In us, there is a kind of woman's stubbornness, which is called "Jin'er".
Grandma is in her eighties, with four generations living together, and her children and grandchildren are around her knees. Others say that grandma is a lucky woman, but grandma said: "There is no blessing, it is just a 'power'."
Three major misfortunes in life, grandma has caught up with: losing her father in childhood, losing her husband in middle age, and losing her two sons in old age. This misfortune is destined to make a woman suffer from the weather prematurely, with ups and downs throughout her life, and eventually become the "unfortunate woman" in the mouths of others.
But my grandmother is optimistic and kind. No matter how difficult it is, she can always withstand it with one force. She always says: "Anyone, as long as you hold a strong force, no matter how big the hurdle is, you can overcome it."
's "strength" is unyielding stubbornness. It makes repeated temperings eventually transform into its own strength, allowing itself to grow stronger and gradually become a person who is blessed to enjoy life and a person with good fate.
Women with "strength" are resilient
There is no woman born stubborn, only women who have not given in mercy.
With a "strength", a woman who lives a bad life smoothly is wise and resilient.
In the "Reader" program, Ni Ping shared " Grandma Quotes". In the quote, grandma said the inevitable disaster was dark.
It’s dark and I’m encountering unstoppable difficult things. You have to accept your fate. It is not about letting go of your fate. It is about gritting your teeth and not consuming it in the dark.
Ni Ping hosted the CCTV Spring Festival Gala for 13 years, bringing laughter to audiences across the country and winning praise and applause. But since she left CCTV in 2004, she has been criticized and even slandered every time she appears in front of everyone. In the
program, she said: I left CCTV because my son was sick.
She took out all her family's assets to and from China and the United States to treat her son. She silently took responsibility, going to the hospital during the day and smoking one by one at night.
During those days, she cried so hard that she almost couldn't see it, and she still gritted her teeth and stood up.
In order to make money, she participated in many programs. At that time, her face was not there and her figure was out of shape. Someone even asked directly: "Why did you become like this?"
went from caring very much to not caring very much. She never explained, she understood what she was doing.
After taking her son to the United States for more than twenty trips, the doctor said, "Come again when your son gets married." Her tears flew horizontally to the doctor's face, and she survived the cold winter alone to usher in the joy of warm spring, which she could only taste.
Over the years, she has a lot of good news: publishing books, holding art exhibitions, hosting "Waiting for You", losing weight and becoming beautiful...
Writer Lintet said in "Living Your Life in the Way of Your Love":
The most powerful thing about women is toughness, and they can survive even if they are muddy. The most beautiful thing about a woman is to be determined to do what she firmly believes in the right thing, even if the whole world is overthrown, the whole world is in chaos, and the whole world will forget it.
There are many ways of life, with breadth and depth, and there is a kind of strength of a woman, which is resilience.
Women with "energy" will eventually become a lucky woman
Women with "energy" in their hearts can get out of any difficulties, make this road wider and wider, and finally live the way you want.
"Harry Potter" author J.K. Rowling At the most embarrassing moment, her mother died and her husband was domestically abused. She drove her and her three-month-old daughter out of the house regardless of her begging.
She took her daughter and lived in a small apartment without heating, relying on government relief funds to make a living. It was against this background that Rowling created the amazing masterpiece "Harry Potter" with the "strength" in her heart and the belief in writing, and created a miracle in the publishing world in one fell swoop.
Subsequently, Rowling created a series of works of "Harry Potter", and with these works, Rowling became the richest woman in Britain.
blessed women are born with good fortune.But women are not born with good fortune. Those who have good fortune in the future must know how to manage themselves and never let themselves live a bland life.
Writer Wu Danru said in "Good Girls Have No Candy":
Women can get better and better because of their own efforts and growth.
Women with "energy" make themselves work hard and the harder they work harder, the luckier they are. A lucky woman will definitely have a good life.
Women with "spirituality" are born to be optimistic
Some women, after the peak of their lives, accidentally fell to the bottom, and then gathered their courage to rebound from the bottom, and were praised.
But some women are at the bottom of the valley as soon as they are born, and every step they take up is making progress.
In the "Mama Mia" program, there was a mother who was impressive:
43-year-old Gao Laojie was paralyzed from her lower body due to a high fever at the age of two, and since then she has been in a wheelchair for transportation. As an adult, she married her ex-husband who is also a disabled person. Unexpectedly, the child was still young, and his ex-husband was so ill that he could only move his right hand.
In order not to drag her down, her ex-husband filed for divorce several times and asked her to remarry with her children. She told her ex-husband: "Although I can't leave, I have two hands to support you! Even if I marry, I will take you to marry!"
She got up early and went to bed late, set up street stalls and sold breakfast, and supported the whole family. Even though life is difficult, she never feels bitter. She loves singing and often opens her voice in a QQ group to encourage others.
Her optimism and sincerity attracted a healthy young man who was over teens younger than her. After understanding her family situation, she still pursued her.
Sister Gao was moved by the sincerity of the young man and eventually divorced her ex-husband and married him with her. The young man did not disappoint her expectations and supported this stormy home with her.
Some people say that Sister Gao is so lucky to find such a good guy. But the young man said, "It's not that she is blessed, but that I am blessed. She is optimistic and sunny, and has never heard her complain."
Feng Zikai said, If you love, life will be cute everywhere. If you are grateful, you can be grateful everywhere. If you grow up, everything can grow.
A woman with "energy" is born to look up to the sun.
Women with "energy" rely on their own strength
Since ancient times, there has been a truth: women will eventually find a backer. But in this era, increasingly wise women have long understood that the mountains will fall, and everyone will run away, and only they are the most reliable.
This is especially true for women with "energy", and they have long lived like a mountain.
Friend Xiao Jin is a strong woman in the workplace, has independent values, and overcome obstacles in the workplace.
One day, she asked me out and sat opposite me on the corner of the street. Seeing her lonely expression, I understand that something happened to her.
Sure enough, she told me that my husband had cheated on me. I asked her if she was fighting or was asking for trouble for the sake of her child? Her tone was sad but firm: "It's not our style. I'm not the one who feels wronged!" I know she has confidence in saying this.
Her confidence comes from herself.
She has been fostered at a relative's house since she was a child. She has long understood that the most reliable backer in the world is herself. After work, she put in several times more effort than ordinary people, and bought a car and a house by herself, and became a "bone demon" in the workplace.
The woman who lives as a backer, and the feelings are icing on the cake. The relationship is gone, rubbing off the mud from the soles of the shoes, keep moving forward, and still live a wonderful life.
Not long after, she divorced with her children and was neat and frank, and her friends around her were worried about her. But she said: "At any time, I never put my hope on anyone. It is better to rely on myself than on anyone."
Only by relying on my own strength can I not catch my life off guard and fight back beautifully when the storm comes.
The world of marriage collapsed, she was sad but not addicted to it, and worked harder to make herself more outstanding.
A woman with "energy" creates her own strength, never thinks about the past, and is not afraid of the future.Have the courage to challenge the dangers ahead and not be afraid of any wind and frost in life.
Women with "energy" should do their best to live like a beam of light.
says that women who can act spoiled are the best, but the one who is truly lucky is always the woman with "energy".
May you and me, as a woman, be together in the road of life, and never leave you. If not, I hope we all become our own beam of light, and the road ahead will no longer need to be illuminated by anyone.
May we all be women with "energy", towards the light in our hearts, strive to achieve better and better self, be more and more blessed, and become good-lived women.
