text | Fulin Mommy
Teacher's Day is coming soon. I think many children and parents are beginning to worry about what gifts to the teacher, right?
Many of my high school classmates are now working as a teacher. On September 10th, we will post gifts in our circle of friends in a row.
is too common, but it can't be said to be strange.
Before Teacher's Day, a teacher posted gifts in his circle of friends, which aroused dissatisfaction among parents.
captioned: "My students are so attentive that they have applied collagen." After
said this, other parents felt that the gifts they gave were not good, which invisibly inspired the parents' competing mentality, which was quite suggestive.
Later the teacher explained that it was his first time celebrating Teacher's Day, and he sent it to express gratitude, but this behavior was indeed inappropriate. Afterwards, the school asked the teacher to return the collagen to the parents.
In fact, teachers nowadays are also very confused.
posted in your circle of friends, just like comparing the value of the gifts you received.
seems to imply that parents remember to give gifts next year.
does not post on WeChat Moments, but is afraid that the students and parents who give gifts will feel uncomfortable: "It's been a waste of time, and I don't know how to express my gratitude publicly."
was afraid of missing one when posting the gifts, which made parents feel that they didn't do it well, etc.!
A teacher friend of mine said that a parent sent her a red envelope on WeChat before, but she refused to accept it because the school has regulations and teachers cannot accept gifts in private. And she told the parent clearly that in her eyes, students treat them the same way and would not say that they treat them differently because of such things.
So, parents, I really have to think about giving gifts.
The most common thing is to send flowers, and in recent years, there are also DIY cakes.
How to say it? A bouquet of flowers is not cheap. A cake is not enough for the teacher to eat a piece of cake in the office. And if some teachers don’t like sweets, or don’t eat cake when losing weight, it would be a bit embarrassing.
Some people would say that you can make something by hand to give to the teacher, or write a letter, etc. In the past, it would be fine to do this, but the current environment has changed. If the handicrafts are extremely exquisite, it would be fine, but if the work is not done well, parents may not be able to overcome the difficulties in their hearts.
In fact, from the perspective of parents, the gifts given to teachers should be taken advantage of, practical and affordable, so that parents don’t cost money and teachers don’t make things difficult.
Because my son just went to elementary school this year, he thought a lot about it.
So, I chose some gifts that are both good at taking advantage of the price and suitable for the price.
① Mini humidifier
It is already the beginning of autumn, and for most friends in the northern region, the air is relatively dry. So, you might as well give the teacher a mini humidifier and put it on the desk. It is also very warm to keep it aside when you stay up late to write lesson plans.
②Exquisite handmade
This can be said to be very attentive, but it has a great test for the hands-on ability of children and parents.
I have a simpler and good handmade product here. Crouching can be done quickly.
button painting, buy a bunch of buttons from the Internet, use buttons as the head, and draw the body on the black mark.
A little man corresponds to a classmate and makes all the students in the class.
This is very interesting and easy to operate. It can also be made into a bouquet, mainly creative.
③Handmade Dream Catching Network
Dream Catching Network is hung on the head of the bed, which can filter out nightmares and allow the teacher to have a good sleep. It mainly has a good meaning. And it's easier to make. Let your children make it themselves or make it with them. The production process is also a good parent-child time.
④ Handbook Gift Box
Generally, this kind of gift box contains an exquisite book and a pen, which is practical and beautiful. It is very good for teachers to use to remember things.
is also a practical gift.
In fact, these gifts are more suitable for parents who are not very hands-on. Gifts are not perfunctory and are just a dedication.
Of course, some classes also have parents who buy a gift for the teacher, but the purchase is too expensive and the teacher dares not accept it, or some parents are unhappy and the purchase is average, so there is no need to raise money. So it depends on the parents' wishes.
However, I don’t know if parents have heard the voices of teachers.
This is the answer I got when I asked my friend a few days ago.
In fact, parents and teachers have their own difficulties.
What teachers really want is parents who tend to cooperate with their teaching work, as well as lively and cute students.
In this way, your work will be relatively easy.
Many parents actually think that teachers are just teaching lessons as simple as that. Actually it's not simple.
Meetings, preparing lessons, and being confused by @ in daily groups...
Because the child was sent to school, for parents, the teacher must be responsible for the child.
A few days ago, Fulin arrived at school and only two days later, I saw that the head teacher was constantly being @ed in the group.
"Is the teacher here? I am XXX's mother. I'm at the gate. Please tell the guard and let me in."
"Is there any money in the meal card I sent to my child? If so, is it enough for my son to eat for a week? How to recharge?"
In fact, when the freshmen reported, they had already said in the group that they could scan the code to recharge.
"Teacher, can you take photos of your child's class?"
"Teacher, my son's name is written incorrectly. Please help me change it."
...
...
kept being @ed and explained constantly that some of them were questions that had been answered, but there were still parents asking that the profession of teacher is not as relaxed as parents imagined.
So, on Teacher's Day, the saying "Teacher has worked hard" is a kind of understanding, but parents need to practice it and cooperate with teachers to educate their children well together.
