01 "Don't rush to ask me if I agree with your marriage. I don't have any big reasons. I just want to tell you something from the past." My father-in-law said that there was a male educated youth who responded to the country's call with a female classmate. The rural areas are vast

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01

"Don't rush to ask me if I agree with your marriage. I don't have any big reasons. I just want to tell you something from the past."

Before my wife and I got married, I went to seek the opinions of my father-in-law and mother-in-law. At the dinner table, my father-in-law took a sip of wine and opened the conversation.

My father-in-law said that at that time, a male educated youth and a female classmate responded to the country’s call and went to the vast countryside to receive re-education from poor and lower-middle peasants. The two happened to arrive in the same village. In a foreign land thousands of miles away from home, the two classmates and the villagers worked at sunrise and rested at sunset, and gradually developed feelings for each other. They had been together in the countryside for three years, and they agreed to apply for marriage when they returned to the city, and they would never be separated in this life.

When the city was recruiting workers that year, a quota was allocated to the village. Male educated youths and female educated youths could only choose one of the two. When the village solicited opinions, the male educated youth said without any hesitation that he would give up the competition and let the female educated youth return to the city first. Before leaving, the female educated youth told the male educated youth that she would wait for him no matter what and would never change her mind.

02

After the female educated youth left, the male educated youth wrote to her every three days according to the home address she left. However, every letter was like a stone, and he never received a word from his girlfriend.

More than half a year later, the male educated youth was heartbroken and guessed that his girlfriend must have already moved on to another relationship. The pain of broken love and the hatred for his girlfriend made the male educated youth particularly depressed during that period. He lives in the village chief's house. The village chief's daughter is now 17 years old and quite pretty. In order to fill the emptiness in his heart, the male educated youth expressed his love for the village chief's daughter. The village chief girl was not well educated and knew that she was not worthy of this educated youth from the city, so she was unwilling at first. The male educated youth made a promise that he would always take root in the countryside and grow old with the girl. The girl finally became interested and fell in love with the male educated youth.

When the girl was 18, they got married and gave birth to a daughter a year later. This year, educated youth began to return to the city in large numbers. Because the male educated youth is already married, he does not meet the conditions for returning to the city.

Watching batch after batch of educated youth return to the city to eat rations and receive iron rice bowls, the male educated youth could no longer feel balanced. He began to re-examine his life, and his former ideals and aspirations resurfaced in his mind.

03

When the wife saw her husband smoking, she sighed from time to time. She knew what her husband was thinking without asking. One night, the wife solemnly proposed to her husband: "Let's get a divorce!" The male educated youth felt puzzled and asked his wife why she said this. The wife said: "I know you will not be willing to stay in the countryside all your life. You will not be able to return to the city without divorce. I just ask you not to abandon your daughter. She will live a better life with you than with me."

The educated youth was very moved. , swearing that if they abandon the two of them, they will be struck by lightning. Finally, the wife knelt down and begged the village chief and her father to complete the procedures for her husband to return to the city.

After the male educated youth returned to the city, on the day he went to report, he saw a girl standing in front of the reception window and asking the cadres inside. She said that she had a brother who had been in the countryside for 6 years. Now all the educated youths have returned, why is it that he is not there yet? news. The cadre asked her brother's name and it turned out to be the male educated youth behind him.

The male educated youth did not expect to meet his ex-girlfriend here, let alone that she would still care about him. He gently called out the name of his ex-girlfriend. When the girl turned around and saw her longing for boyfriend, she couldn't restrain her inner joy and threw herself into his arms.

04

A male educated youth learned from his ex-girlfriend’s story that all the letters she wrote to him were returned. When her parents went to pick her up back to the city, they found out about their relationship. In order to prevent them from continuing to develop, they gave a generous gift to the postman in the village and asked the postman to label all the letters she wrote to him with the words "No such person found." The paper signature was returned to the original mailing address. The letter he wrote to her was also directly detained by the uncle in the mailroom downstairs and handed over to her parents.

Later, when she was washing clothes, she accidentally found a letter he wrote to her in her mother's pocket, and she learned the secret. Her parents simply made it clear to her that they were firmly opposed to their falling in love.Although the girl could not communicate with him through letters, she firmly believed that the male educated youth would return from the countryside soon, so she waited until now.

The male educated youth also truthfully told his ex-girlfriend about his situation. His ex-girlfriend didn't blame him, she just said it was fate, and she was glad that he was free, which meant that their relationship was not over yet.

The ex-girlfriend who looked so refreshing in front of her was not comparable to her mother, the child in the countryside. The male educated youth couldn't help but regret his original mistake.

When her ex-girlfriend saw the young educated man reunited with her after a long absence, she was not at all happy. She thought she was worried about her minding his marriage history, so she quickly took his hand and said, "Everything is over, let's start over!"

05

Half Months later, the male educated youth completed the transfer of household registration, transfer of food relations and other matters, and finally became a worker in an enterprise owned by the whole people.

During this period, he experienced repeated fierce ideological struggles about marriage and love. Rekindling an old relationship with your ex-girlfriend will definitely lead to a different kind of splendid life; if you stick to your rotten wife, it will be a foregone conclusion for the rest of your life. The male educated youth stayed up all night for several nights, suffering in his heart, and finally figured out the reason: his wife was willing to make sacrifices so that he could change his situation; he could not live a happy life for himself at the expense of his wife's youth. , causing the daughter to lose her father's love and affection.

In the end, he made a major decision that would affect his life: he and his ex-girlfriend made an emergency stop and went to the countryside to pick up his wife and daughter.

When my father-in-law said this, he raised his neck and drank half the glass of wine in one gulp. He narrowed his eyes and asked me: "Do you know who that educated youth is?"

I didn't know what kind of medicine my father-in-law was selling in the pot, so I asked him: "He is "Who, is this important?"

My father-in-law put the cup on the table, his eyes brightened: "Of course it is important, because this educated youth will be your future father-in-law!"

My father-in-law's words were so loud that I was in awe. I was about to flatter him a few words, but unexpectedly he asked immediately: "Do you know what I want to tell you?"

I thought about it and replied: "That is to say, once you get married, you have to take on the responsibilities in the marriage.

The father-in-law nodded and continued to ask: "Can you do it?"

I said firmly: "Yes!"

After a long circle, the father-in-law finally said: "Okay, you can pick a day to apply for the certificate!" "