The five types of relationships in our lives are like the "MOBA" type game. They need to have a clear division of functions and close coordination to achieve the final victory. Often, problems arise in one link will affect the final result. So what are the five types of relationships in our lives? What do they mean? What should we do?
monarch and ministers
A relationship between the ancient courts is essentially a superior-level relationship. It is more appropriate to be in the workplace, and it usually represents our career. It is generally at the forefront of life, and strives to create a better life. : The top loves and caring for the bottom, and respects and supports the top, are the basic rules for dealing with such relationships.
father and son
father and son relationship also represents the four relationships of blood father and son, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mother-in-law and son-in-law, and master-apprentice represent our family. Generally, we are at the back of our lives, providing supplies and support for our lives. "Father is kind and filial to the son" is the best answer. must be cautious in handling the relationship between "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mother-son-in-law" and treating it with the mentality of "birth-law and parents" may achieve unexpected results.
Couples
The only person who can accompany us to spend our whole life also represents our family. In the position of life, sometimes at the forefront, sometimes at the back, and sometimes in the midfield, they often appear in the position we need most, and strive with us to create a better life. A good husband-wife relationship generally has the characteristics of respect and equality, trust and loyalty, listening and communication, understanding and fulfillment, tolerance and humility, and a certain economic foundation.
brothers, friends
brothers, friends
brothers and friends ties represent our connections and social abilities. Its content is relatively broad. In addition to brothers and sisters who are related to blood, we have many people with such titles around us, including titles such as "father, best friend, old classmates, comrades-in-arms". These two types of relationships are generally at the forefront or midfield of our lives, and often fight side by side with us or provide support and help to us. The principle of "altruism and win-win" is often an important way to deal with these two types of relationships well.
On the stage of life, if we want to achieve a "easy" state in dealing with five types of relationships, we should also have empathy, thinking from the perspective of others and good communication and expression.
Two scenes of successful life, family harmony and career success, and happiness is their sublimation. We need to learn more, think more, and change more in real life, constantly cultivate ourselves and cultivate the "most loving and affection" side of our personality. This is the fundamental.
content extension: "The Analects of Confucius" - Xueersi
Youzi said: He is a filial piety and brother, but few people like to offend superiors; there is no such thing as not being offend superiors and being willing to cause chaos. A gentleman is committed to the foundation, and the foundation is established and the way is born; filial piety and brothers are the foundation of benevolence?
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