The incident of beating people in Tangshan barbecue restaurant has aroused public outrage. While we are sympathizing with the girl being beaten, some are also attacking the bystanders.
criticized them for watching coldly, and even cursed them for their unexpected situation in the future, and no one would waving the flag for them.
Beating innocent women is indeed incompatible. But if you don’t think about it, you will blame the bystanders for not participating in the rescue. Isn’t it a kind of invisible violence?
In this public opinion storm, the owner of the barbecue restaurant is undoubtedly the center of the storm.
Netizens think that the barbecue restaurant owner did not come forward to persuade the fight, and the nature is no different from that of the perpetrator.
So, he began to insult the boss through phone, WeChat, etc., and even gave the boss a wreath.
Isn’t this also atrocity?
What did the barbecue restaurant owner do wrong? Did he not come forward to stop the thug from abuse?
Some, the boss's wife in her fifties and sixties has tried to persuade her to fight, but she returned in vain and was even slapped by the criminal in the face.
I believe that any rational normal person will instinctively retreat when he is intimidated and counterattacked by criminals.
Does it mean that she has to fight with the criminals with a kitchen knife and then be beaten to pieces all over the body?
They are also victims. Because of this, the barbecue restaurant has been closed. How can the economic and mental losses suffered during this period be calculated?
Those who "commonly speak" on the Internet are undoubtedly executioners and kill people invisibly.
When I saw this news, I asked myself countless times: "If I were on the scene, would I rush up to protect that girl and fight with those strong men."
The answer is: "I dare not go up."
But this does not mean that my conscience is destroyed and there is no humanity at all.
In fact, most of us are ordinary people. If we haven’t learned a move, we will be a sheep entering the tiger’s mouth. If we don’t die, we will be injured.
Even if you have learned boxing and fighting, if the other party has a weapon, you will definitely not win if you have a bare hands. If you don’t believe it, look at:
1: Donnie Yen mentor Zhao Changjun, he is the only 10 consecutive championship in the Chinese martial arts world, which is considered to be a great skill. However, when he was arguing with three gangsters, he was still injured and was finally sent to the hospital for treatment.
2: Japan's best wrestling champion and world-famous strongman Lidaoshan , had a dispute with someone in a bar, but was stabbed by a gangster in the abdomen and groaned, and was rushed to the hospital for failure to die.
3: Shandong Province Sanda Champion Sun Jiaojian had an argument with the criminals on the street, but was eventually unable to resist and was killed by several criminals who kept beating continuously.
Even if a person with real skills is still beaten and bruised, he or she may even lose his life when facing a fight scene with changing environment and complex situations.
What's more, we unarmed ordinary people.
More importantly, everyone present has a family behind it.
Some people say, why don’t the men present help?
But we all forgot that behind every man is a family. If you rush up, there will be one family at least.
Those despicable murderers, no matter who you are, as long as you rush up, you punch.
And this punch will inevitably trigger more punches, and it is difficult for us to guarantee what the result will be for those who rush up.
may be broken, or life may be gone.
Whether it is disabled or lost, it is a fatal blow to a family.
What should I do if a young child is? What should my wife do and what should my parents do? No one has ever thought about these questions for them.
The Internet has no memory. After this storm, everyone should do what they should do, and the person who rushed up is likely to live in pain all his life.
There is a saying: "There is no such thing as empathy in the world."
This sentence is correct at all. There is more than one billion people in the country who are not present at the scene. It is difficult for us to experience the chaos and fear at that time.
It would be a bit unfair to criticize the indifference of the bystander from the perspective of a bystander.
It’s not that they are unwilling to help, but that they have a huge gap in strength and have no chance of winning. In occasions like
, once you come forward to persuade the fight, it will only make the perpetrator more powerful.
People can do anything when they are emotionally excited.
It is a good thing to do bravely, but those who have no brains will most likely lose their lives when they are brave.
In front of the black forces, we are all ants.
And behind every ant, there are little ants to be protected.
Self-protection is nature, not original sin.
When we criticize others for being too indifferent, we also hope to ask ourselves sincerely: "If you were there at that time, would you choose to rush forward?"
What is the answer? Everyone knows it.
might as well make a bold guess. If this matter does not hit the hot search, what kind of threats and intimidation will those who rush to persuade the fight be subject to thugs in the future?
A group of people who have committed crimes can still get away with the law for so long. How powerful the black forces are among them are far beyond our imagination.
Sometimes, the cost of bravery is too high. At the least, it hurts the body, and at the worst, it loses its life. For example:
"18 years ago, a woman in Fujian was assaulted. A male neighbor was accused of bravery and became a defendant and was detained by the police for 14 days."
html l0 "The price of bravery: the rescued person is out of trouble, and the rescuer will pay half a month's salary!""A boy in Henan was cheated of helping the 65-year-old man, and the old lady threatened: he had to pay more money when he sued." There are no such incidents as
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zhihu has a problem: "Many innocent people were raped online due to the "Tangshan beating incident". How should they protect their rights when encountering online violence? ”
There is a comment that talks about my heart: “The easiest thing to do in this world is to blame others; the most difficult thing to do is to recognize yourself. In life, to live transparently, you can only recognize these three things: recognize yourself, recognize others, and recognize reality. ”
They try to proclaim themselves as a righteous person through such a voice.
But in real life, they are just a group of rats.
I believe that people have conscience, but there are too many helpless things in this world. They are kind enough to do what they can, and they should not be criticized.
Kindness There are many ways to implement justice, and it is by no means fighting each other.
Those who pick up their mobile phones to record videos, those who hide and call the police, those who spread incidents through the Internet...
They are all the incarnations of justice and have done what they can for this fierce fight.
As an adult, you should have basic thinking and judgment. Since you can't empathize, try to understand it as much as possible.
