text丨Tao Xiaojing
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The relationship between men and women is not as mentioned in the oath, and can love until death.
Until death, it is just a beautiful fantasy, and fantasy cannot replace reality after all.
Fellows in real life actually have a shelf life. Once the shelf life passes, all the beauty will disappear, and only long-term separation will be replaced.
Maybe you still have expectations for love, but one day you will understand that even if a person promises you to be inseparable from life and death, you will never escape the ending of parting ways.
Reality is so cruel, feelings are so fickle, you can't always deceive yourself.
Everything in this world will disappear with the passage of time, including the feelings between two people. Once the relationship is gone, giving up is the last choice.
People who want to give up on you may not tell you directly, but they will quietly hint you during the process of getting along.
He hopes you can understand his hints, and then reach an agreement with him to end the relationship peacefully.
Even if you are unwilling to let go, you must understand that a person will hint you so much when he intends to give up on you.
will become busier and busier
busy seems to be a normal thing, but it has become a means for many people to refuse.
Rejecting people you don’t like will say that you are very busy; rejecting parties you don’t want to attend will say that you are very busy; refusing to get close to your lover will also use busy as an excuse.
When a person intends to give up on you, being busy is his best excuse. No matter how you ask him, he will be very busy.
You think he is really busy, but you don’t know that this is just a way for him to reject you.
When he still loves you, even if he is too busy, he will take time to accompany you, never complain or make excuses.
Once he plans to give up on you, even if he is idle and has nothing to do, he will create the illusion that he is very busy to prevent you from being disturbed.
The person who rejects you so deliberately is clearly not wanting to continue with you anymore, so why do you deceive yourself?
You should know that being busy is the most obvious rejection. When you find that a person is getting busier and busier, don’t bother him anymore.
will become very silent
When a person who loves to talk starts to remain silent in front of you, you will definitely feel that he is in a bad mood.
In order to make him happy, you thought of many ways, but he still remained silent and refused to speak.
When faced with this situation, don’t think that you are not doing well enough, but know that the person in front of you actually has the idea of giving up on you.
The reason why he remains silent is not because he is in a bad mood, but because he doesn't want to talk to you.
What else can I miss if I don’t even want to talk to you? Even if you miss it, he will still leave you.
In love, silence is the answer. When a person starts to remain silent, it means that he no longer loves you.
Although he didn't say anything, his intentions were obvious, you shouldn't pretend to be stupid and don't understand.
No matter how much you love him, don’t continue to stick to it. Take the initiative to let go of the person who wants to give up on you, so that you will not be hurt more.
will deliberately alienate you
Two people who truly love each other, and even if there is a conflict, they will not deliberately alienate you. Only those who don’t love you will try their best to alienate you.
After a person does not love you, he will regard you as a disaster, and even if you just get closer to him, he will keep retreating.
His retreat was subconscious, which means that he had already begun to resist you from the bottom of his heart. No matter how good you are to him, he would never approach you again.
When he loves you, he likes to be with you very much. He holds your hand wherever he goes, and does not give you any chance to break free.
I don’t love you anymore, and he wants to withdraw from your world immediately.Although he did not directly break up, his heart no longer has your place.
He will avoid your touch without a trace, will widen the distance between you, and will refuse to have close contact with you.
These performances are actually hinting that you have made plans to give up on you. Whether you want it or not, he will leave you.
Faced with this hint, you'd better be more sober, let go of your hands as soon as possible, and stop begging.
Xiaojing's emotional message:
In love, few people will directly admit that they don't love because no one wants to take responsibility.
In order to escape from the relationship as soon as possible, many people chose this method of behavioral hints.
The so-called behavioral hint is to use some behaviors that are different from ordinary people to convey the idea that you want to leave.
When a person intends to give up on you, he often hints you like this.
When you see a person having these implied behaviors, you must know clearly that there is no possibility between you.
If you don’t want to be hurt more, then be prepared as soon as possible and face his departure calmly.
