Men should get married when they are old and women should get married when they are old. This is the truth that parents always have.
The son is old and has not gotten married for a long time. The most anxious and worried about is the mother. But this is a new era. Love and marriage are all personal freedom. After all, the mother cannot make decisions for her son, so she can only give her son advice and advice behind the scenes. Today we will take a look at a mother's concerns.
"My son is in his 30s, 1.8 meters, looks like Takeshi Kaneshiro. After graduating from Harvard University, he is busy with his career and still doesn't find a partner." An old mother in Hangzhou is worried about her son's lifelong affairs, so worried that she has insomnia
Urban News Recently, Zhang Lisan, chief physician of the Department of Neurology at Run Run Shaw Hospital Affiliated to Zhejiang University School of Medicine, received many patients with acute insomnia, including many parents who were worried about their children's lifelong affairs and had insomnia all night. Ms. Hu is in her 60s and it is no longer easy to train her son to become a Harvard college student. She also has to worry about her son's marriage. It is not about whether he holds a grandson, but that her parents usually use their children as the bottom line of fulfilling their responsibilities.
The children are not married, and their parents are very anxious and are always worried that they will look at themselves with strange eyes.
Noted that now, the post-90s and post-00s, all work well and are busy in the office every day. The difference is that they have less free time and have a strong career aspiration, which delays their marriage. If the economic environment is good, when starting a business, time and energy are all on your career; if the economic environment is bad, office workers are worried that raising a child will not give their children a good future.
Some parents even quarrel with their children about this. Ms. Hu and Zhang Li often quarreled about this. Ms. Hu said that her son has a high education and a good family environment. The key is that her son graduated from Harvard University. "We parents always hope that their children will get married and have children early. At that time, I was angry when I heard him say that he didn't want to get married. I had insomnia that night.
When I went to the hospital, I found that I had mental problems and needed medication assistance. However, Ms. Hu still couldn't resist her son and planned to teach her children's affairs to themselves.
The author feels that the current marriage and love market has changed, mainly because men and women have been educated for a long time, and they are over 20 as soon as they graduate from college. In general, the marriage time is delayed. There are also many people who urge their daughters to get married, but this urge is useless. Slow work and work hard, so don’t be anxious. So, it’s time for some university presidents to encourage college students to fall in love, because love may not necessarily affect their studies. But then again, more parents are worried that their children’s love will waste their studies. After all, going to school is very expensive.
On TV, I saw this scene for a long time:
"Son, for the past few years, my hair has turned white;
But the emperor is not in a hurry to be anxious about your affairs. I am anxious about your affairs, but you are not in a hurry at all.
Mom is now thinking about it. If you don’t interfere with your marriage, as long as you are satisfied, your mother will agree.
But before you fall in love and get married, your mother still has to tell you that these three types of women cannot be found, so that you will suffer for the rest of your life if you marry such a wife in the future.
The editor thinks that don’t interfere with them, you should guide, for example: women who like to spread rumors cannot find them. Women who are overly vain cannot be found. Women who are disrespectful and unfilial cannot be found. It's too far from home to find. Parents should give their children some advice, such as the basic characteristics of their partners.
Also, parents can find more contact information for their children and let them contact themselves, so they don’t take their son to go on blind dates. They can participate in dating activities so that they can get to know more of the opposite sex, and it won’t be embarrassing if they can’t get a chance to get to the talk. When the child is over thirty years old and is still not getting married, the parents are really anxious to get angry. Parents also understand in their hearts that this matter cannot be impatient. Only by finding the right person can life after marriage be happy for a long time.
Editor, I graduated from 21 years old and I have to 26 in a few years after working. Some of the people around me who have not gone to college have kids. My parents were very anxious at the time.But my parents are still sensible and don't always say it. As a veteran, I still recommend that some young people not reject blind dates, as they are considered complete only after marriage. Actively pay attention to participating in the first online blind date cultural festival in Poyang County, is also giving yourself a chance. What if you meet the true emperor? ”
Source: Comprehensive Urban Express
