Jiang Qinqin's new drama "The Housewife" is currently on the air. The most obvious feeling I have after watching the drama to episode 14 is: This is really not who wants to be the matron of the house, you can be the one you want to be.

Jiang Qinqin 's new drama " The Mistress " is currently on the air.

The most obvious feeling I have after watching the drama to episode 14 is: This is really not who wants to be the mistress of the house, you can be the one you want to be. A woman's status is stable only if she is ruthless enough.

Let’s take a look at how the mistress Shen Cuixi, played by Jiang Qinqin, managed to retain her position as the mistress of the house.

1

I’m so cruel to my concubine

The TV series begins with Grandma Ren going to her husband’s foreign debt with a kind of aggressive attitude to catch her.

But Shen Cuixi still pushed in the door and slapped Zeng Baoqin in the face several times.

Zeng Baoqin put on a standard "green tea" move, showing weakness and pretending to be pitiful, and knelt down in front of Mr. Ren's family:

"Grandma, I'm just a lowly person. I beg Grandma to let you go." I will stay with Xuetang. I will never complain about being a slave. I respect him and love him, so how can I be willing to hurt him?

But Shen Cuisi is not the mistress of the house for nothing. .

immediately retorted:

“Bah! Are you worthy of being a slave or a maid?

Isn’t that servant of my Ren family innocent? Are you worthy of being a Lehu from a vocational college?

The Qing Dynasty has laws that stipulate that civil and military officials who visit prostitutes and drink wine must be beaten with a stick of sixty sticks, and a pimp must be beaten with a stick of thirty sticks.

Now that the uncle is a man with an official status, if you, a woman from a court, follow him, how many sticks will he receive?

At this time, Zeng Baoqin said to Ren Xuetang with a face full of infatuation and tears: "I live just to look at you. Since it will hurt you, then I might as well die."

After saying this, he picked up a pair of scissors and used them as a knife. He pierced his chest and wanted to commit suicide.

This battle made Mr. Ren immediately fall to one side and start speaking for Zeng Baoqin.

Shen Cuixi kicked off Zeng Baoqin's scissors and cursed: "Zeng Baoqin, you are so cruel. You have a cheap life and it is not a pity to die. But if you die in our Ren family, it will be an offense for the uncle. If the court wants to pursue it, Get up, I will be sent to Heilongjiang to be a slave in armor."

In fact, Shen Cuixi clearly knew that her husband Ren Xuetang was not a playboy like other men.

The person he was dating was Zeng Baoqin, his childhood sweetheart who was later beaten up by his family. She was once an innocent official lady, but she was bought into a brothel and fell into prostitution because of a disaster at home.

In fact, judging from the subsequent plot, if Zeng Baoqin was a girl from an innocent family, she would not be able to tolerate the uncle taking a concubine.

It's just that in the current social environment at that time, in order to preserve the Ren family and preserve the uncle's official career, she would never let Zeng Baoqin in, even if she had a reputation of jealousy.

Since we can't get in, we have to do things absolutely, say things absolutely, and cut through the mess quickly without leaving any room. They will not give their competitors any leverage to attack them.

Ren Jiacai did not immediately suffer from the chaotic situation .

2

She is also cruel to her own man.

Although Shen Cuixi explained the disadvantages of being together with Zeng Baoqin, Ren Xuetang could not forget his old love and ransomed Zeng Baoqin to take her as his concubine.

But when she saw her uncle doting on her, she turned her nose up and begged him with tears in her eyes to wear bright red when entering the house.

As a result, as soon as the uncle mentioned it, the eldest grandma rebuffed her:

"Zeng Baoqin came into my family not to be a rich lady, nor to be the first wife, but to be a concubine.

To be a concubine, there must be a concubine. Rules.

If I treat her well and she takes advantage of you and ignores me, what should I do?

If Zeng Baoqin makes a mistake or is wronged, you will let her go. I'm being generous. If I don't agree, you will tell me about the relationship between husband and wife to impress me and let me help you. If I still don't agree, you will force me to agree using my husband as my wife.

Uncle, aren't you trying to do this? Concubine, you are taking the face of my eldest grandma and giving it to Zeng Baoqin to trample under your feet.

It’s a matter of principle. Even your own man is ruthless and merciless, but this is really a precautionary measure.

3

Stealing a child from a concubine is enough.

The Ren family was framed. The life and death of Xuetang, the director of the Ren family, was unknown. Some people in the family were ready to ask Shen Cuixi to hand over power, saying that she had no husband and children and was unfit to take charge of the Ren family's family business. .

It happened that Zeng Baoqin gave birth to a son for Ren Xuetang at this time.

Shen Cuixi ran to Zeng Baoqin's yard to snatch the child without saying a word.

She gave two reasons:

First: The child is the uncle’s only flesh and blood. With this child, he can keep Xuetang’s property and recognize his ancestors. When he grows up, he can legitimately take charge of the Ren family’s family business. .

Second: Xuetang was killed before he could let Zeng Baoqin in. In ancient times, concubines were not qualified to raise children, and the children they gave birth to were recorded in the name of the legitimate mother. What's more, she is a woman from Lehu who doesn't even have the title of concubine?

It would be fine if the child followed her and was laughed at and insulted by the world. He could not take the scientific examination and could not be an official.

Therefore, he would rather let Zeng Baoqin and the child endure the pain of separation of flesh and blood than take the child away. Although Zeng Baoqin hated Shen Cuixi, there was nothing he could do about it. I can only accept my fate.

I have to say that it is precisely because Shen Cuixi is ruthless that she is qualified to be the mistress of the house. If she is soft-hearted or is intimidated by her uncle and lets their affair go, the Ren family will most likely be overthrown.

If she didn't stick to the rules from the beginning, her end would be similar to the situation of Shanda's wife in ", do you know ", where Lin Xiaoniang manipulated her grandfather into doting on his concubine and destroyed his wife, and the family master's dignity was reversed, turning him into a joke.

If she was not ruthless enough not to snatch the newborn baby away from the biological mother, then it would be the Ren family and the child, Ren Xiushan, who would suffer.

We are born as human beings, and if we want to live a good life, choices are very important, as are responsibility, courage and ruthless tactics.

Many of the decisive choices are not exclusive to the heroine in the drama.

Watching videos can give you instant happiness, but it will affect your studies and future. Can you make a decisive choice?

Junk food is delicious but can threaten your health. Can you give it up decisively?

Indulging children makes children very happy, but excessive pampering and indulgence make children ignorant and unable to distinguish right from wrong, which will lay hidden dangers for them to walk in society in the future. Therefore, are children willing to punish them when they make mistakes?

Different people make different choices and have different destinies. This is life.

People are not ruthless enough and their status is unstable. This matter does not distinguish between men and women.

I know that reading is good, but I still love to watch dramas. Then follow @jingxintingfilm and let’s watch dramas happily together! Meditate and turn your hobby into a career [sneaky laugh]