In June this year, the 44-year-old Taiwanese actress Lin Chiling announced her marriage, and countless otaku were heartbroken.
After marriage, Lin Chiling's news has been much less.
But the media will not allow Sister Zhiling to disappear for so long.
Not long ago, Taiwanese media released a message saying that Lin Chi-ling was suspected of being abused by her husband and was hospitalized urgently.
Just search online, there are many news that Lin Chiling suffered domestic violence.
Some revelations say that they have a nose and eyes, and they also posted photos of Lin Chiling suspected of being injured.
This made many fans who like Lin Chiling feel hearts.
But someone soon denied the rumors, saying that the photos of Lin Chi-ling being injured exposed on the Internet were not her, but another Korean actress who suffered domestic violence.
Lin Chiling also appeared recently, with a rosy complexion and in good condition, and she tried her best to break this rumor.
But this incident still brought up the topic of domestic violence again.
Do you still remember Anjia and ?
This is the most successful domestic violence man in the history of film and television dramas, and can be regarded as the shadow of many people's childhood.
Because he suspected his wife was unfaithful, he hit her again and again.
At the beginning, my wife was willing to forgive him, but the result was a more intense injury. She was eventually beaten to a fracture and miscarriage, almost losing her life.
Because domestic violence is addictive, there will be the first time, there will be the second time.
When a man waved his fist to his wife for the first time, it means that he has put down his bottom line and thrown away his pity for his wife. In the future, there may be more punches and kicks.
I have always believed that domestic violence is the most serious of all failed marriages.
The worst result is divorce, but a domestically abused spouse is like a devil, making you unable to throw away or get rid of it. It hurts not only your heart, but also your damaged body.
Domestic violence is not written on your face, so you must take some time before getting married to see the other person's face clearly.
The most important thing is to be willing to stop loss in time.
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When it comes to domestic violence, the worst actress is probably the jade star in the 1980s Dai Liangchun .
Dai Liangchun is a beautiful Taiwanese girl. At the age of 22, she entered the Hong Kong film industry to work hard and starred in many film and television dramas such as "1000 Days of Youth" and "Evil Curse". The road to star is smooth sailing.
But in sharp contrast to this, her bumpy love path.
Because of work, Dai Liangchun met and fell in love with the popular young actor of that era Liu Yong, and then got married quickly.
But shortly after marriage, Dai Liangchun discovered that Liu Yong had a serious tendency to violence.
Dai Liangchun couldn't bear it, and his relationship with Liu Yong broke down and he returned to his parents' home.
My parents' family was very angry when they found out and advised Dai Liangchun to divorce quickly. Her sister also advocated introducing her new boyfriend.
The incident quickly reached Liu Yong's ears.
Liu Yong hired a private detective and took photos of Dai Liangchun shopping with other men.
Liu Yong was furious when he saw the photo and thought he had suffered a great humiliation. He flew directly from Hong Kong to Dai Liangchun's parents' home in Taiwan to negotiate with her.
But the negotiations were not going well. When talking about excitement, Liu Yong took out the fruit knife he carried with him and stabbed Dai Liangchun seriously.
What's even worse is that Dai Liangchun's face was also scratched, and the deepest wound was more than ten centimeters long, which was terrible.
Her vivid and beautiful cheeks were ruined like this.
After the incident, Liu Yong was arrested by the police and sentenced to two and a half years of fixed-term imprisonment and huge compensation. Their marriage was completely over.
Later, Liu Yong married a new wife, but his nature was still difficult to change. He repeatedly abused his wife and injured him.
These are all later stories, so I will not mention it afterwards.
Let’s talk about Dai Liangchun. After the divorce, many people think that her misfortune ended, but fate made people feel that Dai Liangchun’s life began another round of tragedy.
After being stabbed, Dai Liangchun actively treated the wounds on his face, healed the beauty again, and got together with a Taiwanese man, Yan Sanyuan.
But unfortunately, luck is a mess. Yan Sanyuan still has a serious tendency to violence. During the relationship, he not only beat Dai Liangchun many times, but also cheated and forced her to have an abortion many times.
Dai Liangchun, who was injured again, just wanted to end this bad relationship. She fled to Japan and married the Japanese doctor Kobayashi who had loved her for many years, and took her husband's surname.
Unexpectedly, Yan Sanyuan, who was unwilling to accept it, heard the news and chased him to Japan, found two people who were on their honeymoon, and killed her newlywed husband on the spot in front of Dai Liangchun, stabbing her to severely injured.
Although Dai Liangchun escaped death, she suffered great physical and mental injuries. After the injury healed, she completely hid her identity and disappeared from the public eye.
Two domestic violence men destroyed her life that should have shined and ended the life of an innocent man.
Dai Liangchun, nowadays, should be over 60 years old. No one knows how she is living now, but such a life is tragedy and legend enough.
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Many people have asked a question: How to identify a domestic violence man?
The word "domestic violence" cannot be written on the face, and there is no way to easily distinguish it.
is like An Jiahe in " Don't Talk to Strangers" . She is a gentle doctor to the outside world, and when she returns home, she is the devil who is addicted to beating her wife. It is too difficult to identify
from the outside, and the only way is to distinguish it by time.
A person can hide for a while, but it is impossible to pretend so well forever. When you spend more time with him, you will have a deeper understanding of the person in front of you.
Take Dai Liangchun as an example. Her tragedy may not only be about meeting bad people, but more about being hasty about marriage.
The two of them fell in love and got married in a hurry. How much can they know about each other?
Many people are like this, they are patient with everything, but they are very casual about getting married.
We are willing to spend a few years getting a diploma, but we are willing to spend a few months deciding on our lifelong partner.
This is no different from gambling. If you lose the bet, you may pay the price of a drastic change in your life.
Another point is that if you find that the other party has a tendency to domestic violence, go as far as you want.
A person's character has been formed over decades. Do you think you can change it with your own strength? Don’t be stupid, you will be the one who will be hurt in the end. Love yourself well, there is no one in this world who deserves your bruises.
