originally had aspirations for men, but was born with a daughter.
There is a girl named "Gengzi " in Ningxia. In 2005, she took huge health risks and underwent the first sexual operation of "female turning into male".
This matter has caused heated discussion. Geng Zi was focused on by the media. Her or his experience has become the focus of the Chinese plastic surgery industry.
How is Geng Zi's life after the public opinion storm? The content that this issue of the article is the first sexual operation of "female turning into a man" in China...
1, the incident, the process of the mind
Geng Zi is from Ningxia. He was born in August 1974. His real name is Geng Lanjun. From his appearance, he is an ordinary girl from the northwest.
As for gender, she has been different from ordinary girls since she was a child. She doesn’t like to go to the toilet with everyone. At first, she felt that it might be because of her introverted personality.
However, at the age of twelve or thirteen, Geng Zi gradually realized that he did not like to be with girls, not because of introversion, but because of the opposite sex.
In daily food, clothing, housing and transportation, Geng Zi tried every means to choose neutral clothes and also treated neutral hairstyles. When he was puberty, he even played with boys.
She hopes from the bottom of her heart that she is a boy, especially when she goes to the bathroom, she always feels ten thousand discomforts in her heart, as if she is peeping, so she always chooses to go to the bathroom when there are fewer people.
Geng Zi doesn't like the female characteristics on her, especially when she was in her first period, she hoped that she would change her gender and become a man.
The mother kept telling Gengzi what to pay attention to every month in the future; Gengzi thought that men would definitely not be so troublesome.
In that era of conservative thoughts, Geng Zi could only fantasize in his mind that if he was a man, would life look different?
When I was in high school, Geng Zi fell in love early, but the partner of the relationship was not a boy, but a girl.
From the bottom of her heart, she hopes that she is a boy, so when she is in love, she will naturally only consider girls.
When the two were chatting in private, Gengzi expressed his true thoughts, and the other party also understood her inner pain.
It was also at this time that Geng Zi mustered up the courage to say to others for the first time: "If I have the chance in the future, I want to become a complete man."
Several years later, whenever Geng Zi thinks of his first love, he will smoke a big mouthful of cigarettes. She said that the girl has a fragile personality and always has a sad expression, like a dark cloud, always entrenched in the depths of her memory.
The two of them did not have close contact with their skin, but they went to class together, went to the snack stall at the school gate for dinner, and took the girl home with them.
During the period of love, Gengzi said that she really felt very happy, just like the flowers that just bloomed, and encountered the best spring.
For this relationship, Geng Zi also vowed to believe that life in the future will be so beautiful, just like the big world outside the school, like the snowball in the school, and it will be like what you want.
But in fact, Geng Zi's thoughts when she was young were too naive. What was really rubbed was her life, society and destiny, which was the rulemaker.
And that first love girlfriend told her love with Gengzi to her parents, and her parents firmly opposed it and did not allow the two to be together.
In the end, Gengzi and his first love went their separate ways, and the girl married an ordinary man under pressure.
On the day of her first love getting married, Gengzi went to buy a handful of roses. Although her friends tried every means to persuade her not to attend the wedding, she still went to the wedding scene of her first love with the flowers.
This scene scared many people, especially the woman's parents, for fear that Geng Zi would do stupid things on impulsively.
, Geng Zi just gave the rose to her first love and then left sadly. The most sincere love of youth finally broke into sadness all over the ground.
For this relationship, gender has become the biggest obstacle and has added trouble to Geng Zi.
Growing up and going out to work. Although youth has gone far away, worries are like ten thousand thin threads, entangled into a dense mass.
Regarding sexually erectile surgery, Geng Zi was attracted by a short article when he was reading a newspaper in 1992, saying that there was a woman in Beijing who wanted to use scientific means to facilitate sexually.
This article is like a seed, taking root in Geng Zi's heart. Since then, she has paid special attention to this information, hoping that one day the technology will make progress and she can also change her innate gender through surgery.
In the early 1990s, a girl in Ningxia thought about becoming a man all day long. First of all, it was difficult for her parents to pass. Before changing her gender, Gengzi had to change the traditional concepts of relatives and friends.
When Geng Zi was 25 years old, she went to Nanjing for the first time. She got off the train with her luggage on her back, so she went to find a bathroom nearby because she was anxious.
But as soon as he stepped into the women's toilet, he was pulled by the management staff and said that the men's toilet was there.
Geng Zi turned around and went to the men's bathroom. She felt that it was the most correct thing to go to the men's bathroom. So since then, when she was in Nanjing, she would choose men's bathroom to go and go there, and no one has ever said anything.
In daily work, Geng Zi performed very well. From the grassroots hotel employee to the designer of a company, her career has changed and although her salary has become higher and higher, what she wants to change the most is her gender.
Regarding love, Geng Zi said: I can’t love a man, I am a man myself.
So the few loves she has had, without exception, are all women.
2. The operation has attracted attention
. Geng Zi was thinking about when he saved enough money, he would go to the hospital for surgery to realize his long-cherished wish for many years.
When she was working in Xiamen , she accidentally accepted an interview with a media outlet, and that media gave her a mobile phone number. She was a "school-cultivator" of the Ming sect who could help her realize her dream.
Xu Zhifu is a doctor and a surgeon. When he received a call from Geng Zi, he chatted in depth for a long time.
In 2004, Geng Zi confirmed and affirmed that he would have to undergo a sexual operation, while Dr. Xiu Zhifu asked repeatedly whether he was really determined?
Immediately afterwards, two hospitals in Fujian and Guangdong were willing to perform surgery on Geng Zi for free.
It is the Spring Festival, and Geng Zi is looking forward to the date of the operation. At the same time, she also told her first love girlfriend about this incident.
My girlfriend is already a wife. She sent a text message on her mobile phone to wish Geng Zi a smooth operation. At the end of the conversation, she said: How great it would be if you had the surgery ten years ago.
What happened ten years ago has become a thing of the past, and Geng Zi wants to pass the surgery to embrace the future she wants.
In the plastic surgery world, doctors call it a sexual intercourse of "female turning into a man" a competition with God, which is many times more difficult than a man turning into a woman.
, and Geng Zi is the first, at least the first case in China, who has undergone sexual intercourse in a woman to become a man. After the media reported this, it attracted the attention of people from all walks of life at home and abroad.
surgery is divided into four totals. The woman's organs on Geng Zi are cut off, and then the man's organs are added to make Geng Zi truly become a man.
It was the date of surgery. Geng Zi told the media: "I made this decision not for anyone... I just wanted to fulfill my wish, be a real man, no longer suffer..."
The first operation was very successful, the second and third time was also very successful. By 9 am on October 25, 2005, Geng Zi began his fourth operation.
The first two surgeries were subtraction, and the last two surgeries were addition. The subtraction tests the doctor's subtle operations.
The hospital wants to protect Geng Zi's privacy, so the surgeon did not disclose too much about the operation, and the media that flocked to interview Geng Zi one after another.
As for why gender changes, Geng Zi said that he has not adapted to his daughter since childhood. The surgery was not because of external stimulation, but because of a dream he had since childhood.
Regarding the operation, according to Geng Zi's own recollection, in March 2005, he had the first and second surgery in Xiamen, and then he waited for the wound to heal.
html The third operation in 17, Geng Zi said that when he entered the operating room, he was very calm. He knew that this transplant was critical and might be dangerous, and she or he was about to become, chose to trust the doctor 100%.
Although Geng Zi was calm on the surface, after six hours of surgery, he was slowly pushed out of the operating room and asked over and over again whether the operation was successful.
He asked the medical staff next to him to help, can he take a look at the surgical site with his own eyes.
According to Geng Zi, after the third operation, he became a real man. First, his dream of changing his gender was realized, and second, he felt that he would assume the responsibility of being a man in the future.
Gengzi wants to find a girl to get married and have children like a man, start a new family, and then have a child through surrogacy, or adopt a child in an orphanage.
The reporter asked Geng Zi, if he changes his gender and then falls in love, will he hide his past gender? Will you have different ideas when facing your future wife?
Geng Zize said that when she is in love in the future, she will change her gender through surgery, tell the other party without any concealment, and will cooperate with media interviews in the future.
In short, Geng Zi has long made sufficient ideological preparations for his future life. He repeatedly emphasized that easy surgery is not the result of thought.
By February 2006, Geng Zi got his new ID card, and in the gender column, he had changed from "female" to "male".
Geng Zi sighed and said that she had been waiting for this day for a long time.
This incident was passed back to Ningxia. When relatives and friends learned that the operation was successful, they finally let go of their hearts. They had also persuaded Gengzi, but since they couldn't persuade him, they simply wanted to open it.
Let’s not talk about the body for the time being. From a spiritual perspective, Geng Zi believes that he does not have any questions such as whether he adapts or is not adapted. He feels that all this should belong to him.
Geng Zi is full of hope for the future. She likes singing very much, so she wants to be a singer.
3. After the ease, the relationship is still
. From January 2013, Geng Zi once again accepted an interview with the media.
He was wearing a fashionable outfit, with a trendy and handsome hairstyle, and a passionate smile on his face.
From the outside, there is no difference between Gengzi and ordinary urban trendy men; from the outside, Gengzi is in a good spirit and has a smile on his lips.
According to Geng Zi himself, since he had done those four surgeries, his mentality has improved day by day. Recalling the gender of the past, I don’t regret it at all. She said, “My life likes to keep moving forward and rarely look back.”
Gengzi has also changed many jobs over the years, and has changed from the misty south to the dry north. From morning to night, in addition to work, he drinks, eats and smokes with his buddies and sisters.
The female identity of the past is like the film deep in the cabinet, fading day by day and forgetting day by day.
Once I went to Xiamen and went to the easy place back then. The city was still the familiar city, and friends were also familiar friends.
She said that Xiamen is developing very fast. Regardless of whether the islands are changing with each passing day, or the rumors on the streets and alleys, I have to thank Xiamen and this city.
The media asked Geng Zi, how was his life like when he just had Yixian, that is, from 2005 to 2006?
Geng Zi said that after the easy surgery and the knife wounds were all healed, he went to an advertising company in Shenzhen to apply for a job.
The boss of that company is a Hong Konger. After reading Geng Zi’s resume, he asked why there was a two-year gap? Haven't worked for two years?
Geng Zi was very honest and said that he had undergone sexual operation in the hospital in those two years. He told the other party about the past without reservation.
After listening to Geng Zi's story, the Hong Kong boss did not mind his past gender, but paid more attention to his ability to work, so he gave Geng Zi a monthly salary of 3,500 yuan and a probation period of three months.
When I was a colleague in the company, after learning about Geng Zi’s past experience, not only did I not reject him, but everyone got along well.
Geng Zi wants to apply for a graphic design position, and the boss asks him to plan and write copy first.
Just as I joined the company, Geng Zi received a task of writing a "story book". To put it bluntly, it is to plan an event for a real estate company.
Geng Zi worked hard to finish the book, and the superiors were very satisfied after reading it.
In this company in Shenzhen, after working for half a year, Geng Zi changed to another advertising company and became a planning manager.
The reason why she changed jobs was because she liked designing jobs and did not like unchanging desks.
After changing jobs several times, Geng Zi changed from Shenzhen to Beijing, then to Shijiazhuang, and finally worked as a creative director in a real estate company.
Talking about the love experience over the years, Geng Zi said: "For love, it is no longer the feeling of love or not, but whether you can love and whether you dare to love."
Although salary has increased over the years and you have been constantly challenging yourself in your career, you have gained very little in this regard.
Since the operation was completed, Geng Zi's consideration of love is much more complicated than that of ordinary people.
For ordinary people, if they meet a girl they like, they can boldly pursue it.
But in contrast, Geng Zi seemed much more passive and dared not confess his love to the girl he liked. Especially as he got older, he became more timid in his relationships.
Geng Zi said: "When I was in Shijiazhuang, I met a beautiful girl. I was able to chat with each other. The other party asked for more contact and also mentioned living together."
But Geng Zi refused this relationship, one because he didn't feel anything about that girl, and the other was afraid that his past experience would scare the other party away.
On the Internet, a girl also contacted Geng Zi on the initiative, saying that she didn't mind his past and wanted to rush over and run with him.
But Geng Zi rejected the other party, saying that it would be better to be an ordinary friend in the future.
In 2012, Geng Zi met the girl he liked during a blind date.
However, Geng Zi did not dare to express his love for the girl, and he felt tortured in his heart.
If you tell me about your past experience, will the girl be scared away? But if Geng Zi didn't talk about his past experiences, he wouldn't be able to bear to hurt the other party.
After all, Gengzi is different from an ordinary man. Even if that girl can accept it, can the other party’s parents accept that the future son-in-law is a Yi-sex person?
When Geng Zi was dating the girl for the third time, he told him about his past experience. The next step was to wait for the other party's response, just like a serious prisoner waiting for the judge's final judgment.
Many things have two sides, and people’s evaluation of Geng Zi is also divided into two sides of positive and negative opposition. Some people understand, while others don’t understand. Geng Zi often laughs at the negative comments of the outside world.
Geng Zi was also worried about the sequelae of sexual intercourse. When he returned to Xiamen to find Dr. Xiu for examination, Dr. Xiu said that he was in good health and did not have obvious sequelae of sexual intercourse.
Geng Zi doesn't like his sick look, so he has never taken androgens, so he has not grown an Adam's apple or a beard. He doesn't want to live with medicine for the rest of his life.
Geng Zi boldly broke through the tradition for gender; but Geng Zi was very conservative about family, thinking about finding someone who could stay with her for life, hoping to set up an ordinary family.
Geng Zi once went back to his hometown in the northwest and met his parents who had been away for many years.
is like a tree wandering outside, blown away by the wind and returns with the wind.
Parents were nagging Gengzi's future, fearing that no one would take care of him when he got old; Gengzi listened to his parents' nagging, tears slowly rolled out of his eyes.
Leaves always return to their roots, people always return to their homes, and they will come out of here one day.
Since Yili, parents have also endured a lot of rumors and under pressure from traditional ideas.
No matter how the outside world evaluates Yi Shi people, parents are like big umbrellas, which will always shelter their children from wind and rain.
Geng Zi summarized his emotional experience and had three love stories in total, but he did not hold hands until the end. We also wish that this person who breaks through tradition can have a happy and happy life.
Geng Ziyi was single before, but after Yishi still couldn't find his favorite partner. He was nothing more than breaking through the inner wall.
Postscript:
Everyone has their own choice. For Geng Zi's choice, he got what he wanted and what he would bear.
Everyone's life is like an independent small house. Without violating morality and law, we should also respect Geng Zi's choice of life.
