Author: Mr. Wang Erduo
Source: Mr. Wang Erduo (ID: huangezishiba)
1 There are still ten days before New Year's Eve, but she is still gone.
When I woke up in the morning, I saw a message flooding the screen:
Wu Huayan, a 43-pound female college student from Guizhou, passed away yesterday afternoon. She was only 24 years old.
You may not be familiar with the ordinary name Wu Huayan, but you must have heard of her heart-wrenching story.
Wu Huayan is a student at a vocational college in Guizhou. Her parents have passed away since she was a child, and she and her younger brother are dependent on each other.
However, the younger brother suffers from intermittent psychosis.
In order to treat his younger brother's illness, Wu Huayan lived an extremely frugal life since she was a child. She only spent 2 yuan on food every day. For several years, she only ate white rice mixed with bad chili peppers.
Due to long-term malnutrition, Wu Huayan, who is in her 20s, is only 1.35 meters tall and weighs only 43 pounds. Her eyebrows and hair have also fallen out.
Last year, Wu Huayan could no longer hold on and was hospitalized due to severe heart valve damage.
After her story was exposed, countless netizens paid attention and donated money.
However, nothing could save Wu Huayan’s young life.
The whole morning, I felt sad for Wu Huayan, but what shocked me the most was the last post she posted on Moments.
Yes, even though she is nearing the end of her life and has endured so much, she still cannot see all this in her circle of friends.
She still wants to treat everyone in the world with kindness. She is still "waiting for the snow to come" and a heart-to-heart conversation.
She once told a reporter who interviewed her that her biggest wish this year is to have a good year with her brother.
Previously, many people went to the hospital to see her, and she expressed her sincere gratitude to everyone who came.
After she raised enough for medical expenses, well-wishers continued to donate money, but she publicly appealed clearly, asking everyone not to donate anymore.
The most shocking detail to me is that she decisively rejected the money sent by many fundraisers.
I don’t know how to describe Wu Huayan’s short life of 24 years old.
Such a good girl disappeared as soon as she said she would disappear. She has not yet seen the prosperity of the world and knows what is far away.
But even in the last moments, she still lived her life as a beam of light and wanted to warm others.
In the news of Wu Huayan’s death, this is the most worrying part.
She has encountered difficulties and been under tremendous pressure, but she still understands the beauty of life.
If the world gives her some sweetness, she can’t wait to give it back to the world.
Wilde once said that we all live in the gutter, but there are still people who look up at the stars.
In this world, the most difficult thing may not be hardship, but that you can still remain warm, kind, strong and courageous despite hardship.
It means that you can live affectionately in this unkind world despite all the difficulties in the world.
2 Xue Mo said in "Let the Heart Belong to Your Own":
Cigarettes and wine cannot dilute the pain of life, partying all night long cannot relieve the pain of life, and a moment of pride cannot cover up the pain of life.
Suffering is the essence of life.
But there are always some people who will see the sunshine in the cracks and always have warmth in their hearts, walking a long way.
Do you still remember that college student Wei Xiang who rolled to Tsinghua University in a wheelchair?
Wei Xiang is from Dingxi, Gansu. He suffers from congenital spina bifida and spinal cysts and can only rely on a wheelchair to travel since he was born.
In 2017, he scored well in the college entrance examination. After confirming that he could be admitted, he wrote a letter to Tsinghua University.
He made a simple request, asking for a "homestay" to facilitate his studies.
The ending of the matter is very happy:
After reading the letter, the Tsinghua Admissions Director said that he would provide Wei Xiang with all possible support. "Life is really hard, but please believe it enough."
I can’t imagine how much hardship a teenager who can only use a wheelchair has endured over the years to achieve a college entrance examination score of 648 points.
I know that in this world, there are too many people with mutilated limbs who have become the most miserable part of society.
But Wei Xiang walked all the way and never gave in.
He lived a steamy life, getting more and more exciting.
He was not changed by the world. On the contrary, he changed the world.
Life has not spared him, and he has not spared time. 3
This is the illusion of most people.
You always think that your life is too miserable, there are too many dissatisfactions in life, and your morale is gradually being worn away.
But you don’t know, what you can see is not the whole world.
There are too many people who do not live as well as you.
But they are still working hard to make a living. They will still be shocked when they see the dawn of , and they will still talk about their misfortune with a smile.
In one episode of " Weird Stories about ", the second season champion Qiu Chen suddenly revealed that he had thyroid cancer.
At that time, debater Hua Xi complained to Qiu Chen that her year of birth was miserable.
Hua Xi said: I have a long scar and a broken bone. Unexpectedly, Qiu Chen suddenly said: I have cancer too.
Just like an unexpected cold, Qiu Chen's revelation shocked everyone present.
In fact, it was not just a calm state of mind. After Qiu Chen learned that he had cancer, he quietly handled everything in an orderly manner.
She contacted the most suitable hospital and discussed the surgical arrangements with her family.
She handed over the work and didn't even forget to ask for leave from the fitness coach.
Just that night, she also made a twenty-page PPT, participated in the company’s book report sharing meeting the next day, and won first place.
I'm not sure what kind of waves Qiu Chen would feel in his heart when he was doing this.
But what I am sure of is that if it were me, I wouldn’t be able to do all this.
Not everyone has experienced boundless darkness and can cross mountains and seas.
It is an instinct to remain fearful and fearful, but life is wasted, and you will be able to go further by yourself.
4
Is this world a bloody one?
Is life fucked or not?
All the realities are hundreds of times greater than you imagine. All your tender fantasies may be shattered by reality in an instant.
No life is easy.
You have to study for more than ten years before you can get into a university that may not be ideal.
In the year you graduate, you have to run from the south to the north of the city and attend countless job fairs to find a suitable job.
When you go up step by step and finally have savings, you will be middle-aged.
Your parents are old and your children are still young. Everyone wants to rely on you, but there are too few people you can rely on.
In fact, it’s not just you. There will be as many joys and sorrows as there are different life choices.
Today you are ready to return home to celebrate the New Year, but there are still millions of couriers sending and receiving express mails in the cold.
The driver of the Didi you accidentally got on may have just come out of the office, and this is just his part-time job.
Even those executives who seem to be glamorous may be struggling to calculate their employees’ year-end bonuses at the end of the year.
Zhou Guoping said:
As long as a person truly appreciates ordinary life, he will understand: How exaggerated are all the words that glorify suffering.
When faced with preferential treatment or difficulties in life, the most appropriate way is never to avoid it, but to accept it.
When you learn to find the sweetness in the bitterness of life, just a little bit will fill your heart.
5
Female college student Wu Huayan is gone. She was only 24 years old. This is sad news.
I looked at Douyin and saw related news. The most liked message was:
In this life, you are too tired. Remember to ask Po Meng to add more sugar to you so that the next life will not be so miserable.
Wu Huayan once wrote a poem:
Finally, I will return to the Yunnan-Guizhou Plateau,
On the highest roof in Guizhou, plant a deep blue ocean;
There, there will be a small boat to take me into the distance.
I don’t believe in the afterlife, but I firmly believe that Wu Huayan’s life was not in vain.
Because she has experienced, loved, been strong, and warmed everyone around her.
You have been here, you are brave and strong, I'm sorry.
Thank you, Wu Huayan, for letting us see your persistence under heavy pressure. You are as low as dust, but you bloom the most dazzling flower.
Jimmy said:
In life, the most unforgettable thing is to fall in love with someone, and the hardest thing to find is to be understood.
The most difficult road in life is none other than accepting yourself, accepting everything life throws at you, even heavy burdens, never giving up, and facing the world affectionately.
Wu Huayan has done it.
And you must love this world passionately and live passionately.
