When a princess has a noble feeling, she lives a comfortable life as an easy-going person.
In the fairy tale, when Snow White's stepmother asked Mojim who is the most beautiful woman in the world, Mojim's answer is always "Snow White". The reason why Snow White is loved is not only because she has a noble identity and cute appearance, but more importantly, she is kind-hearted and always considers others.
Just imagine, a beautiful, gentle and kind princess will become the dream lover of many people! However, when a girl is neither beautiful nor gentle, nor understanding, she is not only not noble, but also plays a good manner and is domineering to others. Such a person will not become the princess in everyone's mind. She just suffers from the self-righteous "princess disease".
She lives in the castle
Yi Qiang has a wealthy family and a superior life. She has always been the "princess" in our eyes, and she agrees quite well. People who are not familiar with her will think she is very arrogant and like to show off her wealth. Only those who are familiar with her will know that she is just a "little princess" living in her heart.
When she first met her, she always said something unacceptable. Once when everyone talked about neutral pens, she suddenly said, "I buy a dozen neutral pens. As long as one is not easy to use, I will throw them away."
Ziyun said, "Please notify me before throwing things next time, I will pick them up."
Everyone heard the irony in Ziyun's words, but Yi Qiang explained seriously, "Why do I have the nerve to use bad things for you?"
just had been together for a long time. Everyone knew that she had no malice and gradually got used to her way of speaking.
Yi Qiang is an only child, and her parents are busy with work, so she is very lonely. When she was a child, she could only be with dolls and fairy tales. Gradually, she really regarded herself as a princess.
Nowadays, her "princess disease" has caused some boys who pursue her to back down. For example, you must go to high-end restaurants, you cannot eat food from nameless shops, and you must pay attention to taste in your clothes. These conditions make many people feel uncomfortable, so her love life has always been blank.
One day, she suddenly fell into the sea of love.
When everyone saw her "true emperor", they were surprised because the man in front of them was completely inconsistent with the conditions she had offered before.
"Although his appearance is ordinary, his behavior is a 'prince' and a 'knight'." She saw our doubts, explained immediately, and then smiled sweetly.
Although everyone is puzzled, I still wish them happiness.
In the first year or two when Yi Qiang dated her boyfriend, we advised her to change her "princess disease" because it is easy to make people disgusted. But she pouted and said, "I would rather be myself alone than live ordinary." The sentence
sounds a bit uncomfortable, but this is what makes her special.
Fortunately, her boyfriend always tolerated her, and the two did not have conflicts or quarrels.
So, Yi Qiang continued her "princess disease" unscrupulously.
Be a casual and optimistic person
My friend Jiaen is a friendly and easy-going person. No matter where she goes, she can make friends quickly.
Jiaen's father is a successful businessman with a superior family and lives in a luxurious villa area. Jiaen's clothes, bag and shoes are all famous brands, and she is also beautiful. But she is not arrogant at all and is easy to get along with. She always said her parents educated her very successfully.
Her dress can easily make people misunderstand that she is a pampered lady. After getting along for a long time, I found that she has many advantages.
Once I said casually: "From the beginning, I thought you were just a pretty girl!"
"My parents often taught me to cherish blessings. You can't lose your temper at will, and you can't be prejudiced against others. Only by being easy-going and friendly can people get close to you." Jiaen was not angry, but also answered me with a smile.
The parents' education of Jiaen was indeed successful. She became a very popular girl, with an optimistic personality and an open-minded attitude, tried not to care about others in everything, and always chose to face life with a smile.
Her personality is like a brilliant sunflower, facing the sunshine with high spirits, and I believe that even if my life is suddenly changed in the future, I will not be easily defeated.
Life is indeed impermanent. When she was in her twenties, her father failed in business and was heavily in debt. He had to sell his villa and luxury cars. After that, their whole family rented it.
's huge gap in falling from the clouds is enough to cause many people to collapse. When Jiaen talked to me about this, even I couldn't help but cry.
"Why are you crying? I am the person involved, I am the one who should cry! I didn't cry, you actually 'take the initiative'." Jiaen was joking while using toilet paper to wipe my tears.
I was amused: "Is 'pre-employment' used this way?"
Her smile remained unchanged, and she was still easy-going, and she did not cry because of this, nor did she complain about the world, and even said to me with a roar, "I have become very amazing now. My father went bankrupt, which taught me to make money and bargain."
"What does it mean?"
"I sold all my leather bags to second-hand boutiques, and I made a lot of money! And I also met more friends."
"Sold? Are those not your favorites?" I know she loves those leather bags very much, and often says they are her "little husband".
"Yes, but it doesn't matter. Anyway, the home is not very space now, and there is no place to put those bags. The best love is to let go of your hands. Why not let them find a better owner!" Even though she was in trouble, Jiaen still remained optimistic, although her eyes were a little wet when she said this.
"You are very open-minded!" I sincerely admire you.
"At least the whole family still lives together and is not separated, so I am very satisfied and I feel very happy. Without a bag, it won't affect anything, but I can't imagine the days without a family." As she said that, she smiled brightly.
I held her hand and nodded deeply. Until now, Jiaen has always been a very important friend in my life. No matter how busy we are, we will contact each other. We talk and laugh together, and we feel that life will always be so beautiful.
After all, happiness is a day, and crying is also a day. Why not leave happy memories for every day of yourself?
This article is excerpted from "Do it right from the beginning", author: Qingtian Doll
Tianjin People's Publishing House, October 2015
Contents of the book
Book covers almost all major problems in life, conducts a detailed and thorough analysis of 50 life choices, helping you find the root of the problem, abandon dependence, complaints, fantasies, and make decisions for yourself bravely and without regrets. If you can choose what you love and what you choose, then as the architect of destiny, you have built a house of happiness for yourself.
Author Profile
Sunny Day Doll, Psychological Inspirational Best-selling Writer, Graduated from the University of Southern California, USA. His representative works include "Some things that you don't do before the age of 40, you won't do in this life", "Change your destiny, start with changing yourself", "Life is not bad, but you don't persist enough", "The more you love, the happier you will be", "33 Rules to Understand before the age of 35", etc.
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