Yuan Weiren is on the hot search. The reason for being on the hot search is that he was judged as a vegetative person by the doctor.
Who is Yuan Weiren? He is a well-known musician and famous songwriter in Taiwan. Over the years, he has created many popular songs and is very famous in the entertainment industry. In 2018, Yuan Weiren accidentally fell, causing cerebral hemorrhage. When he entered the hospital, he found a brain tumor and he was recuperating at home after the operation. He fell again in less than two years, causing the disease to worsen. Not long ago, the doctor was determined to be in vegetative state.
At the age of 53, it was a sad thing for vegetative people to become such a sad thing, but netizens who received the news rarely had sympathy for comments online. Why is this?
Yuan Weiren has been in an ordinary appearance since childhood and has a bad family background. He relies on his own efforts and perseverance to make a living in the music industry. When he was in his twenties, he wrote many familiar songs and was quite famous in the entertainment industry.
Yuan Weiren's wife is named Lu Yuanqi. She looks beautiful and is a Taiwanese actress. When the two got married, Lu Yuanqi was pregnant. Yuan Weiren was very nice to her and was excellent. After marriage, Lu Yuanqi stopped filming and stayed at home and became a good wife and mother with peace of mind.
After Lu Yuanqi gave birth to the child, she was in poor health and later found to have cervical cancer. Yuan Weiren's attitude towards her became colder and colder. She had three operations, and only on the third time did she call Yuan Weiren to the hospital and had a pre-operative signature operation. Yuan Weiren had never been to the hospital for the previous two times.
Later, Lu Yuanqi became pregnant again and gave birth to a daughter. From pregnancy to raising children, Yuan Weiren was basically absent. When Lu Yuanqi took care of two children alone and worked very hard to handle housework, Yuan Weiren had been rumored to be outside.
Their marriage lasted for 14 years.
14 years later, they finally parted ways and got rid of a long-term loveless marriage.
On the second day of the divorce, the media photographed Yuan Weiren driving with a young woman, and the two were sitting in the car, smiling. As for whether this woman is Yuan Weirenxin’s love partner, no one knows.
After Lu Yuanqi divorced, she started to make money by herself and raised her two children alone, which was very difficult. During this period, her best friend often gave her financial support. In 2018, her best friend accused Yuan Weiren in public on an episode of the show, saying that he would not pay child support after the divorce, and Yuan Weiren in the audience did not make any defense.
Just after this incident, Yuan Weiren suffered a sudden cerebral hemorrhage and found another brain tumor. After the operation, he was in a coma for a long time. At this time, the halo on his body disappeared, his new girlfriend disappeared, and the only ones who took care of him were his sister and sister. Perhaps taking care of patients is too tiring. Once, my elder sister publicly scolded Yuan Weiren's children online, saying that the couple he loved did not care about their father who could not take care of themselves and was unfilial.
At that time, Yuan Weiren's children were only in their teens.
For Lu Yuanqi, she is just Yuan Weiren's ex-wife and has no obligation to take care of him. After Yuan Weiren divorced, he did not remarry. Yuan Weiren, who once brought infinite pride to his family, became a burden that the family had to accept after he became ill. Sister Yuan Weiren's anger could only be transferred to two underage children.
Does two children who are in school have the energy to take care of their father? Not to mention, they are underage. Yuan Weiren has been with her marriage and has always been absent during their growth. After the divorce, no child support was paid. From an emotional point of view, I am afraid that a pair of children are unwilling to take care of him.
The experience that happened to Yuan Weiren makes people feel moved. Perhaps some men who often cheat will start to reflect on themselves.
Some men think that they have money, so they can live a casual and free life, without considering their partner's feelings at all, and not cherishing her good deeds to him.Everyone has to face birth, old age, sickness and death, which hurts their partner’s heart. How should they deal with themselves in their later years?
I once read a psychology book that says that men like this who only care about themselves and are free and easy often have two psychology: one is that they often don’t think about future affairs and always treat life with the idea of enjoying timely; the other is that under the pursuit of many people, they often overestimate their charm, but they did not expect that they would live in the reality of life when the song ended and the body was infected with diseases.
For middle-aged people, there is a cruel reality that they have to face, that is: Today is the best day in the rest of our lives. In the days that come, no matter how many grand plans there are in the heart, the body will irreversibly aging step by step. The things you can control are getting smaller and smaller, the fewer and fewer friends, and life will become more and more lonely. At this time, the only thing that can bring you comfort is the love from the people around you. Being kind to your partner is to accumulate blessings for your old age.
I have an acquaintance who is in his 60s this year. When he was young, he worked in a state-owned enterprise in a county. He was tall and handsome and eloquent. His wife is average in appearance and is not good at speaking. After the two got married, his wife took on all the housework, and he has been away for many years and has been free and has been having sex with her.
This kind of life lasted until the two of them retired. The son is married. The wife packed her luggage and moved to her son's house to help take care of her grandson. Only the old man was left at home, eating alone, walking alone, exercising alone. Unexpectedly, once, he accidentally slipped while taking a shower, broke his leg, and was found by his neighbor and sent to the hospital.
My wife rushed back after hearing the news and stayed in the hospital for a few days. When he was discharged from the hospital after the operation, he had a thick cast on his legs. As the saying goes, it will hurt your muscles for a hundred days. He is older and has poor healing ability and it takes several months to recover. His wife contacted the nurse for him, left the house and went to his son's house. He didn't even pay the nurse for the nurse, so he asked him to transfer the nurse from his card.
My wife told others that he treated me like that when he was young, and now I can do this and have done my best.
And their children have no objection to this. Because, as he grew up, his father was always absent. What he saw in his eyes for more than 20 years was his mother's hard work and hard work, and he had deep sympathy for his mother. So he understands and supports his mother's attitude towards her father.
He was lying on the hospital bed, wondering what he felt. In this world, all love and hate are not for no reason. What we give is love, what we exchange for is warmth; what we give is indifference, what we exchange for is indifference.
Everyone has come to the world and the first thing they must learn is love. Because we cannot predict what will happen in the future, and sometimes we cannot control our own destiny. The only thing you can do is learn to cherish, respect, and be grateful in this unexpected world.
Cherish your partner around you. She is the person who has accompanied you for the longest time in this world and the most important person in your life. Cherish her, love her, and give her warmth. All your efforts will eventually be returned to yourself and become the source of happiness in your later years.
