At the 58th Cannes Film Festival in 2005, Gao Yuanyuan was nominated for the Best Actress with the film " Qinghong ".
Facing the praise of the reporter, she bluntly said,
"We have the chance to be selected for the Best Actor and Actress Award, but I can't be the Best Actress Award at Cannes . Objectively speaking, I don't have the chance to win the award at all."
"I don't want to become such a professional filmmaker, and I have less time to work within a year. I usually only need to work for half a year."
If there is the list of the most unprofessional female stars in the entertainment industry, Gao Yuanyuan will definitely be among the top.
Compared with enterprising strong women, she is more willing to become a little woman who cares about her husband and children.
After all, since the first relationship, Gao Yuanyuan has clarified her idea of getting married and having children.
But this wish was not realized until many years later when he met Zhao Youting .
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Gao Yuanyuan is a recognized goddess in the circle.
Zhang Yang called her, "She is born pure, and there is a sense of simplicity in her pureness."
Nicholas Tse praised her, "The elements she has are not available to many young actors nowadays. They are very simple, very pure, not complicated. I even think that her purity is like a dinosaur, and now it is out of print."
Even a keen Zhuo Wei who is keen on digging out the black material of female celebrities meets Gao Yuanyuan, but she just says, "She is very clean."
Before entering the entertainment industry, Gao Yuanyuan was a typical good girl.
Both parents are senior intellectuals. Under the spoiledness of their parents, she grew up smoothly.
When he grew up, Gao Yuanyuan was fresh and refined, like a lotus flower in clear water. In that era without filters and beauty, it attracted Zhou Kangyu's attention.
At that time, Zhou Kangyu was worried about the shooting of an ice cream advertisement in the company. After seeing Gao Yuanyuan who came with his classmates to buy books in Wangfujing, he instantly decided on the candidate in his heart.
This is Gao Yuanyuan's first advertisement and it is also her first time to come into contact with her acting career.
But she did not devote herself to her acting career.
Gao Yuanyuan, who received a 400 yuan reward, just regarded this as a way to earn pocket money.
She is still doing her studies in an orderly manner, only taking on some advertisements from time to time in her spare time.
Relying on his youthful and beautiful appearance, Gao Yuanyuan has always been in good condition in advertising shooting.
took more than 20 advertisements in just 3 months and became a "little celebrity" in the school.
1997, director Zhang Yang immediately decided to make her a female student He Ling in the film " Love Malatang ". After filming the film
, Gao Yuanyuan left a deep impression on Zhang Yang. Faced with this good seedling, he earnestly instructed, "You must not be impetuous. When you go back to school, you must study hard. Don't think that you are a little star after filming a movie." Gao Yuanyuan, who was the true character after filming, was widely praised after being well-received, and has participated in many works such as "Can't Find North", "The Story of the Intern", "On-Star", "Hitting on the Stop", " Seventeen-Year-Old Bicycle ".
Although he stepped into the entertainment industry with half his foot and had the starting point that many people dream of, Gao Yuanyuan did not enter the entertainment industry.
Gao Yuanyuan, who has been very interested since childhood, obviously has his own ideas.
"If you take luck as strength at a young age, you will lose a lot."
Therefore, after graduating from high school, she did not choose a professional film and television college, but instead was admitted to an ordinary university - the Department of Economics of the China Institute of Labor Movement (now renamed China Institute of Labor Relations ), and made up her mind to study secretarialism and lay the foundation for stable development in the future.
But sometimes, if you don’t want to plant willows, you will become shade.
In the 2000 Olympics, an advertisement for a clear mouth lozenge made her popular all over the country. Gao Yuanyuan’s fresh and sweet image of a girl next door left a deep impression on everyone who had seen this advertisement.At the same time, she also won the title of "clear mouth girl".
Gao Yuanyuan, who did not deliberately pursue her career in the entertainment industry, became very popular this year,
Countless invitations rushed into her hands like snowflakes, and more importantly, she met the prince charming in her mind this year.
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Gao Yuanyuan described her first meeting with Zhang Yadong .
"Through the glass, the silhouette made me feel excited. He looked tall and thin, like a plant."
The two met in a music room. Zhang Yadong, who worked hard, suddenly attracted all the attention of Gao Yuanyuan.
Zhang Yadong was ten years older than her. She was the most attractive period for men. She could write lyrics and compose music. She was a recognized music talent in the circle.
A moment of meeting a talented man and a beautiful woman is better than countless people in the world.
Even though Zhang Yadong was divorced and had a daughter, Gao Yuanyuan still fell in love with him regardless of the situation.
Every time she films, she is the most difficult time. In order to express her love, Gao Yuanyuan wrote her longing word in the letter.
The two have been together for five years. During these five years, Gao Yuanyuan's career has also reached its peak.
In 2003, a movie called "The Legend of the Condor Heroes" made her a well-deserved national goddess.
In 2005, a movie called "Qinghong" made her a name for the Cannes Film Festival's Best Actress at home and abroad.
As his career stabilized, Gao Yuanyuan put the relationship between them on the agenda.
In an interview, she couldn't help but sweetly reveal their relationship. She was full of hope that they could achieve success.
"I dated for marriage, and I also want to have a baby for him."
But the fact gave her a loud slap in the face.
Just when she confessed in a high-profile manner, Zhang Yadong publicly stated in public that she was an unmarried man.
Not only that, he also turned around and took the hand of Xu Jinglei , and the two of them went shopping without hesitation.
Although Zhang Yadong claimed that the two were just friends, Gao Yuanyuan still chose to withdraw from this relationship that could not see hope.
"We two want to be good friends for life, but we will only maintain a friendship and will never get back together."
After being hurt by Zhang Yadong, Gao Yuanyuan's heart was put on her acting career.
Until 2007, I met Xia Yu on the crew of "Adventure".
Xia Yu is three years older than her and is also quite talented and talented.
As early as the age of 17, he won back three actors in Venice, Golden Horse and Tokyo with "Sunny Days".
In the crew, Gao Yuanyuan quickly put a heart on Xia Yu.
The two were photographed returning to Xia Yu's apartment together many times.
But this love affair not only did not give Gao Yuanyuan any blessing, but instead made her bear a lot of infamy.
Because long before her, Xia Yu had a girlfriend who had been with him for ten years.
This girlfriend is Yuan Quan .
Yuan Quan is Xia Yu's schoolmate. As early as in school, the two of them confirmed their relationship. They have always been the golden boy and jade girl in the eyes of the audience.
What's more, when Gao Yuanyuan and Xia Yu were photographed entering and leaving the same place, Yuan Quan had not announced the news of his breakup with Xia Yu.
There are endless information about Gao Yuanyuan's interfering with Xia Yu and Yuan Quan's relationship. Some reporters even called her "the heroine in the face of Gao Yuanyuan."
forced Gao Yuanyuan so much that she couldn't even say a word, threw down the microphone and walked out.
Gao Yuanyuan also tried to explain these infamous things, "I am not a third party, things are not what you think."
But Xia Yu's silence made her defense pale and powerless.
It was not until three months later that Xia Yu and Yuanquan kissed sweetly on the street, and Gao Yuanyuan got a breath from the overwhelming scolding.
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After he recovered from being single, Gao Yuanyuan once again devoted herself to the intense shooting.
This year, she took over the historical theme "Nanjing! Nanjing! 》
This film took eight months to shoot. Every minute and every second of these eight months was a huge torture for Gao Yuanyuan.
She was not only trapped in doubt about the character, but also in doubt about herself.
The heavy history makes her body and mind full of depression. For a long time, she was deeply trapped in the role and couldn’t get out of it. In the
drama, there is a scene of Japanese soldiers traumatizing female compatriots. This heavy picture made the tense string in Gao Yuanyuan's heart collapse instantly. She shouted angrily to director Lu Chuan , "How could you shoot like this?"
This drama made Gao Yuanyuan suffer from strong depression for a time.
She can't imagine how people can be so bad?
For this gray memory, she just said, "The year I was filmed, all I came into contact with was death without dignity."
In order to treat depression, she took medicine obediently, went to see a psychologist on time, and often listened to Guo Degang crosstalk.
"Guo Degang has always told you: People are just that. You can joke with your own lives and parents. You are not stingy. It's all about family matters. Bring me back to life and don't think of things that philosophers can't accomplish. I think people are born to suffer, why are there so many sufferings?"
During the period when her will was most depressed, Yu Xiaowei appeared beside her.
Yu Xiaowei is Gao Yuanyuan’s old friend. The two have known each other for more than ten years and have maintained the relationship between ordinary friends.
It was not until a reunion in a commercial event that the two sparked the spark of love.
When the two were together, Gao Yuanyuan was already a household name and had a very high popularity.
Yu Xiaowei is just an unknown young actor. Although he is from a music family and is versatile, he is still a world of difference compared to Gao Yuanyuan.
In order to forgive her boyfriend's heart, Gao Yuanyuan also had a long talk with him. Over the years, her wish has not changed. She just aims to get married and have a child to fall in love.
In order to give Yu Xiaowei a sense of security, Gao Yuanyuan put on couple outfits with him. The two walked on the road openly, regardless of the shots on the road.
The two showed their love in high profile, Gao Yuanyuan snuggled in Xiaowei's arms, and the corners of his eyes and eyebrows were full of sweetness.
But the relationship between a strong man and a weak woman has not lasted for too long.
When the passion dissipated, the differences between the two began to grow bigger and bigger.
The disparity between men and women makes Yu Xiaowei increasingly dissatisfied with Gao Yuanyuan's behavior. He asked Gao Yuanyuan to report every whereabouts to him and would make a fuss to turn off Gao Yuanyuan's business activities.
During the quarrel, the relationship between the two came to an end. After breaking up, Yu Xiaowei once publicly stated that he would never find anyone in the circle again.
Later, he married and had children with outsiders, and lived a low-key and happy life.
and Gao Yuanyuan also met the person he was destined to be in the crew of " Search ".
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In 2011, Gao Yuanyuan was invited to participate in "Search" directed by Chen Kaige .
also participated in the performance of Zhao Youting, who came to the mainland to seek development.
vv At this time, Zhao Youting also ended his fruitless relationship with Zhang Junning, and was determined to work hard in the mainland to create his own career.
When they first joined the crew, both of them were very reserved, sitting next to director Chen Kaige, one on the left and the other on the right, and rarely communicated.
Seeing the male and female protagonists of their own videos so unfamiliar, Chen Kaige was worried a lot.
But as the scene was filming, Chen Kaige realized something was wrong.
"At that time, Zhao Youting looked at Gao Yuanyuan with a wrong look, and I could tell."
"Two or three hundred people, as if there was no one around."
In the crew, the two never concealed their love.In the
drama, Gao Yuanyuan had a very big move. She couldn't help but mutter in her heart. Seeing Gao Yuanyuan's face feeling worried, Zhao Youting hurried forward and comforted, "Don't worry, I will definitely catch you."
There are three things in the world that cannot be concealed: poverty, cough and love.
When filming an intimate scene, Chen Kaige had already shouted "click", but the two of them still couldn't stop.
Chen Kaige joked directly, "I fell in love with you, don't you fall in love with you yet? Absolutely." As soon as the filming of the video ended, the two couldn't wait to hold hands, and like all ordinary lovers, he reluctantly strolled on the quiet path outside the hotel.
The day after being photographed, Zhao Youting openly announced their relationship.
"Yuanyuan is a very good woman. I cherish her very much. I want to protect her, but I don't want to hurt her."
counts the previous love affairs, only Zhao Youting firmly and gentlely protected her in the media before the New Year.
Although Zhao Youting was five years younger than her, the responsibility he showed deeply touched Gao Yuanyuan's heart.
Faced with Zhao Youting's undisguised love, she also responded firmly, "I just think I'm so lucky because it's Youting standing opposite me to play against me. I'm so lucky, destined."
The two attended the larger event as couples, and they did not shy away from taking a set of intimate couple photos for "Fashion".
However, this relationship is also full of doubts.
The asymmetry of the two people's age and identity almost no one is optimistic about their future.
The media occasionally broke up with the two.
But until two years later, the two not only did not break up as others thought, but instead entered the palace of marriage together.
On the day of the marriage proposal, Zhao Youting secretly practiced day after day, but still couldn't relieve the tension in his heart.
He held the diamond ring and said a lot, his hands were shaking.
His sincerity deeply moved Gao Yuanyuan. Gao Yuanyuan took the ring and said to him funny, "You have the ring turned back."
After saying that, the two of them looked at each other and couldn't help laughing.
On June 5, 2014, Gao Yuanyuan and Zhao Youting registered their marriage in Beijing. In November, the two held a grand wedding.
After marriage, Zhao Youting said affectionately, "I will be honest with her, respect and love her family like myself (family), and I will take good care of them all at , and then I will put Yuanyuan and our home first in life."
As soon as his voice fell, Gao Yuanyuan said sweetly, "I often My friends around me said that the person you want does not exist in the world. His appearance will let me know that my imagination is not rich enough. All his goodness is actually better than I imagined. "
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After getting married, Gao Yuanyuan moved the center of gravity off the screen little by little, and Zhao Youting ushered in the take-off of his career.
In 2017, the TV series " Three Lives Three Worlds Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms " starring him and Yang Mi became popular.
The affectionate and powerful God Ye Hua has completely opened up the popularity of the mainland for him.
A large number of fans chased him and shouted "uncle" and "aunt" to Yang Mi.
But Zhao Youting always remembers his promise to Gao Yuanyuan.
Faced with the reporter's joke, he said bluntly, "I don't know why. Anyway, the actors I have worked with are basically all men except for their own wife, and every woman is a man." There are all deep affection for my wife between the lines of
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Later, with many works such as "Ordinary Glory", "Late Night Cafe", " Lanxin Grand Theater ", Zhao Youting's career gradually got on the right track. When the audience talked about him, they no longer had the title of "Gao Yuanyuan's husband".
But in his heart, he never minded this title.
He is Gao Yuanyuan's husband, and Gao Yuanyuan has always been the princess in his heart.
The two of them were tired of shopping, so they carried Gao Yuanyuan on their back without saying a word.
On the show, the host asked, "What if Yuanyuan is angry?"
Zhao Youting said without thinking, "I'll go and coax her."
host then asked, "What if Yuanyuan wants to sleep, but you want to watch a football game?"
Zhao Youting replied, "Then sleep in my arms."
Zhao Youting's love for Gao Yuanyuan is obvious to all.
Even his agent couldn't help but complain, "Can you not leave Gao Yuanyuan for three words?"
Four years after marriage, the two have never had children.
Gao Yuanyuan encountered a lot of rumors. Faced with the slander of the outside world, Zhao Youting strongly protected his wife, "I can accept Dink , because I don't like children, and even without children, I will always love Yuanyuan."
At noon on April 8, 2019, Gao Yuanyuan gave birth to a daughter in the hospital, and Zhao Youting immediately posted this joy.
After the daughter was born, the couple spent all their time with their daughter's growth.
Until his daughter was two years old, Zhao Youting took over the main responsibility of taking care of her daughter, allowing Gao Yuanyuan to be filmed on the screen again.
Recently, in " Perfect Companion " co-shot with Zhang Luyi , Gao Yuanyuan's style remains the same.
The happiness of a woman can be seen on her face.
Gao Yuanyuan, who was spoiled as a princess by Zhao Youting, is still the goddess in the hearts of countless people.
Conclusion
A reporter once interviewed Gao Yuanyuan and said, "If I say you are hypocritical, pretentious, and artificial, will you be angry?"
Gao Yuanyuan thought for a while and said seriously, "If you want to put it in the past, I will be very angry. Why do you say that to me like this, but now I won't, because it's not that you said what I am, I am like this."
She is happy and happy in love, no longer sticking to the outside world's views,
"I am actually a mediocre person."
So she doesn't have such a strong enterprising spirit, so she is willing to return to ordinary people.
Happiness has never been defined. Who can say that Gao Yuanyuan and Zhao Youting’s life is unhappy?
