang Qifan said Liao Zhi's good words in front of his parents, and even more so on.
Finally, Wang Qifan's parents were moved. The three of them went to the backstage of the performance and makeup to watch Liao Zhi. The four of them hugged each other excitedly.
Waiting for Liao Zhi to perform, Wang Qifan's parents were busy taking photos and recording videos of Liao Zhi in the audience, and were very busy and happy.
Wang Qifan's mother praised Liao Zhi for his beauty like a lotus from the water.
After marriage, the two have 3 children.
The two people have a happy life after marriage, and the eyes of each other are filled with the smell of happiness. Liao Zhi, who lost his legs, did not sink into a slump, but instead worked actively and participated in various public welfare activities.
In 2013, during the earthquake in Ya'an, Sichuan, Liao Zhi rushed to the forefront of the anti-rescue and disaster relief site, and only slept for a long time after working for 5 days and 5 nights.
At the beginning, the rescue team was skeptical about Liao Zhi's work with prosthetics, but it turned out that Liao Zhi was not only competent for disaster relief and tent laying, but also did it faster and better than others.
Liao Zhi is known as the "most beautiful volunteer" in Ya'an disaster relief.
Liao Zhi not only did the charity activities actively and beautifully, but also did his dance work to the extreme, which is amazing.
Liao Zhi also participated in the Shanghai International Marathon.
Also Rock climbing , swimming, and publishing books.
The book he wrote, "Liao Zhi: The Beauty of Thanking for Life" has been highly praised and supported by Chinese and foreign cultural and entertainment celebrities such as Chai Jing , Chen Luyu , Yang Lan , Sa Beining , Suhehe , Sammi Cheng , Will Bowen, etc. Liao Zhi on the cover of
Her prosthetic limbs were next to her, with her hands on her knees, smiling calmly and confidently in front of the green background full of life.
Next to "Dedicated to You Who Never Give Up" is a photo of her being called "the most beautiful volunteer" by others when she was a volunteer in the Ya'an earthquake relief.
Book From the "Most Beautiful Volunteer" in Ya'an to the runner-up story of "Dance from My Life", the whole book is full of love and positive energy, giving people infinite courage to face the cruel world. It is a "book of courage for legless dancers to inspire their souls."
The book's score on Douban is 8.8. A few "little flowers" shining simple life philosophy in this book are picked for readers.
"Many people like to say when doing things: I can't do it, I can't do it. But I don't agree with this statement. Who is born strong? Whether it's the body or the mind, which kind of strength is not tempered in the process of training? ... So even though many people say: Only with strength can you do things. I still want to say: Doing things will become stronger."
"Life is impermanent. Today, when you look at other people's stories, whether you are smiling or crying, one day others will watch your stories... While there is still today, love everyone you can meet with your heart, mind, and effort, and your efforts and actions Movement is the true response to love. "
"Good love is mutual respect, mutual creation, and mutual trust; it is mutual willingness to sacrifice oneself for each other's dreams..."
"There is no absolutely perfect person in this world. Everyone has their own sadness, difficulties, weakness and sorrow, but as long as they have breathing, there are hope."
Like the above philosophical interpretations of life, love, and action, there are many good sentences with unique ideas, and there are countless.
Liao Zhi also starred in the movie " Lovely Agreement ".
Liao Zhi loves to smile but not to suffer. She is determined to use practical actions to change the world's stereotype of people with disabilities that cannot be independent, have no dignity, and are frowning.
Liao Zhi said: "If I don't come out, no one will change their ideas."
The strong, brave and wise Liao Zhi did it. She set a positive and strong life model for the disabled with practical actions, and a life model worth learning.
Before the earthquake, Liao Zhi's QQ space wrote this sentence: My world does not meet my ideals.
After losing her legs, Liao Zhi finally "reborn" through positive efforts, living out her self and living out the life she wanted in her ideal - self-improvement and bravery are invincible.
From losing legs, losing daughter, losing marriage to falling into a low point in life, to now having a happy family, a successful career, and a bright future. Liao Zhi's inspiring life fully proves that as long as you love life, face the difficulties of life, and actively strive to climb, you will definitely gain a wonderful life.
Everything has gaps of defects, but that is where the light of hope comes in.
All things are like this, and so are life.
