(I) Women's first choice: Qinse and Ming
Women need men to respond to themselves when they make any moves.
Women are emotional animals, so the best love mode is for men and women to become a crosstalk combination. If a woman wants to have happiness for a long time in a relationship and make her relationship last longer, she must also know how to respond while responding to the other person.
Everyone has heard of crosstalk. Crosstalk is a responsible person and a responsible person. Chinese women are all experts who pour cold water on them.
Men always love face and occasionally say big things, but men only like to blow in front of their beloved women. Women cannot pour cold water on this time. They have to follow him and make their emotions rise, and they also praise him for being very powerful. [Getting blood][Getting blood][Getting blood][Getting blood][Getting blood]
At this time, a man's satisfaction comes, and his sense of happiness and need comes with him. He will obey women and be wholeheartedly, feeling that he has met a soulmate, a man, and a confidant.
(two) Double love is complete
famous writer David. Herbert. Lawrence points out in his work that the complete love between men and women is a dual, both a fusion movement and a strong molecular movement with friction. The two will be burned when they meet and then merge into one.
explains it to everyone in a simple text. This sentence means that if a woman wants a strong and passionate love like fire, she must integrate herself with the other party, and both good and bad should be shared.
There was once a case where a man wanted to divorce a woman, but the woman refused to divorce her life and insisted that her husband had cheated on her. As a result, I questioned the man, and the man told me that he heard the woman and her best friend chatting on the phone and said that the two old people in my man's house were here to live again. Just one sentence makes the man decide to divorce a woman.
This man is not that he doesn't love this woman, he really loves her, but he can't accept her insulting her parents. I thought he had cheated on her and had a lover outside, but I didn't expect that he loved her so much.
So love still exists, not as bad as many people think, but love is wasted by people who don’t know how to love.
Many failed marriages are not because the two parties have no love, but because there are certain contradictions hidden in the middle, and there is a need for someone to coordinate and save. For example, if a woman likes to lose her temper and a man coaxes her, her face will be full of sunshine.
Some men do not coax women, and they think women are stingy. They don’t know that women only lose their temper with people with a sense of security, because within that safe range, she knows that the other party will not leave him, so she will act arbitrarily.
Men must remember that women’s nonsense is a kind of dependence. To make women stay in a relationship from beginning to end, they must understand what they are thinking.
(III) Companionship is a affectionate confession of love
After falling in love at first sight, feelings begin to turn from strong to indifferent, and the most heart-wrenching love will return to reality. Men begin to become busy and work hard for life, while women begin to try to run a home.
Sometimes, women will not see men in a week or even two weeks, this is true in one year, two years, and three years, and gradually women get used to it.
Until one day, the woman fell seriously ill and the man couldn't come back from another place, so she called him. He was in a meeting and did not answer the answer. The sick woman was lying fragilely on the bed crying. The torture of the illness was not as good as the pain in her heart.
The woman began to realize that he gave her a good material life, but she missed a lot of warm companionship in life with her. The woman sent a divorce agreement to the man who had been in trouble. The man didn't understand and thought that the woman was lonely and had a third party.
He felt very wronged and mobilized both parents to do ideological work for women. No one understands what she needs in her heart, and her good friends think she is too pretentious.
She lives in a big house and drives an imported car. She never has to worry about mortgages and daily needs. Her husband is on business trips all day long, working hard for careers, and not close to women. Such a living situation is something that most women can’t afford.
Only she herself knows that no matter how good her material life is, she cannot resist the happiness of her beloved when she is sick. She knew that feeling so much that she was so sick that she was so dark that she thought she would not live tomorrow, and she thought she would never see the grief of her beloved again. What if you give her more material things? He did not fill the hole in her heart and did not know that companionship was the best care for women.
Both of them feel wronged and find it difficult to understand each other. If neither of them understands, they will not be able to give the other party what they need. Only when the other person needs it and you can give it, this is the best love. The emotions expressed in body language cannot be replaced by words and oral language.
In the process of communicating with others, in order to better express our feelings and needs, we sometimes express our feelings in the language of our bodies. Human senses are magical. Sometimes, the things conveyed by a look are more extensive and deeper than language.
The feelings conveyed by eyes will be very delicate, low-key, and can also be very naked.
People will smile when they are happy, grit their teeth when they are hated, and be sad when they are sad. These facial expressions have specific meanings and do not need to be explained in words.
The famous psychologist Merribian once said that the longer a person can see who he is, the more he likes the other person. The eyes are the window of the soul. You can not say it in your mouth whether you love someone or not, but the eyes will betray your sincerity.
Women should never try to seduce a man to speak when he is ambiguous. Some men lie as natural as drinking water when they are thirsty. Inexperienced women cannot tell the lies and the truth.
has the same good thing that tests lies and truth, which is the look. The eyes are the window of the soul, which can reflect the depths of a person's heart. If you want to know whether a man loves you or not, you have to look at his eyes. The eyes will convey various emotions: love, not love, hate, like, etc.
There are only two reasons why a man dares to look at you: one is that he doesn’t love you; the other is that he is still considering whether he loves you. Of course, it depends on how deep your relationship is. If you are already in love and he doesn't look at you, there are probably two reasons: one is that he doesn't love you anymore; the other is that he does something that is sorry for you.
There is a saying that goes, "Silence is better than sound at this time." Sometimes language cannot express a person's inner emotions in a very good manner, but the eyes can make up for this shortcoming. You love someone, but you are shy to say it out loud. Especially Chinese women are relatively shy. Unlike foreign women, saying "I love you" is commonplace.
not to say it, just use your eyes instead, which is both subtle and sincere. At the same time, you can also see your position in his eyes from the other person's eyes. His eyes can also replace many languages: he is also feeling about you, and he will respond to you and give back to your eyes; if he is unintentional to you, his eyes will be very polite and very distanced, so that you will not receive the signal that he loves you.
We can also see the emotional state between two people from our eyes. A student came to class with her lover. They sat in front of me and kept talking, but the eyes of the two never collided. When they spoke, they looked at me, and even if they spoke to each other, they looked at things next to each other. After
, their relationship recovered through careful study. They have changed a lot. When they talk to each other, they will look at each other's eyes. With eye contact, their minds will be connected. As a result, not long after, they took a leave and flew to , Maldives for the second honeymoon. All feelings are like this. Once you understand them, there will be no misunderstandings.
How to speak with your eyes, please see the next episode.
+ excerpted from "Emotional Psychology" ( He Lijuan ) Scientists cannot invent drugs that keep love fresh forever. The only solution can be to learn how to get along with both sexes.How to transition from love to marriage and maintain the eternal vitality of this relationship is a kind of knowledge. Friends, let us learn together and work hard for a happy marriage
