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Shu Qi (Lin Lihui), Lin Xinru , and Lin Chiling, three actresses, were once known as the "three golden leftover women".
In Shu Qi's love to settle Feng Delun , Ruby Lin held hands with Huo Jianhua , everyone was curious about what kind of man the remaining Sister Zhiling will choose in the end.
Unexpectedly, 44-year-old Lin Chiling announced the good news on Weibo: Love and courage, I'm married!
This explosive news surprised everyone:
This is the first time that Lin Chiling has publicly "recognized love" since she announced her singleness in the 2013 film press conference of "101 Marriage Proposal ".
Not only that, she also skipped the routine of ordinary celebrities' public relations and announced their marriage in one go!
What surprised everyone even more was that this Japanese artist who married Sister Zhiling's income was only one-tenth of his wife's annual income. You should know that Sister Zhiling has a very high ability to attract money, with an annual income of nearly HK$50 million.
Theoretically, actresses like Lin Chiling, who have both high education, emotional intelligence and elegant conversation are one of the most popular types of daughter-in-law in wealthy families.
In the ranking of the actresses who are most likely to marry into a wealthy family, Chiling's sister crushed Patty Hou and ranked first with twice the number of votes.
For a long time, Lin Chiling has been a popular goddess on the list of Hupu straight male goddesses.
There are many beautiful women, why did Lin Chiling become the one who is the most wanted by straight men?
First, people are beautiful.
Lin Chiling looks pure, she needs to have legs and beauties, which satisfy the appearance of the "first love goddess" in the hearts of many boys.
Lin Chiling replaced Xiao Qiang as "Taiwan's No. 1 Beauty".
The most important thing is that time seems to have cast magic on her, and only elegance is settled, and almost no change in appearance. At the New Year's Eve party, Lin Chi-ling's piano playing + solo dance performance made everyone call it "too beautiful".
0 She was even more amazed by the audience across the country on the Spring Festival Gala. She had no trace of fat on her body, and her agile figure was like a mermaid.
second, voice is sweet.
In the heart of a straight man, Lin Chiling's delicate "baby sound" sounds sweet and soft, with healing power that is hard to refuse.
Can you feel happy when you listen to her talk?
The third and most important one: a gentle personality. The appearance and voice mentioned in the first two articles of
often represent a person's personality. This is what "face is born from the heart".
I have to say that Lin Chiling is really in line with the image of a wife in the ideal of oriental men.
From the outside to the inside, it exudes a kind of harmless tolerance of humans and animals. It has been going on for decades. I really admire how she has such a good temper.
There are not many examples about Lin Chiling's high emotional intelligence and understanding on the Internet.
For example, when standing with a man shorter than himself, he always bends his legs to take care of the other person.
For example, when you are troubled by reporters, you will answer with a decent and generous answer.
Lin Chiling was once asked: "Now Guo Caijie They are all new goddesses of otaku. What do you think of them?"
Facing the hint that she is already an "old person", she said generously:
"I like them very much, they are all cute, I like fresh girls. Elders may like me. People in their sixties and seventies will also call me 'Sister Zhiling' when they see me on the road."
In front of the public, Lin Chiling rarely loses control of her emotions. This stability is in marriage in three words: reliable.
The works she performed have strong similarities with her own personality.
In the movie "101 Marriage Proposal" co-starring with Huang Bo, he is a who hates marrying a daughter with strong abilities and high income.
In "Red Cliff", Xiao Qiao is a gentle and virtuous "five good" wife character, a "virtuous supporter" who looks weak on the outside and has a strong heart. In "The Taoist Down the Mountain" by Chen Kaige , she was also equipped with a kind and beautiful wife image.
In fact, to Lin Chiling, her late marriage is not "being left over", she just wants to find the right person.
Among the three relationships that Lin Chi-ling once announced, except for her first love boyfriend before her debut, the remaining two dates happened to be one of the top traffic handsome guys, and the other was the heir to a wealthy family.
For her, neither of these two people are suitable.
17 years of breaking up and reuniting with Jerry Yan, the "unforgettable" abusive script for a woman. The time span is too long, and not getting married means breaking up.
The reserved life of marrying into a wealthy family may not be what she pursues. She has a good face and money, so why bother to make a living by looking at people’s faces?
A few days before Lin Chi-ling announced her marriage, Japanese goddess-level star Yu Aoi announced her flash marriage.
When asked why he chose to marry a funny artist at the press conference, Yu Aoi said: "When we were together, he often made me laugh so hard that I couldn't do it myself."
I wonder if you have discovered this rule: a woman with financial freedom reaches a certain level, she will not measure her partner's standards by secular standards, but will focus on feelings, such as whether the other party will make her laugh happily.
Six years ago, Sister Zhiling once said that she is more important than "feeling" and will not lower the standards due to age, because her parents do not like foreigners and will not engage in transnational love.
But she told us with practical actions that sometimes when the time is right, it is more important to meet the wishes than the "principles" of rules and regulations.
Sister Zhiling also gives many women over 30 years old aspirations:
Please do not compromise before meeting the right person. When you become beautiful, strong and confident enough, there will naturally be much more room for choice.
Many people say that Lin Chiling is "marrying down", but in fact she made another choice:
In an era when women are becoming more and more independent, isn't it also a new possibility for women to have money and men to have love?
In traditional culture, marry a man and get dressed and eat. It refers to the traditional marriage model in the past where men were responsible for hunting and women were responsible for weaving at home, but now it is becoming more diverse. The basis of diversity is: women have a comprehensive self-strength and begin to have the capital to change their destiny without relying on marriage, but become the master of initiative. Even at the age of 44, you can still find the love you want.
