The most difficult thing to guess is the human heart, and the most difficult thing to do is to "ask others". In the workplace, it is really enviable to see some people who ask for help without slap or effort. In fact, asking for help is not very complicated. The key is to understand the mystery and skills. Today we will introduce to you four skills to seek help, hoping to learn from them in daily life.
The first skill, the most unskilled way to "lay"
is the biggest skill. It seems difficult on the surface, but we can't do it, so others can easily ask others to solve it. The reason behind this is accumulation. Only by having enough "market" and connection resources can you speak more weight and others will give you more face. Therefore, when doing big things depends on daily accumulation, you must know how to lay the groundwork in your daily life. When doing things, don’t just look at the front of you, pay more attention to the long-term, don’t take personal interests too seriously, cultivate your feelings and make good preparations for your favor, don’t always cram the moment you are. With this kind of elegance of long-term work, you will be ahead of others when it comes to asking others for help.
The second technique is to help you find
This is a kind of reverse thinking. If you ask for trouble, you will be very calm when you help others. We must be good at changing our thinking style and turn seeking others into helping others. Study the person being asked in advance and find out his urgent needs. If you use your resources to help him solve the problem of burning eyebrows, the other party will naturally be grateful and accumulate strength to help you. Asking others to accomplish things means that you have the ability and can let others come to help you actively, that is called wisdom.
The third technique is to explain the "benefits"
without benefits, there is no motivation, and without benefits, there is no strength. Anyone who helps others must have his own purpose, either to improve his image, to obtain material rewards at any time, or to satisfy the needs of the soul. When asking for help, the focus is not on the specific matter, but on the interests and benefits behind the matter. We must make it clear. This is called taking advantage of your needs, taking advantage of your needs, and tempting your interests, and rushing to help you.
The fourth skill is to use "disadvantages"
people are most afraid of "what you are afraid of." Some people are difficult to deal with, and some things are indeed difficult to deal with, because you have not found weaknesses and breakthroughs. Don’t treat others as a weak person when asking for help. The smartest way is to take advantage of the other person’s shortcomings. He was afraid of his leader, so he used his leader to suppress him. He was afraid that his colleagues would do anything badly, so he used his colleagues to stimulate him. However, if you try to use this method carefully, it may offend people and leave obstacles in the future.
Today’s sharing hopes will be useful to you! I also hope to like and support it!
