Until at night, when I turned on the computer to do some work, I accidentally saw that message again. I clicked on the profile picture and almost laughed out loud. It turned out to be my ex-boyfriend’s WeChat message.

A few days ago, I received a message on WeChat. The general idea was to ask me about some simple processing functions of the WeChat public account. The name was not very familiar. I thought that it was probably a friend I added accidentally. I was busy at the time and did not make it in time. reply.

Until the evening, when I turned on the computer to do some work, I accidentally saw that message again. I clicked on the profile picture and almost laughed out loud. It turned out to be my ex-boyfriend’s WeChat message.

I have no idea when he changed his avatar and WeChat name. I even forgot that after the breakup, I forced myself to delete it because I was heartbroken and afraid of contacting him. Later, I really missed it and couldn't help but add how long ago it was.

He has always been in my friend list. If a message hadn't suddenly appeared, I would have forgotten that there was such a person.

I replied to him politely.

The next day, he asked me a more childish question (at first glance, he was a novice on the public account). At this time, an inexplicable feeling of disgust and disgust arose spontaneously.

But I still replied politely and succinctly, and then deleted the chat history with him.

Only then did I realize that two years ago, when I thought I would never meet a boy as good as my ex-boyfriend (also naive, if he was so good, why would he break up with you?), I thought I would do it for this person. When I was in pain for half my life and thought I would never get out of it, I discovered that with the passage of time and precipitation, not only could I not remember anything related to him, but I even began to feel disgusted and disgusted with him.

always thought that being friends could be a comforting thing, but later I discovered that after a breakup, two people are either passers-by or enemies, and there will never be a third possibility.

Just like what was said in "33 Days of Love", we once fell in love with each other so deeply, and now we hate each other extremely thoroughly. I want you to know that we are always evenly matched.

I remember a year and a half ago, when I could finally face him with a normal heart, I sent him a message to express my gratitude. After all, without him at that time, I would not be where I am today.

He said he was sorry to me and said he was too selfish at the time. I forgot how I responded, but I didn’t understand that seeming forgiveness until today. It meant that he was no longer important to me.

When I was sorting out my thoughts last night, I opened my circle of friends and deleted some friends I had almost no contact with. Some of them used to be very close, but then drifted apart, and some of them used to talk about everything, but now they are strangers to each other. When I saw his profile picture, I felt very relaxed. I just deleted it without leaving any trace.

No longer contacting each other is the greatest kindness to each other.

Choosing to release a person who no longer means anything to you is the greatest love and respect for yourself.

Due to various reasons, I finally had a big quarrel with my roommate who couldn't bear it last night. I'm very sad because after the quarrel, I am always the one who gets hurt more deeply.

I was in a daze, sad, and at a loss for the whole day. Finally, I decided to forgive, not because I was wrong, but because she didn't deserve it.

Cai Kangyong said something in " wonders about ": "Sometimes we don't forgive , we just think... forget ."

The famous writer Suhei said something: The biggest Love is forgiveness and release, forgiveness of one's own persistence and forgiveness of the other person's limitations.

In our life, we will fall in love with many people at first sight, have mutual agreement with some people, and then grow old together with one person.

In our life, we will love many people, hate many people, misunderstand many people, hurt many people, and at the same time we will be hurt by many people.

However, no matter how impulsive you were at that moment, how embarrassing you were, how much you hurt others and yourself, how irreparable it was, when you calm down, you must choose to forgive. Forgive yourself for your immaturity, forgive yourself for your limitations, and forgive the other person’s aura that doesn’t match yours.

More importantly, forgive yourself for wasting time on him, and silently tell yourself in your heart, forget it. He's not that important, he's not important at all. He is not worth remembering, let alone not forgiving.

The most important thing is to forgive yourself and let yourself go.

quit and move on.

Finally, share a song from Tanya :

I don’t hate you anymore, and even forgive your cruel reasons. When I find that I no longer love you, even the memories are a burden. ——Tanya Tanya "Stranger"

The most important thing is to forgive yourself and let yourself go.

quit and move on.

Finally, share a song from Tanya :

I don’t hate you anymore, and even forgive your cruel reasons. When I find that I no longer love you, even the memories are a burden. ——Tanya Tanya "Stranger"