A male friend of mine recently decorated the house and was about to end. He was preparing to buy furniture. He complained that his wife was not involved at all and had only been to the construction site once or twice. "Why don't you ask your lover to buy furniture?" "She doesn't

A male friend of mine recently decorated the house and was about to end. He was preparing to buy furniture. He complained that his wife did not participate at all and had only been to the construction site once or twice. "Why don't you ask your lover to buy furniture?" "She doesn't know how to buy it, she only buys expensive ones but not the right ones."

knows it. If the husband often denies or even suppresses his wife's preferences and suggestions, the fool will be happy to get forward. The sense of belonging is that the hostess' thoughts can be reflected everywhere in this home, from the purchase of houses, to the color of the tablecloth and the style of lighting.

A female friend of mine complained that she was so tired that she was half tired. Her husband and children remained motionless in family building and were very unhappy with her efforts. The child blocked her from time to time when she went to college because she had to worry about what clothes her child wore today and majored in college. She talked about the postgraduate entrance examination in balabala every day for freshmen.

I said to her, "Who do you think lives the most enjoyable in this family?" She said it was a child, "It's not a child or your husband, it's you! Because in this family, your personal will is reflected everywhere, and everyone wants to pursue the pleasure of my final decision. Only you have realized this wish. Although you are very hard and feel wronged, compared to being able to control the situation, you are the one thing you say, worrying about everything is the reward, and saying it is the motivation to continue to pay. No Some people are willing to be at the mercy of others. When you deprive others of their will, do nothing or do it against others is revenge for the suppression of their personal will. "

There are also some people who are always away from the family. Because the family cannot reflect their value of existence, their personal abilities are degraded everywhere and their personal will is squeezed at all times. Therefore, if you want your partner to love your family, please respect your opinions and give the other party a certain amount of room to play. Only the more personal color heavier he loves this family.