The old saying goes: ask for help, be inferior to others. But there are people like this in life who seek help from others no matter big or small matters. It would be fine if others help, but if they did not agree to his request, they would immediately feel displeased or immediately turn against each other. Such people are around us, which makes people feel deeply annoying. Therefore, many people are confused, how should we get along with these neighbors who always ask for help? How to avoid harming harmony? People like
not only have similar temperaments, but also have the same way of dealing with people. Most people who ask for help in everything are not respectful and often speak without any restraint.
is also the most convincing example: a new family in the village is well-off, well-educated and polite, and I feel very proud of my face. And the families near them either went to his house to borrow this thing today or went to his house to ask for help tomorrow.
However, they did not say good things about this family behind their backs and told the villagers not to interact with his family, meaning that this family is not worth getting along with. Because I am close to it and like to write novels on rural themes, I pay attention to these things, but I have always been puzzled. Why are these families so ruthless?
Once, I stewed a pot of hand-held meat, and one of them happened to borrow money from to , so I left him to eat. I like to drink every day, but he doesn't drink. This time I suddenly had a bad idea and told him: "You have a glass of wine with me, everything is easy to do!"
He had no choice but to pick up the glass. Unexpectedly, this person has a very strong alcohol tolerance, but he doesn’t know how to drink alcohol on his daily basis. Only me, a person with a very large alcohol tolerance, can make him slightly drunk. The more I drank, the hotter I became, and the conversation became very sticky, so I led the topic to this outsider.
He said, "It's only a few of our families who are in a good mood that they take care of this foreign household. No one cares about that kind of person."
I asked, "Don't you often ask him for help?"
He said disdainfully, "I beg him to look down on him! Our families are the only one in the village. If we let everyone isolate anyone, we will not interact with his family."
is indeed the case, and I couldn't help but take a breath of air conditioning. When I was young, a family in the village who was making antiques begged me to go to his house to help thresh wheat. When I was about to arrive at his house, I was stopped by the villagers and refused to help him, and I also said a lot of bad things about him. The few people who went to help with me turned around and went home. I was afraid of not keeping my promise. Since I agreed, I had to go and help. I had no choice but to take a detour, but when I arrived at this house, I saw that there were not many people coming. Now that the children of this family have grown up, they have forgotten the people who punished him back then, and they don’t remember the people who have kindness to him, and have become one of the members of that group.
Most of the families who always ask for help like to get together to eat and drink, spend money when they have money, and also invented a "AA system" for eating. Of course, these people have some people who can get some money, that is, people who love face, and often they will borrow but not repay them. Either they forgot the excuse or turned the tables that they falsely accused him of borrowing money.
In short, these people are not respectful, dare to say anything, and dare to do anything. Some people are afraid of them, and even curry favor with them and let them take full advantage. Therefore, this phenomenon has always existed in the countryside.
As the national literacy has improved rapidly in recent years, more and more people are unwilling to this group.
These people gather together every day to have delicious food and drink, but they are not diligent and always want to take other people's things for themselves. But for the sake of face, too many people need to support them when they are big and small. They invite them to be hosts, and they often serve as great food and drinks, and they have always spoiled them to this temper.
is now fine. The country has rectified unhealthy trends. rural weddings and white events are not a big deal. Everyone has put all their energy into cultivating children and respecting their elders. Few people have "taken to live and suffer." Of course, these people have also changed subtly and have begun to live a life.
Although some of them even came out to shout, saying that the countryside now has no rural flavor.However, no one cares about them now. Who can save worry-free days? But continue to listen to their mercy! If you are also a neighbor who always asks others for trouble when you encounter problems, how should you get along with each other? The best way for a centenarian to tell you is: stay away from them!
