After participating in "Sisters Riding the Wind and Waves", Wang Xinling became popular.
Thinking about the beginning, she was the sweetheart leader of the popular boys and girls. She defeated Jolin Tsai on her second album and won the championship of G-music for the second time. The idol dramas she starred in " The Wedding Dress of Heaven " and " Smile PASTA", are both the annual ratings champions of Taiwan Province.
In my opinion, she shouldn't have "turned on" at all, but should keep going on.
But because she met a scumbag, her reputation was ruined for a long time and her career plummeted.
Mr. Wang came out and bit his ex-wife. Netizens felt sorry for Big S. Compared with Mr. Wang, the scumbag that Wang Xinling met is not only is more toxic, but also has greater craziness , but also has more .
It is not an exaggeration to say that she is "scumbag harvester" and "scumbag iron-sucking stone" .
I hope all girls can learn about Wang Xinling’s love history, especially those girls who are frequently scumbags and have a rough relationship.
Using Wang Xinling as a mirror, you can see clearly the true face of the scumbag, thus getting rid of the "scoundrel constitution" and finding your own happiness.
01.
982, Wang Xinling was born in Hsinchu, Taiwan. Growing up in a single-parent family, my mother took her and her younger brother alone, and life was very difficult.
When the most financially-financed, the family was only 100 yuan left. My mother bought a bento for her brother and sister to eat, and she was hungry.
Because of the huge pressure, my mother also suffered from depression .
Xin Ling has to face her mother's unstable emotions and take care of her younger brother like a little mother. She can only force herself to be independent and strong.
Fortunately, my mother has many good sisters. With their help, the family of three survived the most difficult period.
Later, my mother became a resident singer in a Western restaurant, and often took Xinling to participate in orchestra activities, record records, and perform at large-scale events.
After graduating from junior high school, Xinling wanted to enter the entertainment industry. Without hesitation, her mother sold her only car in her family, borrowed another money, and sent her to Huagang Art School to study.
Huagang is the most famous art school in Taiwan. It has produced many celebrity artists, such as Jimmy Lin , Rainie Yang , Big S, S, Wu Peici , etc.
5-year-old Xinling got the opportunity to star in the MV with her pure appearance and outstanding singing voice, and also gained the pursuit of many boys. This includes her first love boyfriend Ou Dingxing .
Ou Dingxing is an actor who has starred in Qinghe in "Meteor Garden ".
He looks handsome, has a sunny smile, and is fascinated by him.
However, after just two months together, Xin Ling discovered that Ou Dingxing not only often steals, but also cheats on other girls. She was very angry and proposed to break up.
02.
1999, 17-year-old Wang Xinling participated in the TV series "The Car Is Chasing" and met 19-year-old Fan Zhiwei .
The two confirmed their relationship, but because they were both in the rising period of their careers, they did not make it public.
In order not to affect your boyfriend, Xin Ling kept her mouth shut no matter where she went.
. Fan Zhiwei knew that Wang Xinling would not allow scandals during the promotion period, but he directly admitted the relationship on the variety show: "I kissed Wang Xinling, and her lips were sweet."
In 2003, Xinling released his first album "Cyndi Begin". At the beginning, the sales of the album were not good. It was not until September of the same year that she became famous as an actor in " West Street Boy " and her sales improved.
Subsequently, she released her second album " Love You " . This album won the championship on the music pop chart for four weeks, sold 200,000 copies in Taiwan and 1.2 million copies in Asia.
In the same year, she starred in the idol drama "The Wedding Dress of Heaven", which won the annual ratings championship.
3 years old, she became the first Chinese actress to successfully appear in the international magazine "ELLE girl", and was a popular popular traffic at the time.
After becoming popular, she naturally had more job invitations. She was busy preparing for concerts, selecting songs, trying new dramas, participating in variety shows... She only slept for two or three hours a day, and her weight plummeted to 39 kilograms.
But no one expected that she was in full swing and was soon dragged down by a scumbag.
Her boyfriend Fan Zhiwei cheated on her and even made trouble for her twice.
, she covered up for him, and on the other side, he proudly admitted to the media: "Once at the airport, and once on the street of Zhongxiao East Road."
In 2005, Fan Zhiwei was once again exposed by the media for cheating. This time he cheated on Yang Yazhu, who was only 15 years old.
Wang Xinling couldn't bear it anymore and proposed to break up.
03.
009, Fan Zhiwei, who was once regarded as the successor of " Tony Leung " , was fired by the company where Wong Kar-wai is located. After failing to seek reunion, he took crazy revenge on Xinling.
He first slandered her cheating: "I fell in love with Wang Xinling without opening my eyes, and she cheated on William."
Xinling counterattacked: "I didn't have backbone to fall in love with Fan Zhiwei, he cheated on Xu Ruyun and Yang Yazhu."
Then, he released Xinling's private photos and talked about her first night: "I originally thought she was 17 years old." , the first time was given to me, but no. Actually, I was a little disappointed at that time. Before we dated, she had a boyfriend, a classmate from her Huagang Art School. "
But not long after, he publicly apologized to Xinling, saying that he had fallen into the trap of the reporter: " I really love her, she loves me very much, and when we decided to break up, we hugged our heads and cried bitterly."
Unlucky, Ou Dingxing also jumped out to catch the popularity and said that he had never had a relationship with Xinling, and her first time was given to Fan Zhiwei.
Ou Dingxing also revealed to the media that he and Wang Xinling are "pure love" , and Xinling has also committed suicide to keep him. As for the reason for the breakup with Xinling back then, he said this: " was framed. At that time, a girl from the same school came to my room and was very sad when she ran into it."
These two big men used the private affairs of other girls as topics of conversation and were shameless and despicable.
Farewell never comes singly. Xinling's father, who had disappeared for many years, also came to the door at this time, and cheated everywhere under her guise, causing her a lot of trouble and debts.
Under various pressures, Xinling had to pause the work at hand.
She locked herself at home for 66 hours and stood up and issued an apology statement.
Her agent Zhang Jiarong couldn't stand it and scolded Fan Zhiwei: "Obviously, Mr. Fan's value in the media is only his recollection of Miss Wang. Please consider changing careers carefully and don't bother us again."
The agency proposed to sue Fan Zhiwei for slander, but Xinling softened her heart and chose to withdraw the lawsuit.
Netizens called Fan Zhiwei despicable, but he responded shamelessly: " Not only is it said that I am consuming Wang Xinling now, but when I am better at my career in the future, she will be even more powerless to do such a thing at that time."
At the end of the incident, Wang Xinling, as the victim, was damaged in his image, his reputation collapsed, and his acting career was interrupted. Fan Zhiwei, the culprit, was safe and sound.
04.
012, after more than a year of silence, Wang Xinling returned to the entertainment industry.
0 years old finally won the opportunity to perform a world tour, actively prepared, and chose the first stop at the Taipei Dome, which was the stage she dreamed of for many years.
In the same year, under the introduction of her close friend Xiaomi Tao in the circle, she fell in love with Yao Yuanhao .
Yao Yuanhao looks handsome and is good at making desserts, especially chocolate brownies. His girlfriends he had dated before were all white and rich and beautiful.
Soon after, the photos of Yao Yuanhao and Xinling playing on the beach were exposed by the media, and Xinling was named "third party". Only then did she realize that Yao Yuanhao lied to her that he had a girlfriend, and his girlfriend was supermodel Sui Tang .
Xinling immediately held a press conference to clarify that he was not a third party: "I was hurt by a third party, and I absolutely did not allow myself to be the third party in other people's relationship. When Yao Yuanhao and I were together, Yao Yuanhao broke up. Later, Yao Yuanhao chose to get back with my ex-girlfriend, so I left. It was not until Yao Yuanhao came to me again and said that he had completely broken up with his ex-girlfriend, so he was together."
Yao However, Yuan Hao said to the media: "Sui Tang and I have a good relationship ."
Sui Tang also said in the interview as a victim: "My heart is like being cut by an art knife one by one."
Because of this, Xinling's popularity was damaged, and the original tour was also interrupted.
She posted a sad message saying: "Love is a two-way heart, two hearts that really want to be together, cherish and work hard, deteriorating love, like two people holding rubber bands, the one who is hurt is always unwilling to let go, and sometimes it is better to turn around and leave than to persist as if nothing happened. Breaking up requires courage and determination to persevere, and dragging it on is even more hurt."
In fact, everyone in the circle knows that Yao Yuanhao and Sui Tang have been together for 8 years, and every time they break up, they will involve the so-called third party. Previously, Hong Xiaoling Hong Xiaoling After, I was involved in the relationship between them and accused Yao Yuanhao of using her to hype.
Many people thought that Xinling could always see Yao Yuanhao's true face, but they did not expect that a few months later, she and Yao Yuanhao would get back together.
016, Xinling finally stood on the stage of Dome . She said: "In fact, many people don't know about this concert. It was three years late. Three years ago, I lost everything because of a love affair. Including the small dome concert in preparation, some people said I was brave, and some people said I was stupid. They all asked me, would I still be willing if I could do it again? I really want to say that I felt very tired at that time, and if I could, don't do it again! But love is not like this. If I have the opportunity to love someone well, it will be worth it!"
In 2017, Xinling and Yao Yuanhao officially broke up.
05.
Good men are different, but scumbags are in line with each other.
Five months after the breakup, Wang Xinling was cheated by Yao Yuanhao again on the eve of the concert.
He released a private photo of her wearing underwear, and the scale was even more excessive than Fan Zhiwei took.
Her agency said she wanted to hold Yao Yuanhao legally responsible, but Yao Yuanhao said that the photos were taken by him, but they were not scattered by him, and she also yelled to return his innocence to Xinling.
Xinling's assistant couldn't stand it anymore and cursed: "The only one with you at her house at that time. Do you want to just say that I stole your phone and missed it???"
Yao Yuanhao could not argue and posted it: "Let's face it together.""
The friends around Wang Xinling were so angry:
" Dogs and photos can't be kept well! "
" There is no sorry or a sorry, why should Xin Ling face the trouble he caused together? ”
From then on, Xinling entered a low period of career, the sales of new albums declined, the reputation fell, and the only little popularity left was consumed.
During that time, her announcements were pitifully few, and the only few concerts were also faced with the embarrassment of not being able to sell tickets.
But she never said a bad word from Yao Yuanhao from the beginning to the end: "I don't know if I will lose everything for a love, but I know that whether it is good or bad, I must take it bravely. "
As she ages, Xinling's pure and sweet route is no longer popular. After many failures in transformation, her face changed greatly because of cellular tissue inflammation, and was questioned for failure of plastic surgery.
Gradually, she was forgotten and became the memory of the times.
06.
In 2017, Wang Xinling met Lan at a party. Wei Wen. He is a rich second generation, with a pretty appearance and generous appearance. He gave her a bag worth more than 200,000 yuan as soon as he met. He also reported her itinerary every day and asked her about her well-being.
Wang Xinling fell in love again.
However, their relationship was opposed by Lan's father. He believed that after dating an artist, Lan Wei Wen and his family would become transparent, and their hearts must be strong enough to withstand the test. He firmly opposed them being together, and also banned Lan Wei Wen for two days.
So, the two broke up.
It was probably because of rebellious mentality. After the breakup, Lan Weiwen was obsessed with Xinling.
Recently, the media photographed the two of them in the same frame, behaved in close manners, and suspected to be reunited.
Many people lamented that Wang Xinling had been so happy and welcomed true love , but I don’t know that Lan Weiwen had a girlfriend named Chen Ziying before. When she was engaged, she cheated on her...
Now, Wang Xinling’s career has ushered in a second spring, but her emotional world is still not peaceful.
Fan Zhiwei has spent more than ten years on her consumption, sometimes calling her an "old swan", and sometimes maliciously liked the video of "Female Star First Night" mocking her: " Don’t want to bear what you shouldn’t take, you can’t pick up rice. "
is a wrong sentence and a typo. It can be seen that this person is a desperate illiterate.
Netizen scolded him: "Being a man like you bullys his ex-girlfriend is really useless. "
But he said: "Some people's ex-boyfriends are always bad. "
is really the best among scumbags, the best fighter.
However, people are cheap and will be rewarded.
. The person who is Xinling is reluctant to deal with, God has cleaned up for her.
Ou Dingxing was sentenced to prison for stealing many times.
Fan Zhiwei is fat and bald, and now he is a waiter, with a monthly salary of 7,000 yuan.
Yao Yuanhao has become an outdated artist, and his current girlfriend has also had a history of cheating...
07.
Reviewing Wang Xinling's love history, it is not difficult to see that the lack of fatherly love since childhood has made her feel insecure. If others are a little bit nice to her, she will be moved. This is also the main factor that causes her to be frequently scumbag.
She once said in an interview: "If I can love each other, I will still be determined. If I really love someone, I will not regret it. "
Frequently being scumbag is not her problem, and not finding out that she is scumbag is her problem.
It is not scary to meet scumbags, but what is scary is that she has been meeting scumbags but has not noticed them at all. This means that she has not learned lessons from the pain of the past, and there is still a high chance of stepping on the mine in the future.
In reality, there are many girls like her.They are not only prone to provoking scumbags, but also prone to raising scumbags. Men who are not scumbags will become scumbags when they are with them.
In " Weird Talk ", Xi Rui said: "Frequently being scumbag is my problem. This frequent lies in the fact that we always bind our self-worth and whether we are in an intimate relationship. Emotional failure is a loss of self-worth for me. Therefore, when facing a relationship, we must be on guard and even give our hearts from the beginning. We even feel that as long as I give enough and as long as I suffer enough, the other party will respond to me. When the effort and return do not match When I was, I felt that I was being scumbag. What was scary was not about the moth-swinging fire-like investment, but more scary was about not knowing how to stop losses in time. It was obvious that I was caught by scumbag but inevitably. Frequent scumbag was of course my problem. My problem was that I forgot my needs, and blindly gave up dominant power in love. It made me realize that I kept putting myself in an intimate relationship to evaluate, and frequently letting another person define myself. "
If you want to get rid of the scumbag constitution, you have to break out of the victim trap.
Don’t treat frequent slags as an irreversible fate, but treat it as a problem that can be solved.
First, learn to prefix your needs and discover your own value.
From the beginning, we have actively and proactively controlled our feelings and life.
Second, learn to set the bottom line.
blindly giving in cannot make the relationship last long. Only with principles and boundaries can your love be more precious.
Third, beware of all those who easily deny you.
Fourth, learn to invest in yourself and love yourself.
puts yourself in a state of constant appreciation. Empower yourself and heal yourself.
Fifth, learn to request.
achieves [even balance] in intimate relationships.
Sixth, learning to stop losses in time is the greatest responsibility to yourself.
Seventh, alleviating the focus on emotional value.
th, firmly believe that you deserve a good lover.ninth, love with your heart, not with your ears.
tenth, select objects based on character as the first standard, rather than "be good to me", "rich, handsome", "honest", and "secure" as the first standard.
Psychological counselor Jin Yunrong said in "Fill your own cup first ": "Don't wait for others to fill your cup, and don't just make selfless contributions. If you can fill the cup in front of you first and be happy with satisfaction, you will naturally be able to share the overflowing blessing cup with the people around you, and you can happily accept the gifts from others."
Blessing every girl to be happy and safe, and the blessing cup is full.
