Three years ago, on the streets of Singapore, a Chinese woman with dull eyes and a haggard face held up a sign and smiled weakly at the passers-by. Her pitiful appearance attracted passers-by to stop and watch. The sign says that she is Xu Meijing. Her family and her agent have d

Three years ago, on the streets of Singapore , a Chinese woman with dull eyes and a haggard face held up a sign and smiled weakly at the passers-by. Her pitiful appearance attracted passers-by to stop and watch.

The brand said she was Xu Meijing. Her family and her agent defrauded her of all her property, hoping to get everyone's help.

This confused and haggard woman claimed to be Xu Meijing. The name

may have been forgotten by you, but everyone is familiar with her representative song. She is the original singer of the song "The Sunshine Always Comes After the Storm". As famous as Faye Wong and known as the "Queen Killer", she was once very popular, but now it is revealed that she is living on the streets and making a living by singing, asking passers-by for help, which has made people sigh. So, what happened to make her once so beautiful become like this?

In 1974, Xu Meijing was born in an ordinary family in Singapore. Her father was an employee of a car repair shop and her mother worked in a hardware company. Xu Meijing's original name is Xu Meifeng . She has been quiet since she was a child and likes to do her own things alone.

Parents don't like her personality very much. This personality often makes them feel that their daughter is alienated from them and lacks a sense of closeness. And they are unwilling to take the initiative to get close to their daughter. Due to her personality, she didn't have many friends around her when she was in school, but she was quiet and never took the initiative to cause trouble. The student days passed smoothly.

Before this, Xu Meifeng had always been an unknown amateur. It was not until 1992 that the quiet Xu Meifeng plucked up the courage to sign up for the Miss Singapore Chinese contest. Unexpectedly, this selection made her win the title of Miss Chinese and Miss Most Photogenic in one fell swoop. This was a huge blow to the quiet and ordinary Xu Meifeng. confidence and courage. This can be said to be the first and most important opportunity in her life. After

won the award, Xu Meifeng had half a foot in the entertainment industry. However, due to lack of good resources, she only performed at some commercial events at that time.

In the second year after participating in Miss Chinese, Xu Meijing signed up for the "Looking for Superstars" singing competition because of her hobby of singing. Her outstanding performance allowed her to successfully sign a contract with Jiahe Records. It was also during this event that she met Chen Jiaming . At that time, she must have never imagined that this person would affect her life.

Chen Jiaming was already a famous musician in Singapore at that time. He was known as "Singapore Li Zongsheng " and was a musical talent. He created works such as Anita Mui " Love You Thousands of Times in My Life", Excellent works such as " is too stupid " by Mo Qixian .

The encounter between the two was full of coincidences. At that time, Xu Meifeng was in the dressing room preparing to go on stage. In order to relieve the tension, she hummed a song. Chen Jiaming passed by the dressing room and heard the beautiful singing in the room, and directly pushed He opened the room and said "Singapore will never find a voice as beautiful as yours" and handed her a business card. The sudden compliment also made Xu Meijing blush with embarrassment.

Meijing, who had always been as quiet as water, never expected that someone would praise her so boldly and directly. So she took the business card and started a decades-long collaboration with Chen Jiaming.

In 1994, with the help of Chen Jiaming, Xu Meifeng released her first album "Ming Knew". Although there was no publicity and exaggeration, it still sold well, with sales directly exceeding the one million mark. Chen Meifeng also became an instant hit. After the success of the

album, the company held a celebration banquet for Xu Meifeng and Chen Jiaming at the end of the year. Chen Jiaming attended with his wife Peng Xiumei.

Peng Xiumei is the editor-in-chief of Singapore's well-known magazine "Girlfriend". She likes to listen to Xu Meifeng's songs very much. Seeing that she is very quiet, Peng Xiumei smiles and says to her, " You are so calm and quiet. I don't think you should be called Xu Meifeng. You should be called Xu Meijing." It’s more in line with your personality ”

Xu Meifeng thought this name sounded better than ‘Xu Meifeng’, so she really changed her name to Xu Meijing.

In 1995, Chen Jiaming signed with Taiwan Shanghua Records. Xu Meijing, who rejected Li Zongsheng's invitation to join Rolling Stone Records, soon joined Shanghua Records . Chen Jiaming once again became Xu Meijing's producer.

In the next two or three years, Xu Meijing, with the help of Chen Jiaming, released several solo albums such as "Regret", "Spread", and "Sunshine Always After the Storm". The sales of each album were very hot, and the total sales volume Together they can even beat Andy Lau which was released at the same time.

Even Faye Wong sang a cover of "Moonlight in the City" at her concert. At that time, the famous producer Xu Changde commented on Xu Meijing, "This is another Faye Wong."

In 1997, in order to break into the Hong Kong music scene, the famous lyricist Lin Xi changed the name of Xu Meijing's "Knowing to Know" to "King to Know" and re-wrote the lyrics.

This song not only became popular in Hong Kong, but also dominated the Southeast Asian music scene. It also won the top ten golden songs and the best adapted golden song award in one fell swoop. Popular singers such as Guan Shuyi, Liu Meijun, Sun Yaowei and other popular singers have covered this song.

Xu Meijing became famous in one fell swoop, even as famous as Faye Wong, and was dubbed the "Queen Killer". Because at this time, Xu Meijing's record sales exceeded those of Faye Wong, Lin Yilin, Sammi Cheng and many other divas.

Just when everyone thought that Xu Meijing had reached the peak of her career and would continue to be popular, they did not expect that Xu Meijing's career would start to decline because of Chen Jiaming.

Chen Jiaming's influence on Xu Meijing is huge. Her growth from an unknown little girl to a singing queen cannot be separated from the help behind Chen Jiaming.

Chen Jiaming, who is ten years older than Xu Meijing, guides her like her teacher. Maybe it’s because Xu Meijing is too quiet and there have been too few people in her life over the years. It may also be that the personable and gentle Chen Jiaming is too attractive to Xu Meijing. She knew that Chen Jiaming already had a family. At that time, I still fell in love with him regardless of the cost.

But Chen Jiaming took his family into consideration, and although he felt Xu Meijing's emotions, he still politely rejected her.

Xu Meijing was depressed after being rejected. In order to comfort Xu Meijing, Chen Jiaming promised to divorce, and Xu Meijing believed it.

From then on, the two continued to cooperate, and the relationship could only be entangled in an unclear way.

Xu Meijing waited for a long time but did not receive the news of her sweetheart's divorce, which made her very disappointed.

In order to be angry, she left her job and went abroad to relax alone.

But in order for the cooperation between the two to continue, Chen Jiaming had to use the lie of "divorce" to trick her into returning to work in China.

The entangled relationship between Xu Meijing and Chen Jiaming has been struggling for seven years. During these seven years of cooperation, they have successively released six high-quality albums.

Chen Jiaming repeatedly promised to divorce, but in the end he failed to let Xu Meijing wait for the desired result. Xu Meijing, who couldn't bear it emotionally, suffered greatly: she was looking forward to getting married to Chen Jiaming's lover, but at the same time she was sabotaging herself. The behavior of other families is extremely disgusting.

At this time, Chen Jiaming, who was worried but had nowhere to talk, chose to confide his concerns to Xu Meijing's assistant Huang Fengyi. The two had a happy conversation, and Xu Meijing soon learned about it.

One was her closest assistant, and the other was her favorite man. She was completely shattered. She asked Chen Jiaming like crazy: "Are you in love with my assistant again?"

Chen Jiaming, however, avoided his eyes and refused to answer. After the

incident was exposed, Chen Meijing’s assistant could not withstand the pressure and chose to commit suicide.

The death of her assistant was a heavy blow to Xu Meijing. She was depressed and gradually recognized the reality. She was disheartened by this hopeless relationship. In 2000, Xu Meijing retired from the music scene and left for the United States.

In 2002, Xu Meijing came to Taiwan Province and met Hong Kong singer Yuen Yaofa who was filming in Taiwan.

Yuan Yaofa is 8 years younger than Xu Meijing. Xu Meijing, who has left Singapore for more than two years, still feels depressed when she thinks of Chen Jiaming.

At this time, the handsome and considerate Yuan Yaofa often accompanied Xu Meijing to travel abroad and relax. Xu Meijing was gradually attracted to this talented person, and the relationship between the two quickly heated up.

It didn't take long for the two to fall in love. This upright love affair also brought Xu Meijing unprecedented happiness.

Yuan Yaofa was just an ordinary young actor at that time, and his fame and financial resources were far inferior to Xu Meijing's. But Xu Meijing has always taken special care of Yuan Yaofa and is obedient.

If things develop like this, the two of them may live a sweet life forever. Unexpectedly, Xu Meijing eventually fell into the trap of the scumbag.

Since 2005, Yuan Yaofa's temper has become increasingly violent. He has lost the gentleness of the past and would even beat and scold Xu Meijing from time to time.

just because he was hidden by the company's senior management, many years of hard work were in vain.

Xu Meijing has a character that is used to tolerance. She is like this when facing Chen Jiaming, and she is like this when facing Yuan Yaofa.

She relied on caution and humiliation to maintain this relationship, and even wanted to use her children to keep her boyfriend.

However, when she told Yuan Yaofa that she was pregnant, Yuan Yaofa no longer cared. He even wanted her to abort the child.

At this time of despair, Xu Meijing received a message from Chen Jiaming: "I have been divorced, are you still willing to come back?"

Xu Meijing seemed to see hope when she received the message, so she immediately got up and rushed to Singapore to meet her. Meet Chen Jiaming.

But what she didn't expect was that Chen Jiaming was not divorced, but Chen Jiaming's career fell into a trough after leaving her.

After Xu Meijing came back, Chen Jiaming asked her to put aside her fantasies and start working immediately.

Yuan Yaofa also learned that Xu Meijing was looking for Chen Jiaming and wanted to break up with Xu Meijing forever.

At this time, Xu Meijing realized that she had gotten nothing in the end. Chen Jiaming had lied to her again and again, and there was no possibility of getting back together with Yuan Yaofa.

Under the double blow, Xu Meijing collapsed.

Devastated, she began to gradually fade out of the music scene. Due to the heavy blow, she suffered from mental illness and often had severe auditory hallucinations .

In her heart, she seemed to still be the girl pursuing love. In 2005, when someone asked her to record a record, she said: "I only cooperate with Chen Jiaming."

At this time, she only had memories of the past. obsession.

After she became mentally ill, she almost abandoned her relatives, and her family even sent her directly to a mental hospital.

Although she began to improve with the help of her friends, when she wanted to enter the music scene again, there was no place for her.

After that, in order to make a living, she often participated in some business performances and performed acupuncture. Completely disappear from the camera.

When she reappeared, she was singing and singing on the streets of Singapore asking for help, accusing her family and agent Chen Jiaming of transferring her property.

She doesn’t know how to use social software, so she can only tell her tragic past in this primitive way.

However, given that her mental condition is not very good, it is difficult to tell whether the content of these accusations is true or false.

In fact, not long after, she called reporters again and said that she had reconciled with her family.

finally calmed down this "farce".

In 2019, Xu Meijing held a concert with the help of friends. Although she has left the music scene for many years, all the past events still come to mind. At the end of the concert, Xu Meijing thought of the person she once loved deeply, I thanked Chen Jiaming for the last time in front of all the audience.

From now on, she will make a clean break with the past.

Today, she is 47 years old, still alone, living in seclusion and living an ordinary life.

Last year, she greeted her fans on social platforms, and then returned to her alone life again.

Her past is full of love, but not hate. In love, she is as humble as a grain of dust, hoping that flowers will bloom from it.

But in the end, I discovered that I was just an episode in other people's stories. Without me, their stories would continue, but without them, my story would come to an end.

In career, she has unique abilities, but in love, she is too humble to hold her head high.

I hope she can say goodbye to the bad past and stand up again.

Just as her song goes: "It is inevitable that you have fallen and waited, but you must be brave enough to raise your head."

Because the sunshine is always after the wind and rain.