Life, in many major changes, you will always have the first person you want to tell, whether it is a good or a bad thing.
The workplace is related to the life and career development of each of us, resigning and changing jobs, salary increase and promotion, etc. , who will you share with? was criticized by leaders, ridiculed by colleagues, and laid off employees by the company. who would you like to notify first? Who will share your sorrows when you first think of?
There is no doubt that parents must be the first to talk to. Let’s take a look at whether should, when and how to tell them . How do other people do it? And you? How did you do it?
[Do you tell your parents after resigning? 】
Xiao Luo is a beautiful master's degree who has been employed from Changsha to Shenzhen for two years. She suddenly quit naked. On the same day, she told her parents about .
As for the reason for resigning, she has not thought clearly. In short, she feels that development is limited, and this job is not what she wants at present.
In the next few days, parents came to several times a day to check the situation, ask about the next progress, job search and interview situation.
immediately told their parents after resigning that they were inevitably worried, especially the girl who was single, especially the undecided nude resignation from her next home.
[Do you tell your parents during an interview? 】
After I graduated, I signed up at my destination with a tripartite agreement for school recruitment. Kunshan , the top 100 counties in the country, is known as the "Little Shanghai".
I received my first month of my life salary in the second month and got 1,300 yuan. I was so happy. The first recipient of reward that came out of my brain was my parents, so I directly sent 1,000 yuan to my parents from Kunshan and . A few days later, my senior girlfriend in college sent a message saying she would have 300 yuan of living expenses. Good guy, I sent 300 yuan again, and my first month's salary was not left. I just graduated and there was not enough money.
So, I started the interview and prepared to change jobs, at least I changed to someone with a higher salary. A classmate of mine graduated and went to Midea, and his monthly salary is 3,000!
In addition, my job is Mechanical Design Engineer (ME) . I don’t want to be an engineer for the rest of my life, so I invested in sales. Soon, I received an interview call, and I was a regional sales specialist of a Taiwanese company with a basic salary of 1,200+ a high commission! This job is good, so I quit immediately and went to report.
The company arranged for our newly hired people to train in Kunshan for one week, at the training hall of Yizui Hotel; next time, we will be sent to the Ningbo factory for training for three months; the company is a injection molding machine, and it seems that it is called Zhenxiong or Zhengxiong injection molding, and it is known as the second largest in the industry and a famous brand! It's quite good. The hydraulic principles I learned at the beginning of the training were perfect in my university and I was proficient in these theoretical knowledge. I told my parents about every step of the process.
On the third day of training, my phone ran out of power, so I didn’t charge it until I got home at night.
was about to call home, but the phone came over there. The whole family of parents, uncles, aunts, sisters, etc. got together and waited for my phone call to get through. It turned out that they had called many of my classmates' homes, and they found out my " alumni " and called me one by one. Because my parents just saw a news last night that more than 20 college students were crushed into the cabin of a cruise ship. When they were transported to South Korea to work, they suffocated in the cabin and all died. My family thought I had to take a boat from Kunshan to Ningbo. I didn’t have a phone call this day. I guess my phone was confiscated and I was crushed into the cabin. I was deceived.
So, my family didn't eat for almost a day that day and they were calling me.
Only after this did I realize that my parents always worry about their children and worry too much, so I can't tell them everything in detail when changing jobs. We grew up in our infancy, and with the spoiled children by Chinese parents, it is indeed true. Although I explained for a long time, my parents were still worried that I would go to Ningbo for training, and I felt that sales were unstable and "can't eat this bowl of rice."
OK, in order not to worry my parents, I directly sent a text message that night, resigned, and did not go to report and train the next day.
[How long does it take to tell your parents after changing jobs? 】
However, the job is still to be found. In order to find employment as soon as possible, I continued to submit my resume and went out for interviews 24/7. But I also have requirements. No matter what, the monthly salary of this job will exceed 3,000!
A month later, I went from Tongli elevator , Foxconn , and Guangxing Electronics in the north of Kunshan City, to AUO Optoelectronics in the south of the city, Shenda Computer, Wistron Zitong, and Hitachi Semiconductor and Panasonic Electrical Appliances in the Suzhou Park. After an interview, I found that the highest salary was given to me 2,600. The phone number at home also came to check the situation repeatedly. There was no way, so the next step was to go to Shanghai.
After that, I went out to Shanghai early and returned to Kunshan late. It took about a month to receive a registration notice from my Shanghai competitor Yingyeda. Another Quanda also passed the interview, but Yingyeda's salary was high. I will double my monthly salary according to Kunshan’s salary slip, and I will be a production and sales specialist (Order Manager). The company encourages overtime work, including overtime pay, the monthly salary before tax exceeded 7,000, and then the whole year of graduation was graduated.
This time, I was patient and did not notify my parents, just saying that the original unit in Kunshan asked me to go back.
After changing jobs for four months, I have received three months of salary. It has basically stabilized. I got about 5,500 yuan a month and deducted tax of about 800 yuan. Only then did I call home and tell my parents that the unit opened a branch in Shanghai. Because of my outstanding work performance, I was promoted to Shanghai to be a cadre, and my monthly salary increased from 1,000 to 6,000.
The parents were very happy and asked when it happened, and I said it was only this month. My mother said, "You are deducting taxes for more than 800 yuan a month, which is up to our salary!" I was also happy. With more income, I really felt different.
But there is one thing that I have never let my parents worry about my job since then, especially interviews, resignations, job change, etc. Even if they lay off or lose their jobs, they cannot worry about it. Even if they change jobs, they will tell them a few months later. This also belongs to a kind of "a lie with good intentions!" It may also be a symbol of human maturity. That year was 2003.
