Author | Detective (1807 words in total, read about 4 minutes)
treasure mother, do you usually pay attention to your dress when you pick up the children?
has a fan Baoma. She said that she usually likes to wear the current popular Barbie pants. She has a slim short sleeve on it. A lot of troubles came. One day,
, she went to pick up the child from school and heard 3 or 4 children shouting to the child with a smile:
"Your mother is wearing a tight body to pick you up!" ML2 heard such words, the child bowed his head and pulled it with grievances After her mother wanted to go quickly, after understanding the situation, Baoma knew that her costume had brought so much trouble to her children. She was puzzled. She obviously worn it normally, but she caused ridicule.
and at the entrance of another kindergarten, the children from school found their parents, one of them attracted everyone's attention, especially men's attention.
I saw her wearing a tight yoga clothing , vest -type short tops, and close -fitting leggings, which showed her hot and slender figure. There is no extra fat, the skin is tight and fair, and the long legs of the straight legs are simply a perfect figure, and it is no wonder that parents keep looking back and appreciated.
★ And this treasure mother wears yoga clothes to pick up dolls, attract countless parents.
"Go if you want to wear yoga clothes The gym, the school gate is not a place to show his hot body. As a parent, don't embarrass yourself and your children. Criticism, give Bao Ma some tolerance. People are! Whether a child is decent in a yoga suit does not have a conclusion. Because everyone's aesthetics and different degrees of understanding of different styles of clothes, we must respect the aesthetics of others, and even if we do not understand, we must not overly attack.
is in front of the child, does not complain, does not say bad things about others, does not deny the performance of others, allows children to form a positive mentality to look at different people and things, so that children have positive positive energy. Child.
★ Bao Ma's clothes affects the child's aesthetic
Parents are the objects of children's imitation. It is not difficult to find by our side. The talks are so exactly the same as their parents., such as dressing, hairstyle, preferences, dressing, etc., is simply carved out.
● In addition to genetic factors, the influence of the day after tomorrow and the exposure to ears are more important.
, especially Baoma, is often much longer than her father than her father. Therefore, the mother's thoughts, temper, personality, and dress style will affect the child more.
Mom. If you pay more attention to your image every day, go out to clean up yourself, wear clothes and match, etc., then the child will see if he is the same as his mother, so as to form a certain aesthetic outlook.
A delicate mother, their children will be well-dressed regardless of their facial features;
And a sloppy mother, who even wears pajamas when going out, their children are often also dressed in ordinary or sloppy clothes. As the children grow up, they may not notice their own clothes, or they may find their mothers distasteful for being so sloppy after learning about their beauty and ugliness.
Once children and parents form opposite aesthetics, there will be a certain generation gap between them and their parents, and the parent-child relationship will gradually become alienated.
★When picking up and dropping off their children, parents should pay attention to their personal image
As soon as the children are out of school, they will walk out of the school one after another. In the process, they will observe and communicate, such as which classmate is picked up by whom, and which classmate is picked up by whom. What their mother is wearing, what car she drives, etc. If there is something special or strange, it will attract their attention and discussion.
Once students comment on a classmate's parents through jokes and other methods, forming a fixed and wrong perception, then in the class, the students will stick to this perception on this classmate, and the long-term Ridiculing a classmate will affect his character and friendships.
They may become quiet, have low self-esteem, be timid , and even be unwilling to let their parents pick them up.
● Once you have such an idea, it will not only affect the child's growth and social interaction, but also hinder the formation of the parent-child relationship.
Therefore, when picking up and dropping off children, parents should also pay attention to their own image. They should not be too exposed or slovenly, but their clothes should not be too tight. Dress appropriately and neatly, and maintain a positive image. This is respect for yourself and your children.
I believe that a sophisticated mother will cultivate her children with great care;
and a quality and well-educated parent is a role model that the children are proud of and also a source of confidence for them in front of their classmates.
Quotes from hot moms:
Although dressing is your own freedom, as a parent, you still have to pay attention to the dressing standards for various occasions. This is not only a reflection of your own image and quality, but also represents the tutoring of your family.
hopes that parents can pay attention to the ritual of picking up their children, and let their children develop a positive and sunny character in their words and deeds. Their hearts will be full of positive energy, and they will view things with a beautiful heart, and the future will be smoother.
Parents, do you pay attention to how you dress when picking up your children?
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