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asked his son yesterday: "Tomorrow is Teacher's Day. What gift do you want to give to the teacher?"
The son immediately said seriously: "A few days ago, the teacher said that if you don't accept gifts, the school is a place for learning, and you don't need to do these things. A few days ago, the class monitor gave flowers to the teacher, but was criticized by the teacher and threw it into the trash can."
In fact, I originally thought that I wouldn't give it to me, but a few days ago, I talked about this with a few friends and found that everyone was giving it to me.
Another friend said that They are organized by committee . Last year, they collected money from their parents to buy gold necklaces for three teachers. My friend felt that this practice was inappropriate, so he bought a more suitable gift separately and asked the child to bring it to the teacher alone.
Teacher's Day is coming, The children want to give the teacher a small gift to express their respect and love for the teacher . This is understandable in itself, and it means that the child is sensible, knows the hard work of the teacher, and knows how to be grateful and rewarded, which is also a manifestation of the child's ideological progress.
However, many parents have interfered in this matter now. Some practices of have lost their true meaning and have even become a way of "comparing or peace of mind".
Teacher's Day, should I give gifts to teachers?
When should I give gifts to teachers on Teacher's Day? If you really give it, how can you express your feelings without being rejected by the teacher?
From the parents' perspective:
Some parents think that "should give" , and think that after receiving the gift, the teacher may be kinder to the child. If there is anything in normal times, he can get timely care about the teacher, especially parents who are often too busy to care about their children.
But some parents think that "should not give" , and think that giving gifts itself is nothing wrong, but they are afraid that many parents will slowly bring bad news and will unknowingly compare with each other and deviate from the original intention of giving gifts to teachers. In that case, it is better not to give them!
From the perspective of national policies and school management: in order to curb bad social atmosphere and establish a professional image of teachers, teachers are not allowed to receive gifts.
Therefore, there is no unified answer to "whether to the teacher to give gifts" and can only depend on the understanding and understanding of this matter in different places and parents.
If you give it, how can you express your feelings and be liked by the teacher?
If conditions permit, you can give the teacher some small gifts, but these types of gifts are very likely to be placed in the corner or thrown into the trash can.
▲ Flowers: The same is true for
. Flowers themselves are not cheap, but they are not practical. For the sake of professional qualities, teachers oppose luxury consumption.
Moreover, the shelf life of flowers is short, not practical at all, and cannot accurately express the long-term relationship between teachers and students.
▲ Greeting card:
At present, teachers are under great pressure and have heavy burdens. In addition, they have various cards and the like in their work.
A greeting card may be mistaken for other cards by the teacher and ignored. If it is accidentally thrown into the trash can and is seen by the child, it will inevitably hurt the child's self-esteem and instead affect the child's respect for the teacher.
▲ Red envelope or shopping card:
These are absolutely indispensable. First, the policies do not allow it, and local schools also have clear regulations. Second, the teacher's profession itself is to teach and educate people. Due to this minimum professional quality, teachers will not accept it.
If you give gifts to the teacher like this, it may make the teacher angry, make both parties embarrassed, and have a bad mentality for the child.
But if you really want to express your feelings, you can consider these types of gifts:
▲ Practical gifts:
Such as Hand cream, throat soaking tablets, water cups, pen holders , etc. These gifts seem simple and inconspicuous, but in fact they are very practical to teachers and are not expensive, so they can be considered intentional.
▲ Face gift:
As a teacher, the sense of professional honor is often more important than economic benefits. Therefore, you can make gifts that show the sense of honor, such as pennants, plaques, , etc. in a more representative aspect. Gifts like
can not only express respect for the teacher's team, but will not cause excessive economic pressure, but will not cause psychological burden on the teacher. It should be a good Teacher's Day gift.
▲ Gift with heart:
Children with handcraft expertise can make an exquisite handicraft. Children who love planting can plant a small green plant. Children who like art can draw a picture with rich connotations, or shoot a short video expressing gratitude to the teacher, which can also express their respect and gratitude to the teacher.
In short, whether it is given or not, teachers will continue to work hard and teach and educate people as always.
If you send it, no matter which way you express your respect and blessings to the teacher, it will express affirmation of the teacher's hard work and can also have educational significance for respecting the teacher to the child. Parents don’t have to worry too much about it.
Today is Teacher's Day, your child has given a gift to the teacher. What gift did he give? Let's leave a message to tell you what you think.
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