The meaning of hard work is not to cling to others, but to liberate oneself.
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2 years after divorce, recently, Song Hye Kyo posted a sweet hand-held photo with a handsome man for the first time.
As soon as the photo came out, it immediately rushed to the hot search list between China and South Korea, attracting tens of millions of people to watch and discuss -
Qiao Mei Is this love? ? ?
♦ Song Hye Kyo rushed to the top of the Korean hot search list
in the photo, and Song Hye Kyo, who is 11 years younger than him, clasping her fingers with Zhang Jilong , who is 11 years younger than him, looking like she is in love.
Of course, netizens were worried too much, and what Qiao Mei posted was just promotional photos of the TV series.
The name of this drama is "Now, Break Up".
♦ "Now, breaking up" scene
In the play, Song Hye Kyo, who was 40 years old, held hands with 29-year-old Zhang Jilong, and staged a sister-brother relationship. The combination of the royal sister sweet brothers also attracted the attention of the audience. The audience of the show said, "It's so pleasing to the eye."
In addition to the exciting plot, Song Hye Kyo's status is also the focus of the audience's discussion.
In her forties, she didn't have a trace of fatigue on her face, which really echoed the saying "Time never defeats a beauty"!
Because of this, Song Hye Kyo has always been affectionately called "My Qiao" by the audience. After the new drama
was released, Song Hye Kyo broke the news in an interview that her friends Andy Lau and Ni Ni were also following the drama, and she couldn't wait to call herself and beg her to reveal the direction of the next plot.
In the drama "Now, Break Up", Song Hye Kyo portrays a very calm realist. She firmly believes that men are just for stimulation and they will not take their relationship seriously.
However, unexpectedly, the character design in the play has caused many sarcasm from Korean netizens.
They said that this is Song Hye Kyo's attitude towards feelings outside the play, and she is simply a true performance.
This wave of ridicule is naturally inseparable from the divorce two years ago.
From being praised by everyone to being criticized and questioned by all kinds of abuse, the divorce between Song Joong Ki and undoubtedly pushed Song Hye Kyo into the abyss of public opinion.
In 2019, the "Song couple" who once sweetly exploded the entire network suddenly announced their divorce.
♦ Song Hye Kyo Song Joong Ki’s wedding photo
As soon as the news came out, the whole network was in an uproar.
This perfect marriage that has received blessings from everyone and made countless boys and girls call me "I'm heartbroken" last for only two years.
In an instant, rumors about the two people's divorce were flying all over the sky.
Many people began to speculate that the main reason for their divorce was because Song Hye Kyo had cheated during marriage.
♦ Korean media reports about Song Hye Kyo’s cheating
So, more and more netizens began to stand on Song Joong Ki’s side, and bad comments and insults towards Song Hye Kyo also followed.
However, unlike Song Joong Ki's emotional excitement, Song Hye Kyo did not give a positive explanation in the face of overwhelming attacks and abuses.
She just silently deleted all the updates about Song Joong Ki on the social platform and said goodbye to the past completely.
For criticism from the outside world, she said through people around her: "I want to give up my work temporarily and give myself some time and space."
But silence did not stop the storm from becoming increasingly serious, and there were even multiple media scrambling to report it. It is said that she broke down her marriage because she was pregnant with someone else's child.
♦ Korean media revealed that Song Hye Kyo was suspected of a divorce
Just as everyone thought that Song Hye Kyo would not be able to stand the blow of a marriage change. When she was depressed at home or raised her baby, she appeared in the show at New York Fashion Week in an excellent state. superior.Under the camera of
, she has a rosy complexion and a full smile. She looks very eye-catching in a slim and neat suit, and the rumors about her are self-defeating.
did not complain or quarrel to protect rights. Song Hye Kyo used the method of "silent and steady" to resolve the storm. After stunning, she chose to fade out of the screen and went to New York alone to heal her wounds silently.
As a star that is highly anticipated, every bit of life will be infinitely magnified. She cannot be herself, and can only try to adjust her emotions on the verge of collapse.
Only when she is far away from the turmoil of right and wrong can she have the right to be an ordinary person.
In New York, Song Hye Kyo can release her pressure as much as she can with all the broken women, and no one will point fingers at her anymore.
During the day, she would go to the art exhibition alone to find resonance in art.
At night, she would have a drink and fall asleep in a slight drunkenness.
Taking advantage of her free time, she also applied for a short course at a local art school in New York, and achieved both learning and relieving stress.
If you want to break others’ inherent impression of yourself, you must return to the "battlefield" in another way. After the adjustment of
, Song Hye Kyo changed her dressing style and tried to use a change in appearance to say goodbye to her past self, so that the audience could re-know themselves.
made her debut at Song Hye Kyo after her divorce, and she really put in some effort on her personal image.
black all-inclusive eyeshadow with unruly expressions, changing the sweet lady image of the past, he began to try the enchanting dark style.
However, what Song Hye Kyo did not expect was that what "change" was not about making people shine, but about endless ridicule.
Her too heavy smoky makeup has attracted complaints from netizens, and it is even nicknamed "Niuhulu Lu Family Song Hye Kyo". (It has turned black)
But Song Hye Kyo's heart is strong, and she did not stop exploring because of this discordant voice. After
, she began to try various popular makeups, and even if she was ridiculed, she didn't care at all.
As the first Korean star to appear in the fashion magazine "VOGUE", Song Hye Kyo shines brightly after she resumes work. Qiao Mei in the cover of the magazine is no longer sweet and friendly. She uses her "minimal style" makeup to interpret the tenacity and indomitableness of a career-oriented woman.
Divorce storm and external criticism did not make Song Hye Kyo fall into a slump. On the contrary, she has been moving forward in her own way.
During this period, Song Hye Kyo would record his life on social platforms from time to time.
Now, Song Hye Kyo has more than 10 million followers on Instagram. In addition to sharing her daily life, she occasionally takes on some commercial advertisements.
According to the American fashion magazine "Women's Wear Daily", the brand photo posted by Song Hye Kyo received a total of US$477,900 (RMB 3.04 million).
Whether it is married or single, Song Hye Kyo has never given up on her career.
Feng Xuemei once said in "What can I put down the basket of marriage": One of the secrets to success in marriage may be to not regard love as everything. Love cannot bear all the trust of a woman. If you get it, your life will be more gorgeous; if you lose it, your life will not collapse.
Not treating love as the whole of life is Song Hye Kyo’s confidence to start over.
However, the reason why Song Hye Kyo is so strong is that she can turn the tables in adversity when facing life changes is closely related to her original family.
1981, Song Hye Kyo was born in Guangyu City, Daegu, South Korea.
♦ Song Hye Kyo was young
When she was 10 years old, her parents divorced due to disagreement in their personalities.After
, Song Hye Kyo has been living with her mother and lives a very difficult life.
Watching her mother want to make money to support her family while taking care of herself, the well-behaved and sensible Song Hye Kyo felt distressed and sad.
♦ Song Hye Kyo (first from right) took a photo with her classmates
Due to lack of fatherly love since childhood and her mother could not accompany her from work, the young Song Hye Kyo learned to be independent early on.
The family environment and education of childhood have cultivated Song Hye Kyo's forbearing and tenacious personality. Her mother has always trained her as a boy, hoping that she will be self-reliant and self-reliant. Even if one day her mother is gone, she can live a strong life.
So, Song Hye Kyo has rarely acted coquettishly with others since she was a child. She will try her best to strive for what she wants through her own efforts.
15 years old, Song Hye Kyo signed up for the "School Beauty Competition" in order to get the beautiful uniform she had always dreamed of. With her beautiful appearance and cold temperament, she won the championship in the competition.
♦ Song Hye Kyo's childhood
But what she didn't expect was that because of this game, she was favored by many advertisers, and then many advertising companies found her as an endorsement.
Because of this competition, Song Hye Kyo successfully formed an indissoluble bond with the entertainment industry.
1997, 16-year-old Song Hye Kyo ushered in her first role in her life, playing the playful and willful young daughter of the Wu family in the comedy " Shunfeng Obstetrics and Gynecology ".
♦ Song Hye Kyo starred in "Shunfeng Obstetrics and Gynecology"
As this 682-episode long sitcom hits, the lively and cute Song Hye Kyo has gradually become well-known to the audience and has become the white moonlight in the hearts of countless people.
2000, Song Hye Kyo and the Song Seung-heon and Won Bin co-starred in the idol drama " Blue Life and Death Love ". The drama received a great response after the broadcast. It was not only popular in South Korea, but also moved. With countless Chinese audiences, she has also become famous in China.
♦ Song Hye Kyo starred in "Blue Life and Death Love"
But what really made Song Hye Kyo enter the Chinese market was "Full House" co-starring with singer Rain.
♦ Song Hye Kyo starred in "Full House"
, a popular love idol drama in Asia. It is almost the earliest Korean drama seen by the post-80s and 90s. Song Hye Kyo's popularity in China has also soared, and advertising endorsements have been received.
But people are famous and have many troubles. Just as her fame is soaring, danger also comes unknowingly.
In 2005, Song Hye Kyo's mother received a threatening letter, requiring her to prepare 250 million won (about 1.3 million yuan) within 5 days, otherwise she would throw sulfuric acid on the mother and daughter.
♦ Korean media reports about Song Hye Kyo being blackmailed
Song's mother immediately called the police after seeing this intimidation letter, and Song Hye Kyo was also in panic all day long. In desperation, she had to temporarily retreat and cut off all contact with the outside world.
After the police investigation, it was found that the mastermind behind this intimidation letter was actually the former agent who had worked with Song Hye Kyo for three years and was in line with his family.
It is reported that the agent had the idea of extorting Song Hye Kyo due to financial difficulties...
After experiencing this, Song Hye Kyo was more careful in his work. In order to protect his family, he rarely mentioned it in public. and your own family.
But in fact, this is not the only time Song Hye Kyo has been cheated by the staff.
In 2012, during the tax investigation, the State Taxation Department found that Song Hye Kyo had evaded taxes of 2.55 billion won (about RMB 13.8 million). After the incident was exposed and fermented, the angry Korean people launched a joint petition campaign to remove all advertisements from Song Hye Kyo and boycott all the dramas she starred in.
Song Hye-kyo knew that this was his own problem, so she held a press conference to apologize and explain to the public.
♦ Song Hye Kyo bowed and apologized
It is reported that Song Hye Kyo's assets have always been entrusted to a special tax office to manage. This time, tax evasion was because the tax office responsible for tax made a mistake.
. After the accident, Song Hye Kyo did not evade or sell her misery. She immediately paid a tax of 600 million won, including a surcharge of 3.1 billion won, and used her actions to express her attitude towards admitting her mistakes.
However, this incident still brought a significant blow to Song Hye Kyo's career, and her popularity among the people also plummeted.
But what is admirable is that the successive blows did not make Song Hye Kyo depressed.
She swallowed all the ups and downs in her heart, and then she carried her armor and soared all the way.
In 2013, Song Hye Kyo challenged the blind role for the first time in "That Winter, the Wind is Blowing", and received praise from the public for her superb acting skills.
♦ Song Hye Kyo plays the blind girl
In 2014, Song Hye Kyo and well-known actors such as Takeshi Kaneshiro and Zhang Ziyi collaborated in the Chinese movie "Taiping Wheel" directed by John Woo . In the film, Song Hye Kyo is wearing a slim cheongsam, showing her elegance and calmness.
In the same year, at the premiere of "Taiping Wheel", Song Hye Kyo hesitated for a long time and gave an ambiguous answer.
until she met Song Joong Ki that she found the answer:
Love is following one's heart and moving forward bravely.
In 2015, "Host of the Sun " became popular in Asia after it was broadcast and firmly ranked first in the hot list.
Song Hye Kyo and Song Joong Ki's relationship also extends from inside to outside the play.
We all know what happened later. At the age of 36, Song Hye Kyo married Song Joong Ki, who was 4 years younger than him, and divorced two years later.
Although she was once pushed into the whirlpool of public opinion because of this marriage, she was not depressed.
"Now, breaking up" Song Hye Kyo's lines
She films TV series, receives advertisements, attends various activities, and still manages her career to a prosperous future.
For Song Hye Kyo, love is not the whole of life, it is more like a seasoning for life.
The meaning of hard work is not to cling to others, but to liberate yourself and live the life you want.
s she did it.
More than 20 years since her debut, Song Hye Kyo has reached a peak and fell to the trough. She has overcome all obstacles along the way and has become more tenacious and gentle. Song Hye Kyo under the camera of
is free and casual. She doesn't like to show off famous brands and her life is not that luxurious. Even if she just has a simple dinner, she feels very happy.
Now she is 40 years old, but she always maintains her 18-year-old state and is still beautiful.
toughness, gentleness, and the peace and inconsistency built in her heart are the unchanging qualities she has always been in over the years.
tenacity helps her ride the wind and waves, and not fighting to make her feel contented and happy.
and gentle?
tml0 Gentleness can last for the long time.
