A feeling is not necessarily right, more and more young people "don't want to grow up".
, for example, KFC Children's Day package, how many of them are really for children to play with, rather than for Wang Xinling ?
"If you suddenly sneeze, then it must be that I am thinking of you~"
"Sisters Waves 3" was broadcast a few days ago. Wang Xinling, who was "after 39 o'clock", took out "Love You" 18 years ago and sang it. It became popular overnight. The first stage playback volume was short of, and the major music platforms slaughtered the list.
Following Liu Genghong girl and the lonely brave child, Wang Xinling boy successfully fought a path in the short video platform.
Even if you have already achieved success in your career and have three layers of beer belly, you can't help but smile "happier than on the day of your marriage" when you see Wang Xinling.
If you want to ask why there is no girl from Wang Xinling, it must be because they are busy re-watching " Smile Pasta".
"Just smile, it's no big deal." I don't know how many girls' Taiwanese idol drama enlightenment, and as soon as they say it, people remind people of that carefree time.
Some people say that every time I listen to Wang Xinling’s songs, I really want to be an “ignorant girl”.
So today, let us be the "sweet girl" for a day, not the "big heroine" in reality.
When the classmates were gossiping Zhang Dongliang When did Wang Xinling get married, Xiaomei likes to dress herself up as black and go out.
I have a little brat in junior high school at the age of rebellion. I want to be different from others in everything I do. It seems that this is cool and this is different.
Doctor-in-law Romantic novels , she read horror novels; girls in the same class like pink, she like black; everyone watches "Smiling Pasta", she watches "Young Bao Qingtian".
Sweet girls are so boring, cool is the truth in the world.
There was no word "personality" back then. Xiaomei used "cool" to create a shell for herself, because she felt that in this home where quarrels often, a tough appearance could give herself more courage.
But just like the boys in their class who like Jay Chou , they will secretly listen to "Love You" when they go home. Xiaomei will turn on the TV after the adults go to work in the summer vacation, and survive one 20-minute TV shopping advertisement after another, and secretly take a look at the legendary sweetheart leader.
At that time, Wang Xinling was envied and loved by countless girls under tremendous pressure.
When she was very young, Wang Xinling's parents divorced during the quarrel. At first, her father took her younger brother and her mother took her. Life was still alive, but due to financial reasons, her father "throwed" her younger brother to her mother again, and then disappeared.
Wang Xinling's mother raised two children alone, survived with difficulty, and had a mental breakdown and could not work normally.
So, the burden of supporting the family fell on Wang Xinling early, and entered the entertainment industry at a young age.
Wang Xinling when he was a child (pictures are from the Internet)
In 2003, Wang Xinling debuted with the album "Cyndi Begin", but only sold 60,000 copies, with a poor grade. In the second year, if Wang Xinling could not achieve good results, he would be terminated by the agency.
Unexpectedly, the second year, "Love You" emerged and became popular on the streets and alleys. Wang Xinling held a concert and acted in idol dramas. He released 3 albums within a year, selling them every time. "honey" and " Eyelashes Bending " were in supermarkets of all sizes.
A few years later, 25-year-old Wang Xinling became the "sweetheart leader" mentioned by the Taiwanese media and entered the year-round mode because her family made her dare not stop.
"Cool Girl" Xiaomei knew nothing about all this. She just looked down on the soft and cute "turtle girl" on TV.
She listened to the quarrels in the living room and thought, what can cuteness work? In real life, no one will help you solve all your worries just because you are a sweet girl.
When the girl in the class watched " Fall in Love with Chamele " with her mother and sister, Xiaomei just wanted to grow up immediately.
She finally knew why her parents always quarreled, why she was different from other classmates, why she wanted something worth 50 yuan, and the family couldn't do it.
Xiaomei finally understood that cool and hard are just like cute, and they cannot solve any problem. She began to "soft and" down, grow long hair, and try to integrate into a small group of girls in the same class, but among her peers, she was still the one with the "smelling face".
She thought that if she was in her twenties now and had started working, she would definitely be as decisive as a professional woman in the TV series, able to handle all kinds of things and deal with all crises.
And Wang Xinling, who is in his twenties, is trapped in the vortex of public opinion of age.
Some people questioned whether she had changed her age, and her birth year was changed from 1978 to 1982.
"If she changes her age, a post-70s generation will still be young when she is over 25 years old!"
In her twenties, she should be as mature as Xiaomei imagined, not smiling sweetly, not "playing" cute.
So, as we grow older, cuteness seems to have become a burden for Wang Xinling.
In a 2010 report, the reporter asked her if she had ever thought about changing her style?
Wang Xinling said: "It must be. But sometimes it's very troublesome, you can't change for the sake of change. There were some good traits, if you go too far, fans will not accept it, and they may become not themselves. We are always in control."
The worst thing is that Wang Xinling's two boyfriends gave her back stung, destroying her image of sweet girl.
Wang Xinling met her boyfriend when she was 17 years old Fan Zhiwei . After her boyfriend cheated on her many times, Wang Xinling chose to break up, but Fan Zhiwei turned around and revealed many details of their relationship to the media.
According to the China Times, the reporter asked Fan Zhiwei: "At that time, you were 19 years old and she was 17 years old. Did you give the most beautiful first time to each other?"
He smiled and said: "I had two relationships before dating her, of course it was not the first time I did; I originally thought she was 17 years old, and the first time I gave it to me, but it was not. In fact, I was a little disappointed at that time, because she was only 17 years old, and even I didn't believe it at all."
And Wang Xinling's next boyfriend concealed the fact that he was dating another female star, which made her fall into the "third party" storm.
No matter when, it is so simple to destroy a girl. Just put her private life under a magnifying glass, and public opinion can become a flood.
At this time, Xiaomei knew nothing about Wang Xinling's experience, and knew nothing about what "girls in their twenties" would face. She just naively fantasized that "growing up" and "age" could solve all problems.
When I was a college student, Xiaomei noticed that Wang Xinling seemed to have disappeared for a long time.
It was a dormitory night talk. The roommate talked about the idol drama he watched when he was a child. Suddenly someone asked, "Why is Wang Xinling not coming out now?"
At this time, Xiaomei was already a "girl in her twenties", which happened to be when Wang Xinling became popular back then. She already understood that life is not a TV series, and there are many things that "adults" cannot do.
She stopped fantasizing and began to pay attention to what she could do. Although due to family conditions, she was not the same as her classmates' "twenties", but she thought that as long as she could, she might be able to get rid of such a predicament in her thirties.
She also began to put down the idol burden of "cool girls" and add bright colors beyond black and white to her wardrobe. She admitted that she would be afraid of watching horror movies, and that she would be moved when she saw cute little things. She began to take the initiative to move closer to girls of this age. A little beauty like
, curious, searched Wang Xinling's recent situation and found that the "Sweetheart Leader" of that year had already slipped from the altar.
As early as when filming "Fall in Love with Chamele", Wang Xinling had broken lips and swollen lips during filming, and eventually developed acute cellulitis, with swelling on his face, and was rumored to be "plastic surgery".
In 2015, she released her 11th album, but it did not cause any splash. In 2016, "Wang Xinling Plastic Surgery" was uploaded online with a nose and eyes. In the 2017 Chengdu concert, due to the organizer's mistake, no one wanted a ticket worth 1,080 yuan even for 10 yuan.
Concert promotional poster at that time (picture source from the Internet)
The biggest tag "cute" was stripped away by two boyfriends, and his career was in trouble. Wang Xinling, who was 30+, has also sought transformation.
She has filmed "Men's Clothing", taking the sexy route, filming naked back MVs, changing her dress and trying different styles, but what everyone remembers is the sweetheart leader who sings "Love You".
After knowing Wang Xinling in her thirties, Xiaomei couldn't help but sigh. She began to feel that "growing up" might be a bad thing. A simple number change has to be stripped of part of her personality.
Can't you be cute when you are in your thirties? The "idol burden" she finally let go of haste will be carried back in a few years?
When "Sisters of Waves 3" was broadcast, Xiaomei had reached the age of being called "sister" by the new intern, and Wang Xinling, who was nearly 40 years old, sang the song "Love You" on stage again.
She faced the camera calmly and said that she would be a "sweetheart grandma" in the future, wouldn't it be good?
"Be yourself" is something that Wang Xinling only understood after 22 years in the entertainment industry.
And she finally became herself, this nature and calmness are also the things that the audience is most happy to see.
And Xiaomei in front of the mobile phone screen no longer suppresses herself. She will follow the trend and like pink things. Sometimes she plays jokes about "Elementary school students think they are childish, but social animals think they are just right", and sometimes she plays jokes with her sisters, "Pink is delicate, how old are you now."
She already understands that some things have nothing to do with personality or style, they just catch up, and even if they hurt, they have to cross over.
She also understands that age is not a constraint or an obstacle. As long as you want to do it, there is nothing wrong with it. The Sweetheart Leader does not have to become the heroine, but can also become the "Sweetheart Grandma".
"The sky is full of sugar, so what if it collapses?"
is about to enter middle age. Xiaomei finally understood that behind this lyrics, it is not carefree, but face it bravely.
There is no hurdle in the world that cannot be overcome. Even if the sky falls, wouldn’t it be better to hold it down?
Reference
Why is Wang Xinling popular again?
Wang Xinling does not hate Fan Zhiwei: Maybe some people should become strangers (picture)
debuted for 22 years. Wang Xinling's history of becoming beautiful is actually a history of changing fate
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