"So sad.
I dare not look at her bright eyes."
Recently,
A video of a 21-year-old single mother who delivered food in Anqing, Anhui Province has attracted widespread attention.
Currently, there are 85,000 messages on Douyin and
864,000 likes.
The video was forwarded to Weibo and
also received 58,000 reposts and 345,000 likes. In the
video, she introduced herself.
21 years old. Her husband died when the child was 5 or 6 months old.
mother-in-law drove her and the child out after receiving the compensation.
delivery of takeaway is because of the high salary and "can take care of the child."
When faced with the interviewer's question, she was generous and generous.
was always filled with a smile and her eyes were bright.
She talked about her parents not wanting to take their children with her,
so she left her hometown in Jiangxi and went to Anqing to work alone,
"My mother is for my own good,
She felt sorry for her own daughter,
But I also felt sorry for my daughter."
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many netizens left messages saying that they feel sorry for me, how should I suffer so much at the age of 21? Some netizens also lamented, "In just 3 minutes, a girl showed responsibility, optimism, tenacity and open-mindedness at the same time." "So cheerful, generous and optimistic, the more she is, the more sad it makes people feel." At the beginning of the
video, a young female rider who was resting on the roadside attracted the attention of the video blogger. Shocked by why students chose the food delivery industry, she smiled and replied that she could earn 7,000 or 8,000 a month for delivery, and emphasized that she could "have children."
When the blogger took it for granted that the child she was talking about was her younger brother or sister, her answer was shocked to the blogger and stepped back: "My own child."
"Your own child? Why did you have children so early?"
Faced with the blogger's surprise, she calmly explained that it was early for Jiangxi to get married, "As long as you don't study, someone will go on a blind date with you."
When asked about her partner, she said that when her daughter was five or six months old, her husband died in a car accident. After receiving the compensation, her mother-in-law drove her and her daughter away.
"Does she want her own granddaughter?"
"There can only be a son, but a daughter doesn't count." She had tears in her eyes as she said this, and she lowered her head from time to time.
Hearing her story, the blogger lamented, "It's really not easy."
Her tone seemed to be relaxed again: "What's so easy? When will you endure hardship if you don't endure hardship? (I) is only 21 years old, it's the time to endure hardship."
The female rider mentioned in the video that the reason why she left her hometown and went to work alone in Anqing was because her parents did not agree to take care of her children, "You may have a better life after you are 21 years old." But she firmly stated that of course she didn't think so, "Since she was born, she must be responsible." However, she also understood her parents: "My mother is for my own good. She feels sorry for her own daughter, but I also feels sorry for my daughter. She (daughter) is the life I want to live."
She said that she met many kind-hearted people. When you deliver takeout by yourself, you will put your daughter in a familiar McDonald's store, and the staff "take care of her (daughter)."
Speaking of her current plans, she said that she wanted to earn money to raise her children and go to college, "You can't get married as early as I do."
She said that her short-term wish is "buy a small house, just a small one, just as long as she (daughter) can live with me." Her eyes were shiny and full of smiles when she spoke.
The blogger commented that she was "a mother is strong", she nodded and then added, "but she resisted hard."
At the end of the chat, the blogger wanted to give her a red envelope, "This is for your baby", but was rejected. The female rider smiled and said firmly, "This is a personal bottom line, you can't touch mine."
Some netizens left a message saying that she belongs to Anqing and was deeply impressed by this girl. Two years ago, she once delivered takeaway to herself with her baby on her back. Later, at around 10 o'clock in the evening, she saw her picking up the food on her back.
Someone expressed his feelings for heartache, "Where is the age to endure hardship at the age of 21."
Someone said, "Whether it is a confident, brave and kind girl because of helplessness, she is a confident, brave and kind girl." She also said bluntly that the female rider's approach and mentality in facing difficulties is much better than most people.
Netizens lamented her optimism and tenacity, and her generousness also made many netizens admire her.
Someone also said, "The more she does this, the more sad she feels, but people who work hard like this should not need the sympathy of others."
However, some netizens questioned the fact that the mother-in-law took away all the compensation, believing that the husband died unexpectedly after marriage, and the share of the heirs in the same order should be equal.
In response to this, the female rider responded in the follow-up video that mother-in-law is old and has a teenage child, "She has also lost a son." She said that her mother-in-law would "give some money or something every few months", "I am still young now, and I feel that I can afford to raise my daughter."
Observer.com calls the local women's federation to inquire about the relevant situation. The staff said that they had learned about this and went to visit the woman, and the specific content was not convenient to disclose. In the
video, the woman is wearing a work clothes that was delivered by SF Express in the same city. Observer.com contacted the head of SF Express’s public relations department. The person in charge said that the company gave her some personal material funding, but she did not accept it and had invited her as the company’s charity ambassador.
The female rider refused the interview. After soliciting her opinions, the above-mentioned person in charge replied that she does not want to accept the interview at the moment, but just wants to run the order well, "maybe I feel that it is not that level yet."
She has been sharing her daughter’s daily life on her social account. The first video was released in May 2021 and has 142,000 fans. The recent videos have received more than 10,000 likes. In the latest video, she captioned it: "A by chance, I received encouragement and care from many netizens. Just work hard, everything else depends on God's will."
She also confessed to her daughter: As long as her daughter "is not bullied, I am worth it for happiness. The world is big and happiness is very small. There are no very good conditions for you, but I try my best to make you live a good life and protect you."
(Qianjiang Evening News, Observer Network, Douyin, netizens, Shanghai News Broadcast , etc.)
