What is the experience of fighting with my daughter for life? I would like to invite to answer this question.
Since Lin Chiling got married far away and Liu Zhen passed away, Xiao S became more and more lonely because invincible is the loneliest. Fortunately, there is Xu Xiwen .
Just recently, Xiao S and her eldest daughter Xu Xiwen were in full force again.
First, Xu Xiwen posted a photo of her navel-exposed suit, showing off her thin waist and comparing her beauty with her mother, and said to Xiao S: "Xiao S doesn't have s". In the photo, Xu Xiwen is wearing a denim hat, a navel-exposed top and low-waist wide-leg pants, and her slender waist is really eye-catching.
Xiao S couldn't bear it: "What's the only thing that can I pull on my lower body?", "I'll quarrel with my mother again after the development is complete." Xu Xiwen continued to say "I still have a waist", and Xiao S declared war directly on her daughter: "I have a kind of thing to wear a bikini..."
This round of battle, close your eyes and think about it, and dream back to "Kangxi".
Xu Xiwen now needs to be more confident and confident. Everyone forgets that back then, Xiao S's daughters were actually said to be not good-looking since childhood, especially the boss Xu Xiwen. Everyone often calls her Xu Qiaoniu , and was attacked the most violently. When she was six or seven years old, she took a photo with her whole family and was criticized by the media for her "little eyes", "collapsed nose bridge", and "flat face", saying that she is the ugliest second-generation star.
Xiao S brought her daughter, Cecilia Cheung took her son, and the two families were having fun together. The contrast was a bit tragic, and Xu Xiwen was ridiculed again.
Xiao S was of course very dissatisfied back then and directly questioned, "My daughters are all international models. Among the three daughters, Xiwen may not be as beautiful as the public aesthetic, but her face is very beautiful."
As a result, Xu Xiwen was also very successful. She really turned over with her world-weary face and even endorsed her mother's fourteen years of endorsement. I don't know how much Xiao S's help is behind her, but it can be seen that Xu Xiwen is really a sacrificing job, which is not a shame to force her.
If it weren't for mother, Xiao S and aunt, , S, it is hard to say whether Xu Xiwen, who does not meet the public's aesthetics, has today.
So if you want to choose a husband, can you doubt whether Xiao S can do it or not. But if I want to teach the child, I only obey Xiao S.
Xu Xiwen and Xu Xidi , cool handsome girl and cool old lady
Speaking of which, Xu Xiwen is probably the child who is watched by everyone in "Kangxi". Rounding is like everyone eating instant noodles together and witnessing a girl's counterattack.
When I was a child, Xu Xiwen was always despised for not having a star appearance. "Xu Qiaoniu" is a testimony to her being ridiculed.
But unexpectedly, a cool girl who has not grown up in public aesthetics, and a cool and cool girl who has been crying for the rest of her life. Later, the performance did not look like the direction of the story we were originally worried about.
Xiao S has always been the crisis public relations spokesperson for her eldest daughter.
Others say that Boss Xu is ugly, so Xiao S went on the show to guide public opinion "feel proudly". She said that when she was about to give birth to a boss, she would be anxious and worried that her daughter would not look like she liked when she gave birth to her, and what if she didn't love her.
But she prefers unpopular appearance, preferably single eyelids, thin lips, and small eyes, and will never be advertised on milk powder advertisements. Finally, it was born, wow, it was exactly what I expected.
This looks like a little S-style trick, but you can also see the good intentions of the old mother. She said this, but in fact, it is also leading the public to accept another aesthetic, single eyelids, thin lips, and small eyes, will it definitely not be beautiful?
She looks stunning, but in fact she is very careful in taking care of her daughter.
The public recognizes that the second son Xu Shaoen is the most beautiful among the three sisters. Once, Xiao S took the eldest son to the flower market. A passerby came up and praised her sister for being so beautiful and looked like her mother. Then the passerby turned to look at the boss, and said in surprise, "Oh, the eldest daughter looks like a father."
Xiao S hurriedly said that our boss is the one who looks the most like me.
parents rarely noticed that children are very sensitive. Sure enough, Xu Qiaoniu became a little depressed after passing by, but Xiao S felt it immediately and quickly did psychological construction, saying that the eldest was more beautiful and the younger sister was cute.
This is obviously a strong support, but it is better to support it than not.
Xiao S once said that the boss does not look like himself, but more like Big S. Indeed, as soon as Xiao S's child Xu Xiwen was born, he was sent to Da S's house. Da S was taken care of for a long time. At that time, Da S's boyfriend was still Vic Chou. The two of them dated Da S with a baby, which was Xu Xiwen.
has been hugging for too long. Once a few people went out together, Xu Qiaoniu didn't even hug Xiao S. The first word "mom" he sent was facing Big S, which made Xiao S angry and said on the spot Xu Xiyuan Are you shameless? He actually forced the child to call you Mom? Big S retorted: I don’t have a conscience in heaven and earth, but you can’t reflect on yourself.
As we all know, Xiao S dares to say anything on the show. She is soft-hearted in life, while Big S is the harder one. As a result, Xu Xiwen has followed her aunt for a long time and has also gained the true teachings of Big S.
Xiao S said in Kangxi that Xu Xiwen was very good at "talking back" at such a young age. When she went out, Xiao S urged her to be faster and not procrastinate. Xu Xiwen said why can you adults procrastinate, I can't do it. Xiao S didn't allow her to put on makeup, so Xu Xiwen said why can you melt me, and I can't melt me.
. Who is Xiao S? But he often can’t think of how to answer the next sentence when he quarreled with his daughter.
probably has been quarreling with Xiao S since childhood, and the media complained that children should be able to see them, but it did not affect Xu Xiwen's growth.
When she first came out to shoot a magazine, the public took a deep breath: Women changed in age.
It’s not that Xu Xiwen suddenly became a big beauty, but that Xu Xiwen’s confidence can still be felt through the camera, and whether it is the stretching of his eyes, posture, or the texture of his pose, he can hold the temperament tightly!
animations are even more exciting. Xu Qiaoniu, who was ridiculed by the crowd back then, was wearing a white dress, with a light body and graceful dance. Even if she didn't turn into a white swan, she was no longer the ugly duckling of the past.
In fact, when taking this set of photos, Xiao S was always teaching by the side little by little, and the old mother finally appeared at the critical moment.
After the start of this, the clothing brand released a winter blockbuster filmed by Xiao S's eldest daughter Xu Xiwen and second daughter Xu Shaoen. The high-end faces of the sisters made netizens praise him. The second child was quiet and beautiful, and the second child felt more "willed to the world" and was commented by netizens to look like Korean actress Kim Go-eun.
The so-called appearance is born from the heart, and Xu Xiwen, who grew up healthily, is also gradually evolving in appearance. She is still not a big beauty in the aesthetic sense of the public, but with a bit of the taste of Big S when she was young, she will also playfully use some small filters when taking selfies, which is very girlish.
By September last year, she also took on the endorsement of shampoo. In fact, this brand has been working with Xiao S for 14 years. Xu Xiwen "robbed" her mother's job as soon as she debuted.
But Xiao S was not only not lost, but continued to say strangely: "How could this dead child show such an expression? He obviously admires me too much." The words still couldn't hide the comfort of an old mother.
but still not Forget to argue with each other, Previously, Xu Xiwen posted his beautiful photos, captioned by "It's so hot today, but I'm wearing bristle pants" .
Xiaos "ruthlessly exposed" her daughter was showing off "But you showed off your belly! You just want to show off your waist! You can't escape my eyes."
Xu Xiwen and Xu Xidi, the cool handsome girl and the cool old lady, looked half the sea water
half flame, but unexpectedly, they merged into one in the end, and they were indeed mother and daughter soldiers in battle.
Xiao S, the first mother,
In fact, Xiao S's most amazing thing is that she taught three daughters.
Once you have been a mother, you will know what a difficult task this is. What's more, Xu Xiwen was criticized by the media and netizens for not inheriting her genes, and her complaints naturally continued to the second and third brothers. His appearance has been criticized, and it is also said that the three sisters are dressed in a rude manner.Wang Xiaofei has also "complained" this point in
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Xiao S took her three daughters to visit Wang Xiaofei's house, wearing autumn clothes and hole shoes. As soon as they left, Wang Xiaofei turned around and said to Big S, "In the future, Xiao Yueer is definitely not allowed to wear that kind of clothes. Our daughter must wear fashionable clothes in the future." Big S is also amazing, so he turned around and told Xiao S.
Later, Wang Xiaofei came to Kangxi, and Xiao S asked her three daughters where they were wearing bad clothes. Wang Xiaofei was also straightforward and said that they dressed too much like your aunt. After saying that, I was a little scared and added that I hope your style can influence them more and it will be better.
Netizens call Xiao S a baby-raising method like ugly.
In fact, this is also Xiao S's own life philosophy. She looks like a big star, but in fact she lives a very frugal life. The gorgeous clothes support the scene. She saves a little while when she can go home. The same is true for her daughter's education. She doesn't want her children to have a wrong value when they are young. She never buys famous brands for her daughter, and does not buy clothes worth more than 1,000 yuan.
" We Are Real Friends " has a clip in which she discusses parenting with Big S. Big S complains that she doesn't buy famous brands for her daughter that are more than 1,000 yuan, but Xiao S said: "At a young age, don't develop the habit of spending a lot of money." The boss just called his mother and said that he wanted to buy a brand-name jacket. After seeing the price, Xiao S felt it was a bit expensive and advised his daughter that you are only 13 years old and there is no need to wear such expensive clothes, and you will continue to grow taller.
Big S came over and saw it and said she was here to buy it as a gift for her niece to get the first place in the dance competition.
Finally, Xiao S sighed on the phone and said to her daughter, "Tell you good news."
Although Big S rolls her eyes in anger every time Big S buys a famous brand for her boss, it cannot be said that Big S's educational view is wrong.
The education of the sisters is like a complementary one. The effect of one who teaches it may not be so good. Now one is a red face and the other is a white face. The correct consumption concept is also taught to children, and the children will not lose their sensitivity to fashion. Later, Xu Xiwen, who was fully aura in the magazine, was taught by the two sisters together.
Although Xiao S does not recommend using the most expensive ones for her daughter when buying clothes, Xiao S has put in a lot of effort and spent a lot of money on raising her daughter.
Several daughters have been learning piano, sketching, and dancing since childhood... Once, three sisters won the first place in different dance competitions together.
Xiao S also has strict requirements for her daughter. She has asked them to follow her to stretch for 30 minutes a day since she was a child, in order to cultivate her temperament. It turns out that all came in handy.
. One of the big problems is that a bowl of water is uneven. If it is not done well, the child will be psychologically imbalanced, but Xiao S will seriously balance the relationship between the three sisters.
In an interview, she took the initiative to say: the focus is on the eldest, the care is on the third, and the second is automatically ignored.
The reason is that when I just gave birth to the second and third brothers, I was worried that the eldest brother would be jealous, so I took into account the boss's feelings everywhere.
But she knew that her second daughter was sensible and caring. Once she posted a greeting card made by her second daughter, and apologized in the video and said: Mom understands everything, I am really sorry if I don’t do it well.
When Xu Laosan grew up slowly, he became the one who inherited Xiao S's most quirky genius. Every day he had to study how to make his hair curl, so Xiao S took her to perm her hair.
Netizens said why they wanted to make their daughter like this, but Xiao S was very proud: I am so lucky that my daughter has such sense.
Strictly speaking, Xu Laosan's face does not look at the public aesthetic point, but she asked in the video whether she thinks she is beautiful or how beautiful she is? Xu Laosan rolled his eyes and replied: It’s so beautiful!
Such confidence is obviously due to the family education of S. In recent years, she has been doing a sloppy career and posted on Weibo to show off how outstanding her daughters are. Her daily sigh is, "God, how can I have three such good angels?"
Xiao S teaches her daughter, which is the other side of "Little She De",
star second-generation enters the entertainment industry. It seems that the boss does have Xiao S to bring resources when entering the entertainment industry, but also has his own advantages.
In this era when internet celebrity faces are prevalent, beauties all look the same face, but Boss Xu's appearance and aura have their own characteristics. His temperament and body shape have been cultivated since childhood, and he is recognizable. The label of "world-weary face" can be said to be marketed, but if you have no information, it will be useless no matter how you market it.
As a parent, you will definitely want to find a way for your children. This is human nature. What Xiao S deserves to be praised is that he has regrets on the star path, but he does not regard his children as a tool to fulfill his dreams like the tiger mom in "Little She De".
What she gave to her children was more about the rules of doing this industry. 15-year-old Xu Xiwen is already a new favorite in the fashion circle. She strictly requires her daughter not to be late for work, not to be a big shot, nor to force her daughter to have a good star path, but she hopes that they are polite, know how to respect others, be caring and have a broad mind.
In career, what exactly did she bring to her children? Many people will say that it is the transmission of the halo and resources of the second generation of stars.
But Xiao S has bid farewell to the peak of his career, and I don’t think these things are so critical.
The most important thing is that I think it is the person who complained the most about Xiao S after his three daughters became Lin Chiling.
Cai Kangyong said that Lin Chiling is one of the minority stars who became popular with "Kangxi".
In a sense, Lin Chiling’s personal characteristics were established by Xiao S during her repeated complaints and verbal battles.
In her great career in appreciating her destiny back then, she was always a desolate person, Lin Chiling and Liu Zhen, who were so strong that she was Lin Chiling and Liu Zhen.
To the end, they achieved each other.
Why did Xiao S not adapt to the local environment when he went to the mainland variety show later? There are many reasons, but there is also one reason, that is, she can no longer find Lin Chiling and Liu Zhen, the big mainland actresses, who have wrapped themselves up too tightly and are not on the same channel as Xiao S.
But the three sisters of the Xu family and Xiao S are on the same channel, and they all carry a kind of naughtiness and innocence of S, big and small.
When they have this mother, they will not lack a mouth that loves to quarrel the most, and keep helping them find topics. This is their unique condition and capital.
, but it may not be an inexhaustible resource. Boss Xu told her that he wanted to be an actor the most in the future. Xiao S immediately said, "Want to be an actor? Do you think you will become a queen of acting skills when watching Douyin every day? Please read some books in the future."
The boss once said that he also wanted to be a star, and felt that it was easy to make money and more money. But Xiao S patiently explained to her daughter, telling her that this is not the case. Celebrities also work hard and require a lot of effort. She should guide her daughter to study hard. Now the boss has made his debut, or is based on fashion resources, and can take into account both academic studies.
But being a mother is not that easy. On April 14, Xiao S also shared a selfie on a social platform with the caption: "It's so difficult to be a mother." In the photo, Xiao S seemed to be sitting on the floor, with messy hair and tears in her eyes, looking very haggard.
But this is the norm in life. Over the years, Xiao S often cried in the camera at all times. After " Kangxi is Coming " was suspended, the new variety shows she made and the movies she participated in did not have much splash. Her family was often brought up for saying that her husband went out to play with young women, and she still had to come out to explain. There seemed to be no new achievements, but she really brought up her three children very well, and even the old mother had a time to collapse with her children.
But in a blink of an eye, she would be resurrected with her daughter and wanted to disperse her head and bikini. After a while, she regretted and said, "Forget it! After all, my mother gave birth to three, and her belly wrinkles...", and then she couldn't help but sigh, "Come on! I need three drinks."
makes people feel sad, funny, and relieved. Unexpectedly, after Lin Chiling, Xiao S's next strong rival is his own daughter. With an opponent, this former queen of poisonous tongues should not be that lonely.
Mother and daughter for a lifetime, it is not necessary to force the child to collapse like "Little She De", and the audience is even more depressed by the drama of mutual confrontation and love.
The best relationship between mother and daughter is probably like Xu Xidi and Xu Xiwen. I am your mother, I raise you, and if others say you are ugly, I will help you scold you. I pave the way for your future, but success or failure depends on yourself. Everyone is an independent individual. Love is not driving the child crazy and saying "I am for your own good", but it is about mutual appreciation.
