HD 0A small episode occurred during the Golden Horse Awards award ceremony last year.
Yu Zheng A angry Weibo post was on the hot search, and the target he scolded was the candidate who was waiting for to award the Golden Horse Awards —
Qiu Ze .
said he forgetting his righteousness , said he forgetting his righteousness .
Of course, everyone knows Yu Ma's urinary nature, and it's like a marketing account when you search.
However, his Weibo post brought back a familiar face to the public.
Many people can't imagine that an old man who was once famous for playing an idol drama boss, walked to the Golden Horse Awards Ceremony after wearing the center of the earth for a period of time.
What is he relying on?
Don’t worry, this movie will tell you -
" Who falls in love with his first"
This is the most popular Taiwanese movie last year and the best Chinese-language movie recently.
won the prize and got it soft. At the
Taiwan Golden Horse Awards, 8 nominations were made in and 3 awards were won.
At the Taipei Film Festival, it won five awards including Best Movie and Best Actor and Female Leader .
box office and reputation are both good.
8 million low-cost investment, and achieved local box office of more than 60 million .
Douban score also got the best 8.6 points at the beginning of the year.
Unfortunately, we cannot see such a good movie on the big screen.
Because it tells the story of "scam marriage", "same wife" and "male mistress" .
In the story, the mistress is not a mistress, but becomes Xiaowang .
Because his gender is a man, he has one more horn than the mistress.
In Liu Sanlian's eyes, Xiao Wang is a shameless gay person.
He not only snatched his husband, but also snatched his insurance money after his death.
Now, she must be recovering the money.
A story about taking away the husband and robbing the inheritance . If placed on Zhihu or Weibo, it will easily gain millions of attention.
But in the movie "Who Falls in Love with Him First", because of the exchange of gender , we see another side of it.
original wife Liu Sanlian , as soon as she appears, she can let the audience see her external attributes:
noisy.
appeared in a hurry and cursed.
She ran to Xiao Wang's house and asked him to return her husband's insurance money.
word after word, all of which are "perverted and disgusting" .
In Liu Sanlian's view, all her behaviors are reasonable.
She always felt that she was the most pitiful woman in the world and felt that the whole world owed her.
really talked about it, Liu Sanlian is indeed pitiful.
I thought I was lucky, so I married Song Zhengyuan, a handsome man and a university professor.
But after more than ten years of respect, her husband, who had not returned home for several nights, suddenly wanted to divorce him. The reason behind
is a thunder sound on the ground.
The husband said he was gay and liked men. No one can accept the "marriage fraud" behavior such as .
, so what can I do?
After this, Liu Sanlian focused on her son Song Chengxi and planned everything for him.
She holds the hopes of thousands of parents for their children in her heart:
makes a name for themselves.
At the same time, because of her husband's disqualification, this hope became more persistent and tough in Liu Sanlian's heart.
step by step, she planned it steadily and could not make any mistakes.
Unexpectedly, the first problem lies in the insurance money after the husband's death.
This insurance fund is originally a necessary fund for his son Song Chengxi to study abroad in the future.
But before her husband died, he changed the beneficiary to Xiao Wang's name.
is related to the future of his son, how can Liu Sanlian tolerate it?
Although Liu Sanlian is devoted to her son, Song Chengxi, who is in the rebellious period, does not accept such good intentions.
In his heart, , the fuck Liu Sanlian is the noisiest woman in the world.
nagging from morning to night. It caused him a headache.
And, she is still able to enter the Hollywood acting school.
The previous sentence was still chattering, but the next second it started to cry and tell me the difficulty.
Tears come as soon as you say.
Then when you see what you are doing, you are in a disadvantage, you can calm down immediately and pretend that you are fine and pull the rice in the bowl.
This improvisational reaction, do you think it is amazing?
So, Song Chengxi doesn't like Liu Sanlian at all.
He saw her talking about money until late, and decided that she married Song Zhengyuan because of this.
Finally, he concluded that Liu Sanlian was a bad guy.
After being thrown away by a "bad guy" once, Song Chengxi ran away from home.
The place he went was at Xiao Wang's house.
He doesn't want to face the irritable and noisy mother anymore, but also wants to stay with the man who stole his father and find his own answer.
The world of children has always been simple, both black and white.
At the beginning, I saw that Xiao Wang was not sad because of his father's departure.
Song Chengxi also thinks that Xiao Wang is not a good person either.
But as he gets along, and under repeated frictions, he found that everything is different from what he thought.
Of course, Xiao Wang is not called Xiao Wang, his name is Ajie.
Ajie is a gay man. He scatters a cigarette all day long and runs around in his pajamas, looking heartless.
Liu Sanlian took her son to the house, pointing at her nose and calling him shameless and perverted.
He is not angry.
Song Chengxi stayed stubbornly downstairs in his house and refused to leave.
He chose to accept it.
endures harassment from his lover's wife and takes care of his lover's son. Such a "missie" looks different from what he imagines.
. In fact, Ajie is not a mistress.
When he met Song Zhengyuan, it was more than ten years ago when everyone was a boy.
One is a little worker in the theater and the other is an approachable professor.
Two people, under the dim lights of the theater, kissed each other and fell in love.
But the happy time did not last long. As the only son of the family and as a professor at the university, Song Zhengyuan finally decided to end the relationship.
He needs to return to normal, marry and have children, and live a normal life.
Facing Song Zhengyuan who left decisively, Ajie let go.
More than ten years later, when Song Zhengyuan dragged his seriously ill body back in front of Ajie, saying that he wanted to be himself before he died.
He still chose to accept this person with love.
0 The story has already answered the question raised by the title of the film, which is also the question that Song Chengxi wants to explore -
Who fell in love with him first?
The order of coming first and coming later in love seems to be very important, as if whoever comes first will occupy the moral high ground of the relationship.
But in this movie, that's not the case.
She met first, and he fell in love with first.
She is the one who married him, and he is the one who died with him.
Who comes first and who loves first is not the focus of this movie.
just, love is.
Just like what Ajie said -
Love the greatest.
In the movie, whether it is Ajie or Liu Sanlian, they love purely and powerfully.
one, hiding for ten years for love.
For Ajie, every day is as long as ten thousand years.
And even if he was given up and had it again, he could still love without hesitation.
accompanied his lover to shave off his hair and borrowed usury to help him with surgery.
It became inertia to send him a basket of buns, and the table in the living room still placed the "Disqualification in the World" he had read.
even stubbornly wanted to re-arrange the drama that made them meet during the 100th day of his life.
Ajie's love is fulfillment and sacrifice.
And the other one was deceived by love for ten years.
Liu Sanlian is a microcosm of the traditional wife in society. She is surrounded by traditional ideas and is afraid of public criticism and rolling eyes.
Her love is the words "How much did I pay for you" .
Her love is a compromise of dignity. Even if she knows that her husband is homosexual, she still wants to keep him by her side.
Both of them are loving each other hard, and at the same time, they are also invaded by reality.
Ajie is not recognized by the public, homosexuals hiding in the dark ground.
His love is something that cannot be put on the table, and it is a sharp sword that will hurt the closest relatives.
Liu Sanlian is a pathological "sex wife" arising from discrimination and coercion under .
Her love will become like a joke. It is better to have it than not.
So when you see the end, you will understand the hysteria of this woman, her anger and irritability.
Because of the love she gives and the love she desires, it eventually became a bubble in lies.
even a little bit of feedback is hard to get.
movie "Who Falls in Love with Him First" is like this, bit by bit peeling off the most indescribable pain points in this society.
It covers the homosexual we have touched on in the past, and the discrimination and disagreement of homosexuality.
has a deeper understanding of the more serious consequences caused by this disapproval.
is what we call "same wife" and "stylist marriage" , and it is also a false and love-free family.
And such a story actually happens around us.
The number of "sex wives" in China that the mainland once counted is as high as 16000,000.
This is a very terrible number, it means that a girl with 16000,000 fell into a false marriage.
They are not aware of it, and perhaps they have given their sincerity and love for it.
is like Liu Sanlian in the movie.
Hearing this, you may be angry and hate the "scumbag" character like Song Zhengyuan.
But if you watch the whole movie, you can feel the emotions it really conveys, which is forgiveness.
Just like Liu Sanlian finally forgives Song Zhengyuan and understands Ajie.
This is also the director's original intention of making this movie -
Forgive those who have hurt you, you don't know why you should forgive, but from that day on, you have become happier than before.
letting go of your opponent is actually letting yourself go.
