You went to the street to buy clothes, and when you entered a store, you tried a piece of clothes casually, and the shopping guide praised you for being particularly suitable for wearing this dress. It was simply tailor-made for you, and you were so fluttering.

. We can solve them by ourselves. Most people will find ways to solve them by themselves. However, when they encounter things that they have tried and cannot complete, we can only seek help from others.

. Once we need to ask someone for help, we must put down our posture.

cannot help but look arrogant.

sometimes it should be a natural thing for

, but in the end,

has many problems. Maybe it's

. Because you made the taboos of

when you were helping, so not only do others not help you,

is also easy to hurt your feelings.

1. Don’t jump into other people’s refusals

I believe everyone has had this experience. When

is looking for help, not everyone

will agree to you, and those who don’t agree will find some reasons to shirk it.

Sometimes when others say it,

can bring you into their pit.

makes you feel that what he says makes sense.

doesn’t help you, you have to thank him.

But in this way, you jump into the trap. If

cannot avoid it, then you will be more and more unhappy to ask others to do things. Let’s give a simple example:

you go to the street to buy clothes, and when you enter a store,

you try a piece of clothing casually, and then

the shopping guide praises you for wearing this clothing

, which is very suitable for you,

, so you are so comfortable. In the end, you don’t say anything,

and you give money. As a result, you go to the next store,

has the same clothes, and the price is half cheap.

Asking someone to do things is similar to buying things.

If you jump into the other party’s words,

You will easily forget your tasks,

If you jump out of this trap,

you can in turn make conditions with the other party.

2. Don’t go beyond the other party and ask others for help

There is a plot in the Title Times:

Nanxiang through the good sister Guli relationship

entered "M.E" to work, but later

encountered a problem, but she found the good sister Lin Xiao who worked in "M.E"

. After Guli learned about it, he felt that Nanxiang did not treat her as a friend, so several people had a big fight, and

both hurt each other's hearts. The reality may not be as dramatic as

, but if we have asked someone for help in

,

, no matter whether the other party can achieve our goal,

, you should not go over him to find others,

, otherwise he will feel embarrassed,

will have many opinions on you.

3. Don’t hang yourself on a tree. You must know how to adapt.

When many people ask for help,

doesn’t know how to adapt.

sometimes the other party is perfunctory or forgets.

is anxious and doesn’t know how to advance or retreat.

If this is the case, we can completely

through some flexible methods,

, such as indirectly starting from the people around him,

, let the other party be close to him remind him

, arrange your affairs as soon as possible,

, everything has gaps, don't go one way to death,

, knowing how to adapt can help you avoid many detours.

4. Don’t be like an iron cock and don’t give up a penny

Since we are asking for help, we must understand that

others have no obligation to help you with your work for free.

doesn’t seem like paying at all,

just wants to sit and enjoy the fruits, and maybe

will pay a greater price later.

So the money you should spend,

Repay what you should pay,

Only in this way can people come and go to provide you with corresponding help.

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Editor in charge | Jiaojiao

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