The 55-year-old TVB artist Lin Li (whose stage name in Taiwan is Lin Liyang ) got married for the second time in 2019 to a Taiwanese fan who is 14 years his junior. Due to the impact of the epidemic, the couple's lives have been separated. many. In fact, Lin Li had already decided to live in Taiwan and give up his job at TVB in 2020. However, the emergence of the epidemic in 2020 forced Lin Li to disrupt his plan. At that time, Lin Li's mother suffered from cancer . In order to take care of his mother, he could only stay in Hong Kong for a long time, which caused dissatisfaction from his young wife, and the marriage was once in trouble. Now Lin Li's mother has passed away. After handling his mother's funeral, he officially moved to Taiwan at the end of 2021, ending his life of spending less time together and more separation from his wife.
originally thought of overcoming all difficulties to reunite with his wife and usher in a new life. Unexpectedly, the distance between them became closer and the friction between husband and wife became more. In the first half of 2022, there was no news about Lin Li living in Taiwan. I thought he was living a good life, but I didn't expect that his life was not going well at all. Lin Li's current wife has always liked to put family matters on the table and make them public. On the evening of June 26, she suddenly uploaded a video of an argument with Lin Li. This was not a script, but a video she specially recorded. In the video, the two people were arguing and refusing to give in to each other. The content was very realistic. Lin Li's young wife complained that she had not had a diamond ring or a wedding since her marriage. She wanted to be romantic and the other party could not give it to her. She even scolded the other party for "cheating on food and drink." He didn’t show any signs of weakness, and responded coldly to his wife: Do you need a diamond ring to get married? He even scolded the other party for destroying himself by drinking. Finally, Lin Li's wife ended the video with "We're done here."
It was this video that became the trigger for the couple’s relationship to once again become friction. Although the video was deleted afterwards, the discord between the couple became an established fact. Since the matter had become a big deal, netizens and the media were alarmed. Later, the media contacted Lin Li to find out the truth. Lin Li frankly admitted that he and his wife were having a cold war. Now he is temporarily separated from his wife, mainly because he does not want to make the situation worse, because he does not want to get to the stage of divorce yet. Lin Li bluntly said that his wife is not a bad person, but she loves to drink. After drinking, she becomes a different person, talking nonsense and not distinguishing right from wrong.
Regarding being accused by his wife of "cheating for food and housing", Lin Li said helplessly that the down payment for the house in East Lake, Taiwan was given by his wife, and he was responsible for the monthly payment. In addition, he also paid off the credit card debt for his wife. , there is no such thing as cheating for food and accommodation. What's more, he spent a lot of money and time traveling to and from Taipei and Hong Kong in the past two years, which is also a sacrifice. As for the fact that he has not held a wedding or given a diamond ring for three years since his marriage, Lin Li said frankly that he has passed the age of pursuing superficial forms and does not want this kind of formal life for outsiders. He just wants to live a smooth and ordinary life. In recent years, due to the epidemic, Lin Li's income has dropped sharply, so he can still save on many expenses.
In fact, the marriage life of Lin Li and his wife has been very unsatisfactory for more than half a year. They have run away from home as many as 10 times just because of quarrels. The main reason is not only the difference in life philosophy between the husband and wife, The conflict in living habits is also due to the fact that my mother-in-law suffers from bipolar disorder , which has frequent attacks, which greatly increases the pressure on my wife. When she feels stressed, she drinks alcohol and quarrels, and the friction and conflict between the couple becomes more and more serious. Therefore, when he couldn't bear it anymore, Lin Li had no choice but to run away from home and temporarily separate from his wife.
In response to Lin Li's accusation that he loves to drink and quarrel, Lin Li's wife responded not to be outdone, but instead pointed out that Lin Li was the real drinker, claiming that he went to drink every afternoon, and drank from three to five o'clock. return. In addition, she also accused Lin Li of confusing right and wrong, and liked to mistreat the media and consume all his goodwill. Therefore, Lin Li's past relationships always ended in breakups because he mistook a deer for a horse and lost all his goodwill. However, she also emphasized that she would not divorce, because marriage is a lifelong matter, but as for how to resolve the current dispute between the couple, she could not say why.
After Lin Li got married to his current wife, they have had many public quarrels when they disagreed. In the past, Lin Li once aroused dissatisfaction from his wife because he had to take care of his mother in Hong Kong, and he publicly complained about being left out. Later, because Lin Li was chatting about work with actress Chen Boyu, she became jealous and publicly interrogated Chen Boyu on social platforms, which then triggered a scolding between Lin Li and her marriage. At first, Lin Li thought that these frictions were caused by his absence from his wife. As long as he could live with his wife in Taiwan, all the conflicts and disturbances would subside. However, in fact, it was not as simple as he thought. .
Lin Li's marriage to this wife was frankly a bit of a joke. The two parties did not get married hastily based on a deep understanding of each other. The basis of the relationship between the two is just the relationship between fans and idols. Lin Li's wife is a fan of his. When Lin Li was developing in Taiwan in the 1990s, she was obsessed with him, but they lost contact later. It was not until 2019 that Lin Li was filming "The Killer" in Taiwan, and the two reunited. , so I decided to get married. His wife's love for him was based on her obsession with idols, full of fantasies and divorced from reality. Lin Li probably married her on impulse. However, real life was full of daily necessities, and it was difficult for both parties to agree on their ideas. The age gap is large, and the generation gap between them is also huge, which leads to endless disputes. If this happens for a long time, it can only destroy each other's goodwill. As Lin Li said, "the original feeling is no longer there."
PS: The pictures are all from the Internet
