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Recently, Rainie Yang has warmed many people in the emotional variety show "The Brilliant Movement".
The once lively and playful "cute leader" has now become gentle and intellectual.
She will be moved by the guests' stories, empathize with their joys, sorrows, and joy, and like an older sister to enlighten and encourage them:
"We should face our own feelings truly, and don't be insincere."
"I will We value the other party’s maturity and high emotional intelligence more, and talent is just an unexpected plus point."
While sharing their views on emotions, we also did not forget to praise Li Ronghao in disguise.
In the program, as long as Li Ronghao is mentioned, the sweetness on Rainie Yang's face can never be hidden.
However, whenever this happens, netizens will bluntly say in the comment section: This is all fake love.
is reasonable and well-known as the legal couple, but as a legal couple, they have been separated from other places for more than 300 days a year;
Finally met because of working in the same city, but after a dinner together Going their own way...
So, rumors of divorce and marriage have been rampant and have never stopped.
However, on Li Ronghao's birthday today, Rainie Yang still sent her first blessing as she did in previous years.
Under the photo of looking at the sea hand in hand, Li Ronghao replied with three kissing expressions in succession. While was so sweet that everyone was able to break the so-called divorce rumors in the past six months.
Looking at the entertainment industry, it is not just a couple who are trapped in the "marriage rumors".
The first one to bear the brunt is Chen Xiao Chen Yanxi and his wife.
网友发现，结婚后，陈晓对陈妍希的热情急转直下。
attended the event on the same stage. He "either show off his bad face or smile bitterly throughout the process";
program team played her blessing video for him, and he "spoken eyes and indifferent, It seems to be watching the enemy";
and in the video, she is " His limbs were stiff and his expression was tense, as if he was strangers to him.”
总之，这完全不是一对恩爱夫妻该有的氛围。
are also suspected of being in harmony with each other, including Du Haitao and Shen Mengchen.
At first, they had been in love for nine years, but never mentioned getting married;
Later, they finally got the certificate and stopped holding the wedding;
In short, It doesn't look like a normal relationship no matter how you look at it.
So, even if the parties involved appear to be peaceful, they can't deceive the careful netizens.
Netizens can always hold magnifying glasses and turn into psychologists, decomposing each of their expressions and movements frame by frame.
finally gave a conclusive conclusion: this relationship is not far from breaking down.
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Can these couples’ feelings really be false and fragile and cannot stand the test?
From the perspective of the bystander, it seems that this is indeed the case.
However, if you change your perspective, it seems to be another story -
Rainie Yang's birthday every year, Li Ronghao will insist on posting on Weibo at the right time and expressing her doting in different ways.
Even if they don’t meet or have videos, they say goodbye to each other every day, reporting their itinerary and plans in words and voice, and sharing their mood changes at all times. Under the "distancing" on the surface of
, there is a sense of ritual that never absent, and the closer the two hearts.
For them, "distance" is not only not a difficult problem that cannot be overcome,
instead proves with actions that true love can withstand the test of distance. During the event, Chen Xiao showed impatience in front of the camera because he had just arrived from the set and was quite tired.
But in a blink of an eye, she was alone with Chen Yanxi, but she couldn't stop smiling. The two of them looked like naughty children immersed in their own world.
When he comes home from get off work, he will take the initiative to help her share housework, cook, play games, and massage each other.
On the days when they can’t meet, they will share what they see and hear every day, and even let the other party know what they eat at each meal.
When the whole world is hitting "Gu Pan CP", it analyzes how the two Chen couples are not compatible and unkind.
They either left their son to live the world of two people, or they were wearing couple outfits and hand in hand to do nucleic acid.
From years of love and marriage, they gradually focus on their family and rarely get together in front of the camera.
But in ordinary life outside the camera, that love not only has not been eliminated, but also has an extra bond between relatives.
When the whole world is discussing, Du Haitao is not concerned about how Shen Mengchen is perfunctory.
He is taking his parents to celebrate the Spring Festival in her hometown of Xiangxi .
Two people wrapped in big cotton jackets and pajamas to greet relatives and friends.
The two families had the New Year's Eve dinner at the same table and happily discussed the marriage matters.
He picked her up from a business trip at the airport, holding her favorite drink in his hand, and secretly appeared behind her to create surprise.
is learning to ride a motorcycle, learn to cook, learn to engrave seals, and write the word "囍" with one stroke.
In places where the audience cannot see them, they are like ordinary couples,
fills life with countless sweet little things, and loves each other in a tiny and true way.
Everyone has different definitions of love.
And too many people are used to using their own standards to measure the relationships of others.
Once something is inconsistent, it will be determined to be evidence that their relationship will not go long.
But love is like a person who knows how to drink water and how to warm and cold.
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It is not difficult to find a common point among the questions of these three pairs:
is broken It must be that girls rely on this relationship unilaterally:
The one who "pretends love" is Rainie Yang, and the one who "pretends sweet" is Chen Yanxi, "盼结婚”的是沈梦辰。
而男生们，则只有冷漠和嫌弃：
李荣浩“不予回应”，陈晓“眼中无光”，杜海涛“面对催婚含糊推脱”。
But, are they really that unworthy in their eyes?
Why not listen to them personally -
Li Ronghao said: "She will always know what I am thinking, because she is Rainie Yang."
She and him have a very similar past:
Before being shrouded in halo, they all experienced the experience of being unhappy. day.
helps the family pay off huge debts, while struggling to keep their dreams, struggling all the way, and fighting again and again.
So, they all understand the importance of career in each other and know how to respect it.
For Li Ronghao, Rainie Yang is Boya and a confidant, and can provide him with love and affirmation at the same time.
For Rainie Yang, Li Ronghao is the person who helps her grow up and supports her to live a better self.
They are like two powerful trees, dependent on each other and independent of each other.
Chen Xiao said: "Those who use three words to describe her are wisdom, mind, and courage."
html ml0He is a person living in his own world, casual, unsubmissive, and a little socially terrified.
His friend said that he is a weird person who needs to be taken care of by his partner.
Although Chen Yanxi looks like a smiling optimist, she is actually smart and wise and has a high emotional intelligence.
For the outside world, she can hold on to his strange temper who is timid and deal with the media generously and appropriately.
Inside, she will not be affected by negative public opinion, and will manage her marriage in an orderly manner, giving him a lot of security.
"He is a little handsome alien." She described him like this.
"She is a mature woman who needs protection." He described him like this.
The understanding of souls and complementary personalities make them the most suitable person for each other.
Du Haitao said: "She always brings me a lot of energy, she is my warm baby."
html ml0They are all famously positive and optimistic, laughing everywhere, worry-free.
But he was always thinking about her unhappiness when she was young and wanted to take care of her better.
He once wiped his tears and said to Shen's father: "She is a passionate and beautiful little girl, but she has suffered too much that she shouldn't have endured. I really feel sorry for her."
And he is polite to Her goodness, she Everyone remembers it in my heart: "Others think he is a big fool, but only I know how special he is."
They understand each other's uniqueness and preciousness, and they provide each other with warm nutrients.
You see, feelings are the affairs of two people.
Whether a person is worth it or not, the answer cannot be written by others, but only in the heart of the lover.
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Writer Liao Yimei said: "In a person's life, it is not rare to meet love and sex. What is rare is to meet understanding."
Because of the understanding, two people in love, Only by running in the most comfortable way to get along with each other.
The loving look is actually not difficult to perform.
Mature love is not for others to see, but for one's own heart to know.
There is no standard formula or specific shape for love, and everyone's demands for love are different.
What determines happiness is trust and understanding, and the true feelings of the parties involved.
As a bystander, it is enough to hold blessings.
