Downtime love Although it is not a particularly strange thing nowadays, if anyone finds a young partner who is much younger than his children, he will probably still have to bear the strange eyes from the people around him. This is true for ordinary people, let alone our famous Chinese physicist Yang Zhenning !
You should know that Yang Zhenning was 82 years old at that time, and his remarried wife Weng Fan is only 28 years old, this is a love affair between grandparents! The age difference between the two is not a small one, it is a full 54 years old, which is as long as half a century. I believe many people are curious about what attitude Yang Zhenning’s children will have after they find out? Next let's enter this love at dusk...
Marry again in old age
Yang Zhenning was born in Hefei, Anhui, China in 1922. He has been very smart since childhood. When html was 94 years old, he learned thousands of Chinese characters with the help of his mother. People would praise him, "It's so amazing." Of course, IQ is innate and inherited by parents.
His parents are both people with higher education, so they are definitely much longer than ordinary people in terms of vision. Yang Zhenning has indeed achieved considerable achievements under their guidance. If we want to describe his achievements in detail, it will probably take us a long time.
However, in addition to his contributions and contributions, his love life in his later years also became a hot topic for everyone, and made this hero who has been praised for his nearly life controversial. What exactly happened in the middle? What makes everyone target an elderly person who is over 80 years old?
In fact, things have to start with the death of his wife Du Zhili . One day in October 2003, Du Zhili passed away due to illness, leaving Yang Zhenning alone living in the world. Although they also have children, they will always have their own family and career when they grow up, and it is impossible for them to be with their parents forever.
Therefore, Yang Zhenning, who is over 80 years old, began to live a lonely life. In his own words, days without a partner are messy, terrible and clueless. He and Du Zhili lived in love for more than 50 years, but suddenly lost their partner, which made it difficult for him to accept and adapt.
However, just when he was extremely confused and powerless, Weng Fan appeared. She was young and energetic and became a light for Yang Zhenning at that time, illuminating the darkness in his heart. In fact, he and Weng Fan had contacted him as early as 1995. At that time, Weng Fan was just a student of , Shantou University, and was assigned to serve as a guide for him.
Not favored by grandparents and grandchildren
However, at that time, Yang Zhenning had no other unnecessary feelings for Weng Fan except to appreciate him. Their subsequent development was mainly after Du Zhili's death. The lonely Yang Zhenning remembered the girl who was once full of youth and happiness, so he took the initiative to call Weng Fan to meet.
In Weng Fan's eyes, Yang Zhenning's existence is like a god of faith . Therefore, when she received Yang Zhenning's invitation, she agreed without thinking. Although I haven't seen each other for many years, the relationship between the two does not seem unfamiliar and awkward.
It was the pleasant relationship between them that made Yang Zhenning gradually fascinated Weng Fan in the days that followed. He is like a small river that is about to dry up, urgently needing water sources to irrigate, and this water source is the optimistic and positive Weng Fan. In 2004, when Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan returned to Beijing from Beihai , Yang Zhenning proposed to Weng Fan.
He seemed a little impatient, and he didn't even have time to prepare for the flowers. He realized it only after Weng Fan's joke. In fact, there is a reason why Yang Zhenning is so anxious. After all, he is in his eighties. Although he feels that his body is very healthy, if he uses his fingers to count the time, he shouldn't have much time left.
Although he knew that the relationship between him and Weng Fan was not favored by everyone, he might be disturbed by some rumors. But in order not to leave any regrets, he still obeyed his inner choices. In December 2004, entered the palace of marriage with Weng Fan.
Of course, how can you not tell your children about such an important event? What's more, Yang Zhenning has several very promising children! So, what will Yang Zhenning's children react after they suddenly heard the news that their old father remarried with a young woman? Will strongly oppose or actively support it?
The attitude of the younger generations
In fact, no one would agree with this matter. After all, although Yang Zhenning is very powerful, his age can never be reduced. I am afraid that individuals will think that this is just a relationship of mutual benefit.
Yang Zhenning's children had the same idea as us at the beginning. They had a lot of opinions about this stepmother who was much younger than themselves. He thought Weng Fan had ulterior motives and chose to marry him only by valuing his father's reputation and status. After they truly understood this woman, they realized that they were very wrong.
They thought Weng Fan was the kind of person who was greedy for fame and fortune, but they didn't expect that the other party was a woman with a very high educational background. She had accepted Western culture since she was a child and did not attach much importance to the age issue between men and women. Moreover, she was very patient and serious in her care for Yang Zhenning. Whether it was her daily life, eating, drinking, defecation, or communicating thoughts at work.
It seems that for Weng Fan, Yang Zhenning is not only not an elderly elder, but rather a child who needs to be cared for and cared for at all times. Not only that, Weng Fan never mentioned a word to participate in Yang Zhenning's property division issue from beginning to end.
Although Yang Zhenning finally decided to leave all his property to his children and only give Weng Fan a three-story building to ensure basic life, Weng Fan still didn't say a word of dissatisfaction. In the eyes of Yang Zhenning's children, such behavior has completely subverted their cognition, and his father was indeed completely different after marrying Weng Fan.
Therefore, they also accepted Weng Fan's existence and no longer had bad views on her. After all, Yang Zhenning is old and does need someone to take care of him. They all have their own careers and families, and they can't take much time to accompany the elderly. Therefore, Weng Fan's existence seems to have fulfilled all of them, which is a good thing.
Conclusion
Later in the interviews attended by Weng Fan and Yang Zhenning, you can see that in the more than ten years they were together, there were no curved plots that everyone imagined, but were very harmonious. Yang Zhenning can not only help and guide Weng Fan, but also influence and encourage her.
We should learn to accept and respect, not only respect those great and powerful people and things, but also respect other people's feelings and choices. Only in this way can we become a better self and a role model for our next generation. ,
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