Neighbors should be understanding and conciliatory, but in daily life, some neighbors get into trouble because of trivial matters. Recently, the judge of the Guanqiao Court of the Anxi County People's Court skillfully used celebrity family mottos to resolve a compensation dispute between neighbors caused by a dog bite before litigation.
Shen A’s child was bitten by neighbor Shen B’s dog next to his house. He went to the hospital for vaccination, which cost him 1,660 yuan in medical expenses, but Shen B only paid 600 yuan. Because the two parties could not reach an agreement on compensation, Shen A applied for mediation.
After receiving the application materials for mediation, the Guanqiao Court believed that the legal relationship of the case was clear, the facts were clear, and the disputes were not major, so it decided to join the Longmen Mediation Committee to organize pre-litigation mediation for both parties.
html On May 6, at the mediation site, the two parties refused to give in to each other. Upon seeing this, Zhong Huihuang, the president of Guanqiao Court, quickly calmed down the emotions of both parties and communicated with the parties separately. During the communication, Shen Mouyi revealed the crux of the matter: there was a dispute between the two parties, and the other party said some unpleasant words, which made her unable to swallow her breath." Li Guangdi repeatedly told his family members, 'It is easy for future generations to be kings if they are virtuous, but it is easy to perish if they are not virtuous.' He asked them to 'restrain, be gentle and humble,' that is, to be sensible and harmonious in their approach to life. You must Follow the example of local sages, value harmony, and take a step back. "Considering that the two parties are neighbors in the village, based on the principle of mutual understanding and accommodation and conducive to solving problems, Zhong Huihuang also explained my country's Civil Code to both parties. "The articles on compensation for animal damage clearly explain their respective responsibilities. At the same time, they intersperse the township rules and regulations for reasoning, put the situation of rural neighbors in front of both parties, and use the family tradition of "harmony and good neighborliness" with the mediator. Family mottos inspired them, telling them that harmony among neighbors is the most important thing, that "it is better to resolve enemies than to make enemies", and that being kind and companionable to neighbors is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation.
After some reasonable mediation and persuasion, the two parties finally reached a settlement. Witnessed by Zhong Huihuang and the mediator, the two parties signed a pre-litigation mediation agreement, and Shen Mouyi paid the remaining fees on the spot. Shen Moujia's mother apologized to Shen Mouyi for her previous inappropriate remarks and stated that she would not do this in the future. Argue with the other person again.
Note: Li Guangdi’s family motto
Li Guangdi, a famous official in the Qing Dynasty and a famous Neo-Confucianist. He attaches great importance to moral cultivation and opposes "seeking only profit." He repeatedly told his family members the truth that "descendants with virtue will be easy to be kings, but without virtue will be easy to perish", and pointed out the importance of "virtue" to the development of the family and family members. Li Guangdi told his descendants in "Afterwords of Admonitions to the Family" and "Quotations from Rongcun" that their ancestors had a "difficult start" and asked them to "restrain themselves, be gentle and humble" and not to "insult the old and offend" or "greedy for profit and food". ethics and morals in life .
Comments on mediation:
People’s judges in the new era should not only be able to discern laws and reason, make decisions and settle disputes, but also be able to “mediate” the feuding families of neighbors, “resolve” the grudges of hundreds of families, and “harmony” thousands of families, men, women, and children. Adjacency Relationship People will inevitably have stumbling problems in their daily interactions. It is said that "distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors." Neighboring parties should be humble, be kind to others, tolerate each other, learn to think in other people's shoes, operate together, and maintain good and harmonious relationships. Harmonious neighborly relations.
(our reporter Lin Yangyang, correspondent Lin Xiaoyun)
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