"I am 80 years old, how can I stand the blow of divorce? I said, if I go to jump off the building after the divorce is sentenced to divorce!" This is what a billionaire said when he was angry before the divorce judgment.
But things didn't go as they wished. On January 28, 2022, the Chengdu Intermediate People's Court made a judgment - ruling that Qiu Xianfu and Tian Li divorced.
On March 4, 2022, this old man, who was already in his 80s, finally couldn't help but lose his attitude in front of the reporter's camera. He put down his pride as a billionaire and told his first half of his life in front of the reporter's camera with tears in his eyes.
Now located in Chunxi Road , located in Jinjiang District, Chengdu, has become the background board for internet celebrities to check in and take photos. With the support of self-media traffic, Chunxi Road has also become a prime location in Chengdu. It is extremely difficult for many companies to build a lower floor of office buildings on Chunxi Road.
Although Chunxi Road is worth every inch of land, among the property under Qiu Xianfu's name, in addition to many listed companies, real estate and a private museum, Qiu Xianfu also has a building on Chunxi Road. The price of this office building alone has exceeded hundreds of millions of yuan.
Unlike some rich second generations today, Qiu Xianfu has the current status of his own. After all, before 1983, Qiu Xianfu's life had nothing to do with the word "success".
1942, Qiu Xianfu was born in an ordinary family in Chongzhou, Chengdu. The birth of this new life immediately added a lot of joy to the Qiu family.
As Qiu Xianfu grew up little by little, Qiu Xianfu's parents gradually discovered that compared with studying and literacy, their children prefer to climb trees to pick peaches and go down the river to catch shrimps, which is more lively and active than their peers.
Looking at such a lively son, the Qiu family's parents couldn't help but feel a little worried. After all, they still hold the idea of "learning and being good at being good at being an official", believing that only after children can they make a good future for themselves after they can study well. After graduating from
, Qiu Xianfu successfully entered a local sports school with his good physique. After graduating from here, Qiu Xianfu was naturally assigned to a middle school and became a physical education teacher.
After you start a career, you will start a family!
With the matchmaker's matchmaking, Qiu Xianfu quickly entered the palace of marriage with his first wife. In the eyes of others, Qiu Xianfu has both a gentle and virtuous wife and a formal and stable job. Qiu Xianfu's life is safe and worry-free.
See you as older at the age of three, and look you as older at the age of seven!
When Qiu Xianfu was a child, he developed a spirit of running, making trouble, and daring to take risks. The word "stable" is actually a kind of restraint for Qiu Xianfu.
A few years later, Qiu Xianfu began to resign. Just as Qiu Xianfu was swaying from side to side, his wife's words made Qiu Xianfu make up his mind to resign.
"Look, your monthly salary in school is too small, not enough for us to pay for each month!"
Just like that, after his wife's casual complaint, Qiu Xianfu resolutely submitted his resignation to the school.
Qiu Xianfu firmly believed that with his intelligence, he would definitely be able to shine outside the school and provide his wife with a better living conditions.
But there are unexpected situations in the world, and people have good fortune and good fortune every day. No one knows which one will come first, luck or misfortune! Just when Qiu Xianfu was working hard in another place, Qiu Xianfu involved himself because of his friend's financial case.
After nearly ten years of prison life, in the autumn of 1983, Qiu Xianfu once again stood in front of the gate of Chengdu Chongzhou Prison. At this time, he was 41 years old after being released from prison. He had already walked nearly half of his life, but he still achieved nothing.
During the period when Qiu Xianfu was imprisoned, his wife finally left him because she could not bear the rumors from others.
Fortunately, the long-term prison life did not wreck off Qiu Xianfu's determination to do business. In addition, Qiu Xianfu was alone and had no worries at this time. When he was working hard for his career, Qiu Xianfu was still as energetic as a young man in his early twenties.
Under the dividends of the era of rapid economic development, Qiu Xianfu borrowed money from his friend as startup capital and chose to go into business without hesitation.
From then on, there was an additional middle-aged man setting up a street stall on the main road in Chengdu. Because Qiu Xianfu has a high aesthetic level and his eyes are very vicious when choosing clothes styles, Qiu Xianfu's stall is always filled with men and women who come to choose clothes.
clothing priced at more than ten yuan can often be sold twice as soon as Qiu Xianfu shouted. After a period of time, Qiu Xianfu not only completely paid off the debt he owed to his friends, but also saved tens of thousands of yuan in his own hands.
Qiu Xianfu understood that if he didn't find an opportunity to transform at this time, he would be a vendor who set up a stall and sold clothes for the rest of his life. But if he could use the tens of thousands of dollars in his hand to try it in a larger market, he might have achieved greater success.
In this way, Qiu Xianfu used the clothing industry as a springboard for his life, and devoted most of his wealth to the aluminum industry. Qiu Xianfu's business is getting bigger and bigger like a snowball.
By 1988, Qiu Xianfu already owned his own building materials company, worth one million yuan. When people around him met Qiu Xianfu, most of them would call him politely: Mr. Qiu!
Although Qiu Xianfu has been smooth in his business, he has been having a heartache over the past few years and dare not mention it to the people around him: First, after his ex-wife left him, there has been no one around him who knows the cold and the hot as his wife's helper; second, he is almost at the age of knowing destiny, but there has never been a man or a woman.
Just when Qiu Xianfu was worried about his love life, a female employee named Tian Li in the company attracted his attention.
At this time, Tian Li was only in her twenties and she liked to talk and laugh in the company. When Qiu Xianfu was dealing with daily work, he was often attracted by Tian Li's laughter and unconsciously glanced at Tian Li.
Over time, Tian Li also noticed that Qiu Xianfu treated her differently. After several private conversations, Tian Li was also attracted by Qiu Xianfu's unique temperament and generously accepted Qiu Xianfu's show of kindness to her.
On March 14, 1988, Qiu Xianfu and Tian Li's wedding was held as scheduled at the Jinjiang Hotel in Chengdu. Although more than thirty years have passed, Qiu Xianfu was still very excited when recalling the day when he held his wedding:
"I was already very rich in 1988, and I invited more than 200 people to have dinner!"
Although many people were not optimistic about Qiu Xianfu and Tian Li, the "old and young couple", they believed that Qiu Xianfu married Tian Li, just a picture; and the reason why Tian Li agreed to marry Qiu Xianfu was definitely for money. One day when Qiu Xianfu got old and couldn't make money, Tian Li would pat her butt and leave Qiu Xianfu without looking back.
These rumors have been heard in the ears of Qiu Xianfu and Tian Li, but the two were still not stuck by these worldly rumors. Instead, on the wedding day, they firmly made a promise to accompany each other for a lifetime.
Shortly after the wedding, another good news came from Tian Li that excited Qiu Xianfu: his wife is pregnant!
Since Qiu Xianfu is old, Qiu Xianfu couldn't help but feel pity for this little life that is about to join their new family.
In order to make Tian Li wait for delivery and not have too much psychological pressure, Qiu Xianfu asked her to put down all the work at hand. After ten months of pregnancy, Tian Li successfully gave birth to a healthy baby girl.
Looking at the baby in the cradle, Qiu Xianfu promised Tian Li: I must give you the best things in the world to you both!
After having a daughter, Qiu Xianfu was also full of energy when doing business. After more than ten years of hard work, Qiu Xianfu officially transformed from a millionaire to a billionaire. The hawker who once set up a stall on Chunxi Road also became the boss behind the scenes of a large company.
But what Qiu Xianfu didn't expect was that when he worked hard in the business world, his wife and herself had already cracked without realizing it.
It is said that Rome was not built in one day, and the relationship between Qiu Xianfu and Tian Li was naturally not broken in one day.
When Tian Li was just dating with Qiu Xianfu, a young sister around her joked: "Lili! You are going to get married to your old Qiu soon. When you become a rich wife, don't forget us!"
At the beginning, Tian Li did fantasize that when she really becomes Mrs. Qiu, she must live a comfortable life.
But when Tian Li really becomes the legitimate Mrs. Qiu, Tian Li discovered that Qiu Xianfu is different from other bosses who only know how to have fun, because Qiu Xianfu lived a hard life.
In this way, Qiu Xianfu is even more frugal than some ordinary people. When she first got married, Tian Li also complained a few times, thinking that she was the rich wife of her boss’s family was not justified.
But after a while, Tian Li felt relieved. She believed that the reason why Qiu Xianfu was so frugal was because Qiu Xianfu was still in the rising period of his career. When Qiu Xianfu felt that he had made enough money, he would not live so tightly.
But what Tian Li didn't expect was that she had been waiting for twenty years. During these twenty years, Tian Li watched Qiu Xianfu go from a millionaire to a millionaire and then to a billionaire, but the three of them have been living in two bedrooms and one living room in an old community.
Over time, Tian Li also muttered in her heart: Lao Qiu has never handed over the financial power of her family. Could it be that she is still worried about me and thinks that I am marrying him for his money?
Since having this idea, a seed of doubt has been planted in Tian Li's heart, but Tian Li is not good at questioning Qiu Xianfu in person, so she has to put her dissatisfaction into some daily trivial matters. The quarrel between the couple has also become a common occurrence between Qiu Xianfu and his wife.
Just when Tian Li was dissatisfied with Qiu Xianfu, Qiu Xianfu's next move stabbed Tian Li directly in the heart.
As we all know, before Qiu Xianfu married Tian Li, he had a wife, and the two of them also slept in the same bed for seven years. But strangely, during these seven years, Qiu Xianfu's first wife's belly has not moved.
Since Qiu Xianfu's family was not wealthy at that time, Qiu Xianfu did not take his wife to the hospital for a check-up. Therefore, Qiu Xianfu didn't know whether he or his first wife had problems with fertility.
After the joy of a daughter passed away, countless questions came to Qiu Xianfu's heart:
Why did he work hard with his ex-wife for so many years, but his ex-wife has not been pregnant? Why did Tian Li just follow her and have a stomachache?
If this daughter is really her own, why did Tian Li not give birth to other children with herself after giving birth to her first child?
Is Tian Li not her own child in her belly?
As my daughter grows up day by day, the question in Qiu Xianfu's mind is getting bigger and bigger.One day, when Qiu Xianfu was drinking with several of his old friends, those friends used the alcohol to say half jokingly and half seriously: Lao Qiu, your daughter is getting more and more beautiful as she grows. Fortunately, she is not with you, not with you!
After hearing this joke from a friend, Qiu Xianfu couldn't help but feel a sudden slap in his heart: Can even others see that his daughter doesn't look like him? Is this daughter really not his own flesh and blood?
Under the manipulation of this idea, Qiu Xianfu began to quarrel with his wife constantly. At the beginning, Tian Li only felt that when Qiu Xianfu got angry, she was confused. Over time, Tian Li also heard the rumors about her daughter's life experience outside.
After another big quarrel, Tian Li said harshly to her husband: What is the ability to just quarrel with me at home? If you have the ability, go directly to paternity test !
Finally, in the face of scientific test results, Qiu Xianfu breathed a sigh of relief: This daughter is really his own daughter.
Although the DNA identification technology gave Tian Li justice, Qiu Xianfu also understood that the couple could never go back to the past as close as they were:
"In fact, it also proved her innocence, but she misunderstood me deeply because of this."
After this "paternity test" storm, Qiu Xianfu also thought about making up for his wife and daughter. He kept explaining to Tian Li that he was confused at that time, so he did not believe in their mother and daughter.
But these apology did not win back Tian Li's already chilled heart. The next thing made Qiu Xianfu push Tian Li further and further.
As Qiu Xianfu's business is getting bigger and bigger, Qiu Xianfu naturally needs a few trustworthy people to be his right-hand man. Among these relatives in the company, Qiu Xianfu valued the most is one of his younger brothers.
After entering the company, my younger brother devoted himself and worked hard and made considerable contributions to the company. If you want to talk about this younger brother's only shortcomings, it is that he doesn't like the younger sister-in-law whom his brother Qiu Xianfu married.
Although Tian Li has been married into the Qiu family for more than 20 years, this younger brother still regards this sister-in-law as an outsider. Whenever there is a big or small incident in the company, the younger brother always reports the problem directly to his brother, but he always ignores his sister-in-law.
Although Tian Li is not a person who is good at dancing and versatile, she can also feel her younger brother's hostility towards her. Based on the principle that more things are worse than less, Tian Li and this younger brother also have a tacit understanding. The two have always taken detours in the company, for fear that they will have a big fight after they can't control their emotions.
As the saying goes, what you are afraid of comes from, although the two have always been polite on the surface, they have long been incompatible with the company's business philosophy.
After a company board meeting, Tian Li quarreled with her brother-in-law in the company. The more excited she talked, Tian Li finally put on her sister-in-law's posture and wanted to teach him a lesson. In anger, Tian Li couldn't help it, raised her hand and slapped her brother-in-law's left face.
Although Tian Li is a sister-in-law and is more than her brother-in-law in terms of generations, everyone in the company knows that Tian Li and Qiu Xianfu are "competent young and old". Qiu Xianfu is even older than Tian Li, and Qiu Xianfu's younger brother is 19 years older than Tian Li.
After Qiu Xianfu learned that Tian Li slapped his younger brother, he firmly stood on his younger brother's side, thinking that Tian Li's slap in the face was too much. After the company's subordinates knew about it, how could he let his younger brother gain a foothold in the company?
After some careful consideration, Qiu Xianfu still spoke to Tian Li, preparing to ask Tian Li to apologize to his younger brother, which can be regarded as helping him save some face.
But Tian Li believes that in the whole thing, it is clearly that the younger brother is wrong first. Even if he is nearly 20 years older than him, he is his sister-in-law and his boss at least. He is also slapping him in the face, so why do you still apologize to him by yourself?
What made Tian Li feel even more heartbroken was that her husband was not on her side and was just thinking about his younger brother. The result of this treatment was too unfair.
Just like that, under Qiu Xianfu's "mediation", not only did he not earn face for his younger brother, but instead made his wife resentful to him, and the relationship between the couple also fell to a freezing point.
At this time, Qiu Xianfu's daughter who ran a hotel in the United States also heard about the affairs between her parents. At the beginning, her daughter only thought that her parents were making small fuss. After her mother's anger faded, the relationship between the two parents would be as reconciled as before.
But after a while, my daughter mediated in the middle, she realized that the gap between her parents had reached an irreversible level. In front of the reporter's camera, Qiu Xianfu also looked helpless when talking about his daughter:
"(Her mediation has no effect on us couple) at all, so she completely lost confidence and let us handle it ourselves!"
When the reporter entered Qiu Xianfu's bedroom, dozens of express boxes and a cramped single bed came into view, which the reporter seemed difficult to imagine.
Chengdu's billionaire's living conditions are so "bad". There are not a few decent pieces of furniture in the house, and even the walls are simply pasted with wallpaper. In some places where the weather is relapsed, the wallpaper has been slightly raised, revealing the putty and moss under the paper.
But just in Chongzhou , Qiu Xianfu has an astonishingly rich private museum. Among them are many wood-carved porcelains from famous masters, and there are even masterpieces of famous paintings such as Qi Baishi and Zhang Daqian .
is such a private museum with a lot of treasures. However, Qiu Xianfu said openly:
"(I want to donate it) Donating property means donating part of the museum, and not donating fixed assets! These things should not belong to me, nor should they be inherited by my descendants. These are the cultural heritage of the Chinese nation."
But his wife Tian Li opposed Qiu Xianfu's actions. During the quarrels again and again, Tian Li believed that her marriage with Qiu Xianfu had come to an end.
After a period of preparation, Tian Li also appealed her divorce lawsuit to the People's Court of Jinniu District, Chengdu.
But to Tian Li's surprise, she appealed three times, and these three divorce lawsuits ended in failure. The reason given by the court is also very simple: the litigation reasons filed by the plaintiff Tian Li are not enough to prove that the marriage between the two parties cannot be maintained.
More importantly, Tian Li and Qiu Xianfu's only daughter were abroad at this time, and Qiu Xianfu was 78 years old at this time. Tian Li was already considered Qiu Xianfu's only relative. Therefore, as her wife, Tian Li should have certain legal obligations to take care of Qiu Xianfu.
Qiu Xianfu also clearly stated that if the court sentenced them to divorce, it would be like killing him:
"I am 80 years old. I hope that in this life, at the end of the end, there will be a family, not alone."
Seeing that his wife's three lawsuits ended in failure, Qiu Xianfu also breathed a sigh of relief. He believed that his wife had had enough trouble and it was time to come back and continue to live with him.
But Tian Li was determined to divorce Qiu Xianfu. After the first instance judgment, Tian Li immediately filed a lawsuit with the Chengdu Intermediate People's Court.
And the attitude of the Chengdu Intermediate People's Court is also very clear: send it back for retrial! After the retrial, the Chengdu Jinniu District Court still upheld the original verdict.
, who refused to admit defeat, filed a lawsuit with the Chengdu Intermediate People's Court again. This time, the court held that the relationship between the two parties had not been repaired and the plaintiff had filed three divorce lawsuits for , and the relationship between the two parties had indeed broken down.
On January 28, 2022, the Chengdu Intermediate People's Court made a final judgment: it was ruled that Tian Li and Qiu Xianfu divorced, and the property under the names of both parties is the joint property of the husband and wife, and should be divided equally at a ratio of 50% per person. The sudden verdict of
obviously caught Qiu Xianfu off guard. Qiu Xianfu held the verdict in his hand, and the more he thought about it, the more he became, the more he became more and more "unfair".
He believes that when the Jinniu District People's Court ruled that the two would not divorce, his wife once said that she was mentally ill and did not have enough money. He also happily added another 10,000 yuan (living expenses) to his wife every month. In the past, it was 10,000 yuan per month, but now it is 20,000 yuan per month.
Qiu Xianfu felt that he would always meet his wife's requests and that he had a deep relationship with her. Several times his wife filed for divorce, he disagreed.
Qiu Xianfu said: "I think of such an old age, it's embarrassing to talk about it." But now the court has announced the verdict, he has to accept this fact.
But what Qiu Xianfu couldn't accept was that when his wife married him, he had already had millions of pre-marital property, and now his family's assets of more than one billion were also obtained by his efforts with those millions.
When his wife married him, she was a small employee. Now if Tian Li insisted on divorce, she would get half of Qiu Xianfu's property. Qiu Xianfu said that he did not agree with this result, and he would apply for retrial to Sichuan Higher People's Court .
People often say that sharing hardships are easy and hard! But the couple Qiu Xianfu and Tian Li are exceptions. They worked together to go through the rising period of their husband's career and finally built a huge business empire.
But as a husband, Qiu Xianfu, because he did not give his wife full trust and respect, eventually pushed his marriage to an irreversible level.
If time goes back and give Qiu Xianfu a chance to start again, can this marriage survive the rain, snow, wind and frost in life safely?
Unfortunately, there is no if in the world! It is extremely lucky to be able to cross the same boat after a hundred years, and to sleep together after a thousand years. It is an extremely lucky thing to be able to choose one person to be your partner among millions of people. I hope that after marriage, people will not forget the famous vow at the wedding: mutual respect, mutual trust, and mutual support, and a lifetime of life!
