Xiao Yuan's father (middle) Yuan Changshou was in a trance. He had not had a meal a day. On the evening of November 7, the news that Xiao Yuan, a high school student at Maitreya No. 1 Middle School died in the dormitory, shocked everyone in the school. It also made people who heard about this constantly ask: Why? The reporter found in-depth interviews that the people who were hurt by the incident were not only Xiao Yuan's relatives, but actually there were more people.
Mother hangs herself the next day after being sent to school
2/7, at around 9:00 on Monday, at around 9:00, the father of Xiao Yuan, a high school student at Maitreya No. 1 Middle School, almost fainted after receiving the call from the school. His mother couldn't believe it after learning the news, and fainted suddenly after confirming the facts.
This is the second time they are facing the pain of losing their son. Ten years ago, their eldest daughter lost her life at the age of 9 because of an accidental car accident.
Although the message is true, they are not willing to believe it. Just one day ago on Sunday afternoon, Xiao Yuan's mother personally sent her son, who was nearly 180 cm tall and only 15 years old to the school. After sending him to the school, she also called the head teacher to tell her. They couldn't figure out how their son, who had been sent to Maitreya No. 1 Middle School for less than 100 days, suddenly disappeared?
At that time, the family notified each other that they had invited more than ten relatives to go to school to figure out what was the reason?
When we arrived at the dormitory building where the son of the school lived, we found that there were already many police officers on the scene, and many teachers from the school were also on the scene.
It was not until the early morning of the next day that the on-site investigation of the police was initially completed. But the preliminary conclusions that the police told them were still difficult for them to accept at once.
Xiao Yuan's relatives are waiting for the public security organs to give a conclusion
Lock the dormitory door and hang themselves on the bed
Deputy Director Zhao of the Maitreya Municipal Public Security Bureau introduced: After receiving the alarm at 8:51 that night, the Public Security Bureau immediately rushed to the scene with criminal investigation, police officers from the police station, and the two deputy mayors in charge of education and public security arrived at the scene. After the public security organs conducted on-site investigation, body checks, investigations on classmates and teachers in the same dormitory, and fully checked the campus surveillance video, the preliminary conclusion was that Xiao Yuan committed suicide by hanging himself. The surveillance video shows that after the classmates in the same dormitory that night, no one has entered or left the dormitory. Xiao Yuan’s dormitory door was locked from the inside with a small lock of the security door. There was no sign of chaos at the scene, and there was no trauma in the body checking. The items used for hanging themselves were hung on the head of the bed of the high and low beds. Based on these situations, the method of death is suicide.
. After seeing the scene, Xiao Yuan's relatives told reporters that they were using shoelaces.
Learning the preliminary conclusions of the police, the whole family was unwilling to believe that a young teenager would die in the dormitory by himself. They suspected that there must be other reasons. Some even said that the school put too much pressure on Xiao Yuan's death.
However, after watching the scene, watching surveillance videos, and recalling some recent actions by Xiao Yuan, the family had to accept this fact.
found signs and asked the home to get a guide for one week
After the reporter contacted each other, Vice Principal Wang, who was in charge of safety at Maitreya No. 1 Middle School, accepted an interview. He introduced that Xiao Yuan belongs to the school-selected students within 10% of Maitreya No. 1 Middle School. The high school entrance examination scores of students are some students whose admission scores are higher than the Maitreya High School admission scores but lower than the Maitreya No. 1 Middle School admission scores. After Xiao Yuan entered the school in September, the head teacher found that he was introverted at work and was not good at communicating with classmates and teachers. He barely made a sound when the teacher talked to him. During his studies, he has low interest in learning and his academic performance cannot keep up. However, because he has just entered the first year of high school, teachers and students will not regard these as standards, because many students are not used to it at the beginning of entering high school. Some of them will improve their grades after finding a suitable method for their study. It is impossible for the school to discriminate against any student in this regard. But after the head teacher discovered his uncommunicative personality, he also talked to him, but he almost kept silent.Later, the teacher heard from a classmate in the same dormitory that he had conflicts with his father, and found that he used a knife to carve words like "resentment" and "curse" on his hand. He communicated with him without saying a word. On Monday, November 30, the head teacher notified the parents that after his mother arrived at school, she saw the words on his hand and blamed him for not doing this and asked him to study hard. At that time, Xiao Yuan told his mother: If you force me again, I will die to show you! The teachers only realized that he was extremely disgusted with learning. Considering that it is easier for parents to communicate, he asked his mother to take him home to guide the communication first. His mother took him home that day and only delivered it on Sunday. After
was sent to school, the head teacher also asked his mother how she was doing. His mother also told the class teacher: OK, OK, nothing is wrong. No one expected that such a thing would happen just one day after I was sent to school.
Xiao Yuan's relative also told reporters that his family's family is not bad. After hearing that he didn't want to study, he told his parents that if he really didn't want to study, he should not read it.
A teacher introduced that because the Maitreya Education System is organizing literary and artistic activities these days, teachers and students have been selected to rehearse. There was also a teacher in Xiao Yuan's class who took a few students to rehearse. When he returned to the classroom at around 8 o'clock that night, he found that Xiao Yuan was not in the classroom. The head teacher quickly led the students to look for him, but when he arrived at the dormitory, he found that he had locked the door. After opening the door, I found him hanging on the bed. The head teacher quickly put him down. When the school doctor came to see him, he lost his breath.
Xiao Yuan hangs himself dormitory building
The school is worried that there will be teachers who will not want to take care of students in the future
Xiao Yuan's death quickly spread throughout the campus. Because Xiao Yuan lives in a dormitory building with more than 800 students. In order to avoid panic and cause other accidents and cooperate with the on-site investigation of the public security, the evening self-study of the students in this building extended for an hour until 11:45 that night. Afterwards, the school transferred all the class teachers to this building to greet the students.
htmlOn November 8, more than a dozen relatives of Xiao Yuan came to the school and asked the school to give an answer why Xiao Yuan committed suicide. Vice President Wang said helplessly: Who can answer this question? As a result of the statement that the school requires that the family bear all responsibility, Vice Principal Wang said: The issue of responsibility can only be determined by a third party or judicial authority, but the school will never promote the responsibilities it should bear.reporter interviewed several teachers at Maitreya No. 1 Middle School, and many of them expressed the same concerns. They said that because they heard that their families proposed to take full responsibility, ask the school to compensate, accusing the school of pressure on students, it is likely that many teachers will no longer dare to manage students in the future, and even dare not criticize students who make mistakes. Then how could the school become a school?
There is also a teacher who said that the family had always disagreed with moving Xiao Yuan's body to the funeral home, which also caused panic among the students. Fortunately, after negotiations, the body was removed on December 9. To this end, the school also organized teachers to provide psychological counseling to Xiao Yuan’s classmates in the same dormitory.
Most parents hope that the school’s discipline cannot be relaxed
Because it was accused that the school and teachers put pressure on the students, the students hanged themselves. The reporter interviewed high school students and parents from different schools for this.
Several parents who are preparing to pick up their children at Kaiyuan No. 1 Middle School believe that only by stress can you have the motivation to learn. In fact, sending your children to No. 1 Middle School is actually the parents putting some pressure on their children. Whose parents don’t want their children to study hard?
Another parent said: If a school has no discipline and teachers are unwilling to manage students, then who would send their children to such a school?
A parent of a student from Maitreya No. 1 Middle School said: It is impossible to send their children to the school and then turn them all into the school. School education, family education, and social education are indispensable. As the saying goes, parents know their children better than their father. Parents understand their children's personality traits best. They communicate with them equally, communicate more, discover any signs of their children's thoughts, and communicate with teachers in a timely manner. This is the correct way. Especially for children who are in a rebellious period during adolescence, it is impossible to overcome this hurdle with only one side.
At present, Xiao Yuan’s relatives are discussing matters with the school for handling the funeral.
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