2012 Spring Festival Gala host lineup is released, and Li Yong is one of them attracts much attention.
Not long after, someone revealed that Li Yong and the director of this Spring Festival Gala Ha Wen are actually husband and wife.
Only then did the public realize that on CCTV,
still has such a pair of fairy couples hidden.
But no one expected that later, this pair of fairy couples,
, both left CCTV, which brought them unlimited honor.
Soon after, news came that the two settled in the United States and Li Yong's death came.
So why did they leave CCTV back then?
How is Ha Wen's life without Li Yong's company?
Love campus love at first sight
Ha Wen is a girl who has loved literature and art since she was a child.
was born in Ningxia, and is also a minority, with artistic cells in her bones.
Hawen is the only girl in her grandchildren in her family and has always been favored by her family.
Therefore, Hawen's personality has also been cultivated to be more strong.
is also because of this. Ha Wen did not obey his parents' instructions to apply for Northwest University of Political Science and Law.
instead decided to go to the capital Beijing and go to Communication University of China to be an art student.
In 1987, Ha Wen went to Beijing alone and studied in the Department of Broadcasting of Communication University of China.
Campus life is rich and colorful, and young boys and girls are all in love.
But Ha Wen did not force her to fall in love in college,
just kept going with the idea of going with the flow and continued to study.
At this time, Ha Wen didn't know that marriage was coming quietly.
art major often has big classes in the class. Many students in the class get together, and the seats of
are not fixed. Almost every time I go to class, I will meet some unfamiliar classmates.
On this day, Ha Wen was listening carefully, but the sunlight passed through the glass window, and
spread the colorful brilliance on her beautiful face.
Ha Wen felt it was a little dazzling, so he hurriedly raised his hand to cover the beam of light, and then continued to listen carefully.
At this time, a boy sitting diagonally behind her,
happened to see her side face, and was amazed at it for a moment, and fell in love instantly.
This boy is Li Yong. Many years later, he recalled his shocking side:
"I glanced at her with my right eye, and the outline of the side face was very beautiful. Just one glance, I fell in love with her at first sight."
Li Yong is one year older than Ha Wen, from Xinjiang, and looks particularly exotic.
's tall nose bridge and big tall man made many female students fall in love with it.
But Li Yong is three thousand weak waters, and only takes Ha Wen's scoop.
In order to have the chance to get closer to Ha Wen, Li Yong always sits next to her during her big class.
When he was in class, he didn't listen carefully and would make some small pranks to disturb Ha Wen at any time.
made Ha Wen unable to listen to the class well, and was so angry that Li Yong stared at him.
At this time, Li Yong will take out a small gift prepared in advance to make the beauty smile.
The first Double Day Festival when the two met, the students were preparing to make dumplings together for fun.
Li Yong knew that Ha Wen was a Hui tribe and did not eat pork.
was worried that the dumpling filling prepared by the classmates was not in line with her appetite, so he ran to the outside school and found several stores and finally bought a mutton filling.
eating hot lamb dumplings . Ha Wen quietly blushed while the classmates cheered, but she still said nothing.
Li Yong didn't know what Ha Wen was thinking, but he didn't give up easily.
In order to win Ha Wen, Li Yong also "buyed" her best friends in the dormitory.
Every time, Li Yong would give Ha Wen the most special gift in the name of giving gifts to Ha Wen’s roommate.
At a campus dance, Li Yong invited Ha Wen, and
The hands of the two young people were held together and their bodies were very close.
Feeling each other's nervous breathing and heartbeat,
Ha Wen knew that she had fallen.
After this dance, Ha Wen and Li Yong officially got together.
Not long after, it was Ha Wen's birthday. In order to give his girlfriend a special surprise, Li Yong directly disguised himself as a woman and broke into the girls' dormitory building.
After Li Yong's good brother found out about this, it became a must-have story for him to joke about.
Li Yong and Ha Wen fell in love on campus, and they were in love with each other and were considered a couple of fairy couples.
But no one thought that their love encountered a big problem, that is, "the zodiac sign is not in line".
Ha Wen's father is very traditional and believes that the zodiac signs of Li Yong and Ha Wen are not suitable.
also has a lot of complaints about Li Yong being an Xinjiang native .
He did not think that Xinjiang people were not good, but he felt that Xinjiang was too far away, and it was inconvenient for his daughter to marry and take care of each other at home.
His father's tough opposition made Ha Wen shaken, and she broke up with Li Yong very sadly.
After learning the reason for the breakup, Li Yong asked Ha Wen to rest assured first, and he decided to meet his future father-in-law in advance.
During the holiday, Li Yong moved directly into Ha Wen's house.
Ha Wen's father was not good at rushing people directly, so he could only let the young man stay temporarily by default.
In order to please his father-in-law, Li Yong got up at around six o'clock every morning to help his future father-in-law cook.
At that time, Li Yong could already receive some jobs, and
He would also change the appliances and furniture at Ha Wen's home after he made money.
Li Yong also often promised his future father-in-law that he would definitely be nice to Ha Wen and would never be wronged Ha Wen.
As the saying goes, sincerity leads to the metal and stone. Li Yong's operation is as fierce as a tiger.
finally moved his future father-in-law and made the old man agree to their relationship.
Career and marriage double harvest
After Li Yong graduated from university, he was assigned to work in Tibet,
, but Ha Wen signed a contract with Tianjin TV and stayed in Tianjin.
Two young couples in love periods are separated by two places and suffer from lovesickness.
The only one who can relieve the lovesickness is the phone, but the other party’s face cannot be seen.
cannot hug the other party, which makes the two very painful.
Fortunately, Li Yong finished his mission and returned to Beijing a year later.
He went to the flower shop as soon as possible and picked a handful of the brightest roses.
was ready to give them to Ha Wen, whom he had been thinking about day and night.
After the two got together, they immediately decided to get married as soon as possible and not separate.
So on September 26, 1992, Li Yong and Ha Wen got married and became a legal couple.
However, at that time, both of them were still fledgling workers, and
had no savings, so there was no wedding.
The wedding room of the two is also very simple. Without a double bed, two single beds were spliced together.
has no bride or dowry, and there is not even a wedding photo.
It was not until four years later that they added a late wedding photo.
After marriage, Ha Wen and Li Yong went to CCTV for an interview together.
relied on their solid business skills and became CCTV employees together.
On the TV station, Ha Wen started to work behind the scenes, while Li Yong became the host. In the busy work of
, Ha Wen also took the time to study in directing and directing. After
, he joined CCTV Economic Channel as a director.
Hawen's career has been rising since then and she has been promoted very quickly.
But Li Yong seemed to have encountered a bottleneck period and was stagnant in the hosting industry.
Until one time, Li Yong saw a foreign variety show.
is a form that has never been used in China, so he thought that he could introduce a new program in China.
Shortly afterwards, " Lucky 52" came into being. As the host, Li Yong won praise from the audience with his solid basic skills,
and flexible and humorous style, and
became a front-line host of CCTV.
Li Yong's career has been rising since then.
He and the Taiwanese leader suggested that Ha Wen be the director of his program.
leader knew Ha Wen's ability, so he happily agreed and
let Ha Wen serve as the chief director of the program.
After that, Li Yong and Ha Wen were not only husband and wife, but also the relationship between subordinates and superiors.
The couple worked together to make a show bigger and stronger.
Li Yong became a well-known host, and the couple also became the golden partners in Taiwan.
Although CCTV is very busy at work, family life cannot be ignored.
Ha Wen of the Gu family often calls her parents-in-law and asks them about their well-being.
Because their parents-in-law lived in Urumqi for a long time, it was not very convenient for Hawen and his wife to go back to see the two elders, so they could only ask what they were missing by phone, so that they could buy and send it to the two elders in time.
It is cold in winter, Hawen will buy thick down jackets for his parents-in-law;
It is hot in summer, Hawen will buy light and breathable cloth shoes and mail them to Urumqi.
Ha Wen's thoughtfulness made her parents-in-law very satisfied, and she treated her daughter-in-law like her own daughter.
After marrying Li Yong for a long time, Ha Wen and her in-laws also became more and more frequent.
She found that her father-in-law's thoughts were very traditional and she was a bit macho.
The mother-in-law therefore had no status at home and could not even make the decision to buy something by herself.
So, Ha Wen will secretly give her mother-in-law some pocket money and ask her to buy what she likes.
The mother-in-law saw that Ha Wen was so sensible and filial, and she loved her daughter-in-law even more.
However, although her parents-in-law liked Ha Wen very much, they were a little "dissatisfied" with her.
Because Ha Wen and Li Yong have never had children since they got married,
made the two old men very anxious.
In fact, it is not that Ha Wen doesn’t want children, but Li Yongxian proposed to do DINK ,
to maintain the sweet two-person world.
In addition, they are very busy at work and are afraid that they will not have time to participate in their children's growth.
Li Yong's parents did not understand the young people's ideas.
In order to let their son and daughter-in-law have offspring, they ran from Urumqi to Beijing to persuade the two.
When it comes to having a child, Li Yong was afraid that Ha Wen would be embarrassed,
Therefore, when he occasionally refutes his parents, he would be emotional.
At this time, Ha Wen would always stand up to speak for his parents-in-law first, and then soothe her husband's emotions.
The in-laws were very sad about Li Yong, which made Ha Wen unable to bear it.
was shaken about whether to have a child.
One time, Ha Wen got home from get off work first and saw her mother-in-law sitting there with tears in her eyes.
hurriedly stepped forward to ask what had happened.
After looking at Ha Wen for a moment, my mother-in-law asked her carefully:
Can't you really have a baby? If you are too busy, I will help you take care of your children.
"When I think of you two having children, your dad and I feel empty."
The mother-in-law's words made Ha Wen feel a little guilty.
She felt that maybe she had ignored the feelings of the two elders, so she decided to persuade Li Yong.
After Li Yong returned home, Ha Wen expressed her willingness to have a child, and
also retelled her mother-in-law's words to Li Yong.
After hearing this, Li Yong was very grateful to Ha Wen for his understanding of his parents, and
is also willing to have a child with them.
Happy mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were harmonious
prepared for pregnancy, and Ha Wen got pregnant soon.
This time, my parents-in-law regarded her as the pearl in their eyes and did not dare to ask Ha Wen to do heavy work.
Until May 20, 2002, when Ha Wen's daughter was born, neither of the old couple had slacked off.
After the daughter was born, in order to cater to the customs of the Hawen Hui people, Li Yong not only let his daughter join the Hui people, but also named her Fatuma Li , which means the daughter of the god Muhammad .
In order to nourish Ha Wen's body, my mother-in-law often makes delicious food for her in different ways.
However, living under the same roof is inevitable.
Once, after Hawen came home from get off work, she found that the house was messy, as if she had been looted.
asked Li Yong and learned that it was a relative of Urumqi’s in-laws who came to visit.
because there were many customers and the in-laws could not take care of him, so they made the house mess.
Ha Wen said nothing. Although she was very tired after get off work,
, she still put down her bag and started to clean up the end of the house.
In-laws heard the sound of Ha Wen cleaning the house and realized that she had gone home.
quickly brought the dinner warmed in advance to Ha Wen.
took the tools in her hand and continued to clean the house.
Ha Wen is filial and sensible, and her parents-in-law are clear about things and make this family happy.
Ha Wen has never been worried about her daughter since she was born.
Because during the day, her daughter takes care of her mother-in-law when she goes to work, and at night she goes home to accompany her daughter for a while. When
is sleeping, her daughter is still taken care of by her mother-in-law.
This way, Ha Wen lived a pretty easy life until his daughter went to elementary school.
Seeing that his granddaughter had grown up, his parents-in-law knew that they could no longer disturb their son and daughter-in-law's life, so they set off and returned to their hometown in Urumqi.
But this does not affect their relationship with Hawen.
The careful Ha Wen still cares about the two elderly people very much.
She will take her in-laws to the hospital for physical examination in person, and
will also find a way to take her daughter back to her hometown to visit her in-laws.
"Mom treats me better than my own daughter. No one will forget to respect my mother in the future."
This is Ha Wen outside, and she evaluates her mother-in-law.
She has indeed done what she says and has always been very filial to her parents-in-law.
Every year, Ha Wen and Li Yong will go to the homes of the elderly on both sides to wish you a happy New Year.
Because Ha Wen’s hometown is closer to Beijing,
Therefore, a family of three will always go to Ningxia first and then to Xinjiang.
But this happens. After they have been to Ningxia, there are not a few days left in the holiday.
Therefore, they cannot stay in Xinjiang for too long, which makes Ha Wen's in-laws a little sad.
After all, the children cannot go home often, and they are looking forward to the days of the New Year.
After learning of his in-laws' dilemma, Ha Wen took the initiative to propose to Li Yong to return to Xinjiang during the Chinese New Year,
and then go to Ningxia: "The New Year is to reunite with his parents.
spend more time with the elderly. The New Year's Day is to satisfy your wishes. After
, we will come to Urumqi first during the Chinese New Year."
Ha Wen has always been doing what he said. In the Spring Festival in 2012, she and Li Yong took their daughter.
first flew from Beijing to Urumqi, stayed at their in-laws' house for a few days, and then flew to Ningxia.
Although Ha Wen often bows his head in front of her parents-in-law,
But when it was only her and Li Yong, she was still the one who competed for the first place in everything.
Li Yong once said in an interview that he bowed his head first every time he quarreled, and
and Ha Wen surrendered seemed to have become his habit.
The husband and wife are harmonious and respectful, and the daughter is growing up healthily.
was originally a happy family of three, but I didn’t know that a nightmare was coming quietly.
In 2014, Li Yong was preparing to go on stage in the dressing room.
suddenly became dizzy, and he fell to the ground amid the staff's screams.
A group of people rushed to rescue him. In addition to calling 120,
also specially asked someone to call Ha Wen, who was also in Taiwan.
Ha Wen was worried after hearing the news, but she knew she could not get lost, so
so she insisted on calming down and accompanied Li Yong to the hospital for examination.
This incident made Li Yong and Ha Wen start to reflect that the body should be more important than work.
They need to adjust the current proportion of life and work allocation, and
to do something they like to do.
Not long after, both of them resigned from CCTV, and
They began to have more time to enjoy life.
I lost my love after hearing the bad news
Ha Wen thought that as long as they adjust their work intensity, their bodies can get rest.
But things went against their wishes. In 2017, a test paper broke their beautiful life.
On Li Yong's test sheet, it clearly states: advanced pharyngeal cancer.
Ha Wen confirmed the test form over and over again with his hands shaking.
hoped that he had read it wrong, but the facts were too cruel.
Ha Wen was already in tears when she came to her senses. She and Li Yong were silent. After a long time, she threw herself into Li Yong's arms and cried bitterly.
The sad emotions cannot solve the problem. Ha Wen quickly put down the work at hand.
took Li Yong to major well-known hospitals in China, but
failed to obtain an ideal treatment plan.
Long time of running around made Li Yong's health worse and worse.
Ha Wen was worried as she looked at her husband's increasingly thin face.
One day, her daughter studying in the United States talked with Ha Wen.
She knew that her father was in poor health and there was no particularly good solution in China.
Therefore, she suggested to her mother that she would take her father to the United States for treatment.
Ha Wen thought that since her daughter was studying in the United States and she had no job now,
might as well go to the United States with Li Yong to reunite with her daughter, and
also try if there is a better medical method there.
Before going abroad, Li Yong and Ha Wen returned to Urumqi first.
Li Yong knew that this might be the last farewell to his parents.
However, they concealed the fact that Li Yong was suffering from cancer, for fear that the two old people would worry.
After going abroad, Li Yong cooperated with the treatment while accompanying Ha Wen and his daughter.
The family of three has spent a rare leisurely and contentment.
In the United States, Li Yong was often photographed by the media.
People who don’t know the truth often accuse Li Yong of getting green card in order to immigrate to the United States, and
gave up his bright future in China.
But at this time, Li Yong and Ha Wen had no time to respond to these messages.
They can't tell the truth because their parents-in-law would know that Li Yong was sick and would be worried.
However, the family of three has not been in China for a long time, which still makes the two elderly people very worried.
helpless, Li Yong could only call her parents when she was in good condition.
Ha Wen's in-laws are old and can't see his son's strangeness through the screen.
But Li Yong's sisters saw some clues from the call, so they secretly asked Ha Wen.
Seeing that the matter could not be hidden, Ha Wen and Li Yong could only choose to tell the sisters the truth, and
asked them to continue to help hide their parents.
Several sisters felt sorry for their younger brother very much and flew to the United States to visit Li Yong.
Not long after, Li Yong was seriously ill. Ha Wen had to take care of Li Yong while
was trying to evade his parents-in-law, afraid that they would discover the truth.
But Ha Wen's love and dedication to Li Yong was still unable to retain his beloved man.
After 17 months of illness, Li Yong passed away.
Ha Wen had no time to cry and panic at this time, and she hurriedly notified her family in China.
At this time, it was meaningless to hide his parents-in-law. Ha Wen endured his grief and told the two elders the truth.
The in-laws fainted in grief for a moment. After waking up, they were reluctant to believe it.
confirmed to Ha Wen again and again before crying out.
Ha Wen was at the end of her strength at this time. She comforted her daughter, and
followed Li Yong's last wish and was busy dealing with his funeral.
Because Li Yong’s family custom is that the body cannot stay for more than 3 days,
so it needs to be buried as soon as possible, and Li Yong hopes that everything will be simple.
So Ha Wen buried Li Yong in the United States.
5 days later, Ha Wen handled Li Yong's funeral, and
only informed the world of Li Yong's parting on Weibo.
"Forever Lost My Love", just four short words, without modification, and sadness.
Hawen's in-laws couldn't bear the pain of sending black hair after her son was buried.
Almost no drip of water was in the past few days, and she was sent to the hospital by her daughters.
After Ha Wen learned about it, he immediately called to comfort his parents-in-law.
In the days that followed, she often called her parents-in-law, and
also encouraged her daughter to communicate more with her grandparents, and the whole family supported each other out of her grief.
In order to accompany his daughter, Hawen has always lived in the United States.
In 2019, Ha Wen returned to China to see her relatives and friends.
She did not go back to her parents’ house first, but went to see her in-laws first.
My parents-in-law knew how difficult Ha Wen was, and thought of Li Yong again, and hugged her and burst into tears.
Ha Wen also took the opportunity to vent his long-suppressed emotions,
and then comforted her parents-in-law and said, "Although Li Yong is gone, I will always be the daughter-in-law of the Li family.
Don't worry about my parents-in-law, I will always respect the two elders."
Although Ha Wen returned to the United States, she still cares about her parents-in-law who are in China.
She changed her new phone for her parents-in-law and set up all their emergency contacts as her.
Every year during the Spring Festival, Ha Wen will take his daughter back to his parents-in-law for the New Year. On the table, ,
will always have a pair of unused dishes and chopsticks, which are left for Li Yong.
In 2020, his daughter Fatumai Li was admitted to the prestigious American university Columbia University .
Ha Wen immediately told his in-laws the good news and shared the joy with them.
It is now the fourth year of Li Yong's death,
Ha Wen is still single. Every time Li Yong's death birthday,
She always expresses her longing for her husband in Weibo in just a few words.
Ha Wen gave all her love in her life to Li Yong.
She loved Li Yong, so she gave birth to a daughter for him;
She loved Li Yong, so she was willing to continue to be filial to her parents-in-law after his death;
She loved Li Yong, so she never forgets him.
As in the program "Seeing Words Like Face", Ha Wen's letter to Li Yong said:
"Our friends said that to analyze marriage problems,
Don't use Li Yong and Ha Wen as examples. They are not called life.
is called fairy tale. I think if my parents have a spirit in heaven,
will be very pleased. My daughter did not marry the wrong person."
Ha Wen and Li Yong's love traveled through life and death,
until now, is still gentle and intense.
