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Love is like a rainbow after the rain, hanging in the distant horizon, making people forget the road under their feet, and their hearts just want to go to the distance.
When a man loves a woman with a sincere heart, it shows clearly like a thermometer, but he is afraid that women will ignore it selectively.
Song Tong and Tao Yu have been in love for three years, but they have no plans to get married for a long time. Tao Yu sometimes proposes to find time to meet both parents. Song Tong always refuses on the grounds that he is busy with work.
Song Tong was very considerate and careful when pursuing Tao Yu, but after the two of them were really together, he became more and more lazy to care about Tao Yu.
Once, Tao Yu was wronged at work and called Song Tong to talk. Song Tong interrupted her without waiting for Tao Yu to finish speaking and said, "If you have anything to say, let's talk about it tomorrow. I'm going to play games!" Listening to the busy sound coming from the phone, Tao Yu's tears instantly broke.
In life, Song Tong rarely bears responsibilities and economic pressure. Tao Yu is responsible for the monthly rent, water and electricity. Song Tong always ignores this, as if none of these responsibilities exist.
Tao Yu wanted to get married with Song Tong, so she didn't care who spent more money in life. She often comforted herself like this. As long as two people support each other, they would always get better.
For a while, Song Tong resigned at home, regardless of Tao Yu's hard work, and never thought of sharing the housework. No matter how dirty or messy the house was, he was waiting for Tao Yu to get off work to clean up.
, while he was sitting leisurely in front of the computer playing games, or lying on the sofa watching TV, the ground was filled with beer bottles and ashes.
Tao Yu always felt that because she was not married yet, Song Tong could not feel the responsibility and pressure on her shoulders. Maybe she would be better in the future. She had been waiting for Song Tong's change.
Until one day, Tao Yu found that Song Tong was still in contact with other women, and she would chat on her phone until late at night every day, and her heart seemed to fall into an ice cellar.
Tao Yu, who had completely woken up, left Song Tong without hesitation. All his actions were telling her that he did not love her.
When a woman feels that the other person doesn’t love her, be sure to believe in her own feelings and don’t make excuses for deceiving herself.
Because if a man does not love you, he will not be moved by your persistence, and your deep affection will make him avoid it.
The tenderness given occasionally is poison. Everyone can love others with confidence and be loved, so why bother humbly to the illusion? Loving yourself is more important than anything else. It is enough to be stupid once. Don’t give the other party a chance to hurt yourself repeatedly.
02
If a man has never been sincere to a woman, the specific manifestations are as follows:
Can't see the woman's tears or hear her complaints.
Is a man sincere to a woman? It is best to show when a woman crys. When a woman is sad or wronged, she doesn't care at all, because she has no status in her mind.
When in love, a woman's frown, a tear can make a man mess up, and he will feel that no small beauty in life can compare to her smile.
But the longer you spend together, the trivial things in life will break love and slowly erase love.
Love is gone, and men’s sincerity towards women is gone. Similarly, if a man has not dated a woman with sincerity, then his feelings will be pale and powerless.
There is no true love, which is already a burden for men, and for men, a woman's tears undoubtedly only increase men's annoyance to women, and will not get any pitifulness from men.
is unwilling to work hard, spending money on women.
If a man is not sincere to a woman, a married man will not make any plans for the future of two people.
In his heart, he had never cared about what the future of the two people would look like. So he will not fight for the future of two people.
Not only that, he doesn't care about his life, nor does he care about women's lives. Sometimes, it will become a stumbling block in women's life.
pushes all living expenses to women, throws the focus of life to women, but does not work hard and is content with the status quo.
A man at this time cannot see the hard work and efforts of women, but he is still asking women to give more, but he does not seek progress at all and is content with the status quo.
does not know how to be self-disciplined and has connections with other women.
The most important thing that men have not given their sincerity is that men do not know how to discipline themselves and still play tricks on their own when they have a girlfriend or even get married.
After two people were together for a long time, this man no longer had photos of you in his circle of friends, no longer willing to take you to his party, nor would he be moved by you again.
When he is not sincere, he will not be self-disciplined in this relationship. He no longer tells you some truth, but dreams of the woman he is hiding in his mind, but not the person around him.
When a man does not know how to be self-disciplined and has connections with other women, he must not love him.
03
often hear women complaining about how to give up a relationship that is not worth it. However, when a man cannot give love to a woman, why not choose to let go?
Love is not something you can get by just compromising and seeking everything. Love that is so humble, you won’t be happy. You must see clearly whether a man is in love with a woman with sincerity.
Not all feelings are worthy of women's efforts, and not all men are worthy of a woman's heartfelt and kindness to him.
If a man doesn’t care about a woman’s feelings and doesn’t cherish each other’s feelings, even if he loves each other deeply, his love will be squandered completely.
Therefore, a man who is not suitable for you and his feelings must be let go as soon as possible and stop the loss in time after seeing it clearly.
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