After five years of marriage, I looked at Zhu Dan and Zhou Yiwei and discovered that Yiwei Yi's attitude towards marriage was exactly what Zhu Dan needed.
In the entertainment industry, there are countless "maniacs who show off their husbands".
Hong Kong sister Cai Shaofen, the Hong Kong sister who has been through hard work, shows off that she has found a good husband Zhang Jin on various occasions;
the first sister Mango who gave birth to three children in a row Xie Na, whenever she has the opportunity to mention her husband Zhang Jie, she always talks about it .
The melon-eating public is happy to see the sweet love between celebrity couples, because it also proves that there is real love in the entertainment industry.
In addition to "maniacs who show off their husbands", there are also many "maniacs who show off their wives" in the entertainment industry.
Lee Seung-hyun never forgets 277 when he appears on the show, and even officially announced the third child on May 27, the day of "I Love Qi";
Jordan Chan participated in his brother's competition and vomited "bitterness", and he was Cai'er Ying rushed to the shelves and sent in;
Julian Cheung although he talks about getting promoted and getting rich and killing his wife, but when he meets Anita Yuen , he will instantly become silent.
No matter it is them or them, behind their happiness is the infinite support and recognition of their other half.
But one couple in the entertainment industry is an exception.
The woman is a maniac about showing off her husband, but the man never mentions her in public.
Because the marriage model is different from what others understand, the woman is labeled as having a "humble marriage."
The woman is Zhu Dan, the once famous host, and the man is Yiwei Yi, a well-established actor.
In the eyes of many people, Zhu Dan is not confident enough in front of Yiwei Yi and has always been in a disadvantaged position of compromising.
After five years of marriage, Zhu Dan, who has always been "humble" in front of Yiwei Yi, is her marriage a success?
Zhu Dan: His father died at the age of 7, and his family was reorganized at the age of 9. Although he was a stepfather, he really treated me very well.
In 1981, Zhu Dan, whose real name was Zhu Donghua, was born into an ordinary family in Jinhua, Zhejiang.
Her parents were not bound by traditional ethics and chose free love.
The two secretly made a lifelong commitment with their backs to their families. Although they were not recognized by their families, they lived a happy life.
Zhu Dan, like other children, plays in the fields all day long.
Although the family lives in poverty, they love each other and enjoy themselves happily.
However, this beautiful childhood was ruined not long ago because of his father's illness.
When Zhu Dan was three years old, his father suddenly fell ill and was diagnosed with tuberculosis by the hospital. He coughed all day long.
The mother was worried that the young Zhu Dan would be infected, so she had to send her to live with her parents.
Fortunately, although the two elders were dissatisfied with the union of their children, they loved Zhu Dan very much as their granddaughter.
At grandma’s house, Zhu Dan went out to play as before.
But there is no child who doesn’t love home. When young Zhu Dan got tired from playing, he shouted to his grandmother that he wanted to go home.
At this time, grandma always coaxed Zhu Dan: When your father recovers, I will let them take you home.
However, time and time again, her mother did not take her home every time she came over, and Zhu Dan gradually stopped thinking about it.
When Zhu Dan lived at her grandmother's house, her mother borrowed money from everywhere to treat her father's illness, and the debts piled up into a mountain.
Time passes year by year, and the disease is treated year by year.
However, the money spent was like being thrown into the bottomless sea. Not only did it make no sound, it also failed to retain Zhu Dan's father.
When Zhu Dan was 7 years old, her father unfortunately passed away.
After his father passed away, his mother came to her grandmother's house to take Zhu Dan back.
Zhu Dan went home happily and asked his mother how many days he could stay at home.
The mother touched her head sadly and told her that she would live with herself in the future and no longer need to live at her grandma's house.
Although Zhu Dan barely met his father when he was young, his father's departure still had a big impact on Zhu Dan.
In order to treat my father's illness over the years, my mother has accumulated a lot of debt in the family.
Some relatives persuaded the mother to give Zhu Dan away to get married while she was still young, but the mother refused to give up the daughter they both had together no matter what.
Zhu Dan and his mother depended on each other. The mother and daughter lived in the staff dormitory of her mother's textile factory.
The environment of a small house of ten square meters is cramped, but it is already a good habitat for Zhu Dan.
Mother is busy at work, and Zhu Dan has to buy groceries before her mother gets off work.
She always shopped around, and sometimes even picked up vegetable leaves that others didn’t want and took them home.
In order not to cause trouble to her mother, she wore a pair of shoes that her grandmother made for Zhu Dan for a full year. Only when her feet were deformed did Zhu Dan dare to tell her mother.
When he came to school, because he had no father, Zhu Dan always received sympathetic looks and endless pointing fingers from his classmates.
The incomplete family and lack of money made Zhu Dan no longer confident and inferior. She did not dare to look at others, let alone argue with them.
Clay figures also have three-point Qi nature.
Zhu Dan, who was looked down upon, secretly made up his mind to stand out in the future and impress others.
Her mother hoped to give Zhu Dan a complete family, so when Zhu Dan was 9 years old, she found her stepfather.
Zhu Dan's stepfather is not the person who treats children harshly in family dramas. He almost treats Zhu Dan as his own.
When his stepfather married his mother, he also brought Zhu Dan a younger sister.
Although the family is still living in poverty after the two got married, Zhu Dan realized the belated father's love.
Their family of four would go out to play together. Zhu Dan and his sister sat on the crossbar of the bicycle, and his mother sat in the back seat.
Occasionally, Zhu Dan would be put on his stepfather's shoulders and experience scenes he had never seen before.
However, this warmth did not make Zhu Dan bold and confident, but made him more sensitive and uneasy.
She began to worry, worried that she would do something wrong and make her stepfather unhappy, so that she would never experience such fatherly love again.
She does not act coquettishly, but strives to show herself well-behaved and sensible to adults;
She has excellent academic performance, which proves that it is useful for her to study;
She tries her best to please her stepfather, hoping that he can be better to herself and her mother.
Unconsciously, Zhu Dan developed a pleaser personality.
She will think about how to make others more comfortable and happy, but she doesn’t know how to please herself.
The host
Zhu Dan, who came from a small county town, has always been law-abiding during his student days.
The most rebellious thing she has ever done is to go to Hangzhou to buy clothes with her saved pocket money.
This sudden rebellion allowed Zhu Dan to see the prosperity of the city, and he couldn't help but yearn for it.
In order to let his family live a good life, Zhu Dan often stayed up late at night and studied harder.
After her continuous efforts, she was admitted to Zhejiang Media College after the college entrance examination to study broadcasting and hosting.
In fact, Zhu Dan has not received professional training, and she relied on imitation to get into the media school.
After entering college, Zhu Dan's vision broadened and the difference between him and his classmates became more obvious.
Many classmates are from well-off families, and one month's living expenses are equivalent to Zhu Dan's one year's living expenses.
Although Zhu Dan felt a little ashamed of herself, she knew that it was not her parents' fault, and she walked out of Jinhua precisely to live such a life.
She rarely attended gatherings of classmates. She was either studying in the library or working various part-time jobs.
She has worked as a model, a promoter, and an amateur host.
The monthly living expenses of 250 yuan is not enough to support Zhu Dan's expenses. Zhu Dan also developed his eloquence through part-time jobs.
Once, there was a job as a milk promoter in Xidan, Beijing, with a salary of 300 a day and attractive conditions.
But Zhejiang is far away from Beijing, so many students gave up. Only Zhu Dan moved forward bravely.
In the summer, she took a sleeper train and screamed for three days in the high temperature until her voice became hoarse.
However, Zhu Dan was not without gains. In three days, she earned a huge sum of 900 yuan.
Zhu Dan's hard work is obvious to all, and his reputation as a desperate Sanniang has also spread to the ears of Zhejiang TV station executives.
In 2003, Zhu Dan successfully entered Zhejiang Satellite TV as soon as he graduated, and was assigned to the "Weather Thousands" column as a temporary host.
At that time, Zhu Dan was lively, playful, and humorous, which not only made the program lively, but also gained Zhu Dan's favor in Taiwan.
In 2004, Zhu Dan was entrusted with an important task. She hosted four programs in a row and slept only five hours a day.
Wearing high heels for a whole day, Zhu Dan always has no complaints.
After three years, Zhejiang Satellite TV launched the program " I love to remember lyrics ".
This program focuses on singing. No matter who you are, as long as you can get the lyrics right, you can win a lot of money. The prize money won by the
contestants will be donated in the form of charity funds to help people who need help in their careers. The
program is novel and humorous, and the hosting by Zhu Dan and Hua Shao is even more refreshing for the audience.
After the hit "I Love to Remember Lyrics", the pairing of Zhu Dan and Hua Shao became popular overnight and their future is limitless.
Many people felt that Zhu Dan and Hua Shao were perfect for each other on the stage, but little did they know that Zhu Dan already had his crush.
Met Lin Han in 2000. After five years of dating, they got married and divorced. Zhu Dan: We are still suitable to be friends.
Zhu Dan’s crush is Lin Han, who is one of the producers of the program "I Love to Remember Lyrics".
The two are alumni of Zhejiang University of Communication. The boy is handsome and the girl is beautiful. They are the golden boys and girls in the eyes of their colleagues at the TV station.
They met in 2000, but fell in love in 2005.
The two studied similar things. After graduation, they joined Zhejiang Satellite TV by chance and were assigned to the same column group.
Because the desks are close together, the two of them talk more.
At that time, Zhu Dan already had a boyfriend, and Lin Han also had a girlfriend. Four young people met up to go out and play, and became good friends who talked about everything.
The good times did not last long, and Zhu Dan broke up with her boyfriend. As a male friend, Lin Han could only listen to Zhu Dan as she expressed her concerns.
are also people who have hit a wall and been hurt in love. As the two chatted, they were surprised to find that they were very compatible in many places.
On August 13, 2005, the two confirmed their relationship.
After falling in love for less than half a year, the two registered for marriage at the instigation of their friends and became a flash marriage group.
When they first got married, the two had a tacit understanding.
They would bring gifts to each other when they go on business trips, and the two of them like the same decoration style.
Lin Han held a grand proposal ceremony to make up for Zhu Dan's regret. Zhu Dan went to many stores to buy a mobile phone for Lin Dan.
However, this beautiful marriage only lasted for a short time and ended in separation.
In 2007, Zhu Dan became popular with "I Love Remembering Lyrics".
She jumped from an unknown host to a pillar of Zhejiang Satellite TV.
In addition to hosting the show, she also released her own singles and albums, and appeared in many movies and TV series. With the steady rise of
, she also received the radio program "Zhu Dan's Abnormality" and appeared on the hosting stage of " China Dream Show ".
It can be said that Zhu Dan was so popular at that time that almost no one in Zhejiang TV could compete with him.
However, this success has accelerated the separation between himself and Lin Han.
Originally, she and Lin Han had similar status in Taiwan, but with Zhu Dan's steady rise, Lin Han seemed to be standing still.
occasionally go to Taiwan for meetings together, and Zhu Dan always sits in the first row.
Lin Han slowly sat in the back row, and his name was gradually replaced by "Zhu Dan's Husband".
Zhu Dan's promotion was an invisible pressure for Lin Han, which had an adverse reaction on the relationship between the two parties.
For each other's physical and mental health, Zhu Dan and Lin Han agreed to divorce.
It didn’t take long for the two of them to go from a flash marriage to a flash separation. Although they were separated, their friendship for each other has never changed.
had scandals with Tao Zhe and Song Ke. Zhejiang host Zhu Dan quit Hunan Satellite TV
In 2008, Zhu Dan, whose career was flourishing, was invited to host Hangzhou Animation Festival .
During the event, Tao Zhe appeared as a guest. After the
event, Zhu Dan and Tao Zhe were photographed traveling together in the West Lake , acting intimately. The photos of
spread like wildfire on the Internet, and the news of the two's secret love was also uploaded on the Internet.
Some media broke the news that the two had known each other as early as 2007, and Tao Zhe even took the initiative to ask Zhu Dan for his contact information.
drama Tao Zhe’s friend revealed that the two developed very rapidly.
Two months after they met, Zhu Dan went to Shanghai to watch Tao Zhe's concert in the rain.
The news that the two were having an underground love affair was very exciting, but at that time Zhu Dan and Lin Han were just separated, while Tao Zhe and Lin Weijun had not broken up yet.
Both parties involved responded to the scandal, but the effect on Zhu Dan's career was minimal. On the night when the
scandal broke out, Zhu Dan's original program "Citizen Action" was withdrawn, and the host of the "Journey to the West" talent show was cancelled.
Even "I Love to Remember Lyrics", which made Zhu Dan famous, was succeeded by his apprentice Yiyi who came from behind.
Zhu Dan's career has gone from soaring to shaky.
In 2010, with the press conference of the self-produced drama " fell in love with the female anchor ", Zhu Dan was originally planning to avenge his shame and become famous again.
Unexpectedly, the media released another scandal about Zhu Dan at this time, which seriously affected Zhu Dan's development in Zhejiang TV.
At the press conference, a reporter asked about Zhu Dan’s relationship and scandal with Song Ke, the head of Taihe Wheatfield.
The media's inquiries were naturally justified, because this year, Song Ke booked an entire bar in Beijing to celebrate Zhu Dan's birthday.
The two of them couldn't help but kiss passionately after leaving the bar. They happened to be photographed and exposed by reporters standing by.
The two met in the 2009 variety show "Super Singer Competition". Song Ke was a judge and Zhu Dan was the host.
Compared with the previous marriage, the audience is not optimistic about this relationship because Song Ke is 16 years older than Zhu Dan.
However, Hua Shao, who is Zhu Dan’s friend, said that the two are very compatible. What Zhu Dan needs is the care of a mature, stable and powerful man like Song Ke.
Just when netizens thought that the wedding of the two was approaching, Song Ke suddenly broke up with Zhu Dan.
It is rumored that because Zhu Dan works in Zhejiang and Song Ke lives in Beijing, Song Ke broke up with Zhu Dan due to living reasons. When
was a guest on the talk show " Very Quiet Distance ", he revealed that his desire to get married and have children was so strong that he scared Song Ke away.
That period can be regarded as the lowest period of Zhu Dan's career.
In 2011, Zhu Dan partnered with Zhou Libo to host the "Chinese Dream Show".
Zhou Libo is a realist, while Zhu Dan is an idealist.
Two people with different ideas will inevitably have disagreements when hosting, and the conflicts will grow day by day.
At the same time, Zhu Dan was overwhelmed by all kinds of pressure and suddenly forgot his words on the show, causing the show to proceed awkwardly.
Zhu Dan’s forgetting of lyrics also paved the way for future jokes.
At this time, Zhu Dan was at the end of her rope, but the real straw that finally overwhelmed her was her salary.
Zhu Dan has made rapid progress in the ranks of Zhejiang Satellite TV hosts, but her annual salary is only 600,000. A comparison between
and Wang Han from Mango Channel found that the other person's salary was two or three times higher than his own.
Career and love both hit him hard. Zhu Dan once suffered from depression and resolutely fled Zhejiang Taiwan.
She switched jobs to Hunan Satellite TV and hosted a program that received mediocre response. However, she made serious mistakes.
She mistakenly pronounced Hunan Satellite TV’s audience interaction account as Zhejiang Satellite TV’s, causing tens of millions of losses to Hunan Satellite TV.
Zhu Dan said that he did mispronounce the words during the recording of the program, but he made up the correct version afterwards, but he didn't know that it would still be the wrong version after it was broadcast.
After this time, Zhu Dan had a dispute with Hunan Satellite TV. She simply stopped hosting and turned her head into the film and television drama industry.
She and Yiwei Zhou fell in love because of "Spring Knife", but they were labeled as "humble wives" because of their relationship.
In 2013, Zhu Dan met Yiwei Yi on the set of the movie "Spring Knife".
Because there are many martial arts scenes in this film, the actors must have a certain martial arts foundation.
Zhu Dan has a highlight moment of about one minute in the film, but she will be exhausted after more than half the market value of her knife skills.
Zhu Dan hid aside and shed tears silently. When Zhou Yiwei saw the determined Zhu Dan, he couldn't help but stepped forward to comfort him.
There seemed to be a kind of magic power on Zhou Yiwei's body. With his comfort, Zhu Dan gradually calmed down and regained his confidence to exercise.
The two of them came and went during filming, and their friendship quickly developed into a relationship.
In front of Yiwei Yi, Zhu Dan does not need to pretend to be strong or femininity, which makes Zhu Dan feel at ease.
Because of their close relationship, the two were spotted by the paparazzi, and a photo of the two kissing was taken.
What makes Zhu Dan even more relieved is that Zhou Yiwei has no complaints when facing the exposure of his relationship, as if he is ready to stay together for a lifetime.
The two registered their marriage four years after they fell in love, and Yiwei Yi also reached the peak of his career.
In 2017, he participated in the variety show "The Birth of an Actor" and won the championship. He was highly praised by Zhang Ziyi , and his acting skills were also praised by netizens.
However, some attentive netizens discovered that in the long thank you post posted by Yiwei Yi, his wife Zhu Dan was not mentioned at all.
Looking at Zhu Dan on the sidelines, he wrote a long article to bless Zhou Yiwei when he competed for the championship at the end of the variety show.
In addition to not mentioning Zhu Dan in the long article, Yiwei Yiwei was also unwilling to be intimate with Zhu Dan when the two attended events together. When
was a guest on a talk show, Zhou Yiwei bluntly stated that he did not want to cooperate with Zhu Dan because Zhu Dan could not act. The superposition of
and other comments made netizens have to think more. Is this marriage just Zhu Dan's wishful thinking?
These machismo remarks have not passed yet. Zhu Dan over there made a slip of the tongue and showed off his husband in the show and was overturned.
She called the wrong names of artists such as Guli Nazha , Zhou Dongyu , Dilraba , etc. Her strange accent and tone were once ridiculed by netizens and became a hot search topic.
It’s not too late for the host to overturn. Zhu Dan was self-defeating when he was showing off his husband, causing an uproar in the originally low-key relationship between husband and wife.
She appeared on " Men Doing Housework " and said that Yiwei Yiwei was so moved when she cooked for her for the first time. Her "step theory" was also criticized.
Even in the program Li Dan said that Zhu Dan lived a humble life, but Zhu Dan objected: Do you want to shatter my happiness before your eyes?
In fact, Zhu Dan is not unclear about his relationship with Yiwei Yi, but the relationship between the two is really not as unacceptable as netizens imagined.
Yiwei Zhou complained that Zhu Dan was not professional in acting because he was worried that Zhu Dan was working too hard during filming. The audience only saw Yiwei rejecting Zhu Dan's kiss but did not notice the touching of the head.
Zhu Dan has already developed a pleaser personality because she has lived in an emotionally unstable environment since she was a child.
She was grateful for Zhou Yiwei's efforts, and Zhou Yiwei was not ignorant of her hardships.
It’s just that Zhou Yiwei is unwilling to analyze his personal emotions in front of the audience. After all, in his eyes, actors need a sense of mystery.
But all this does not mean that Zhou Yiwei does not love Zhu Dan.
If Zhu Dan doesn't feel happy in this marriage, she will leave like before.
The two have been married for five years, which happens to mean that Zhou Yiwei is Zhu Dan's husband.
It’s just that the way the two get along does not conform to the mainstream aesthetics, but who can say that the way the two get along is unique in the world?
