Introduction
Deng Xiaoping
11976, Deng Xiaoping had physical problems and was admitted to the 301 Hospital. After diagnosis, the doctor decided to perform surgery on Deng Xiaoping.
After obtaining the consent of Zhuolin and other families, the medical staff determined to prepare for the operation.
The surgery is prepared to the end, and one step involves, that is, to cut the patient's hair and bathe. Deng Xiaoping’s wife Zhuo Lin immediately decided to hand over this important task to her son-in-law He Ping. He Ping even helped him take a bath.
is enough to show that their family’s trust in their son-in-law He Ping and He Ping’s sincere concern for his father-in-law Deng Xiaoping.
He Ping and Deng Rong fell in love
One day in the second half of 197, Deng Rong, who was far away on the loess plateau in northern Shaanxi, suddenly learned that Lu Tongyan, the daughter of General Lu Zhengcao, who had just graduated from , was assigned to be a doctor at the commune health center five miles away from her village, and was very happy.
Deng Rong and Lu Tongyan met since childhood. Because Lu Tongyan's nickname is Pangpang, Deng Rong called Lu Tongyan "Pangpang Sister" since she was a child. It is undoubtedly an exciting thing for two good friends to meet in a remote and remote village in northern Shaanxi.
Lu Tongyan
So, as long as Deng Rong could take time out, he would go to the commune to play with her fat sister.
The two sisters talked together, and there were many topics that could not be finished. Since Deng Rong was only 21 years old at that time, love was naturally one of the topics of the two.
One day, they were chatting about their familiar lives and familiar people in Beijing. Lu Tongyan suddenly said to Deng Rong:
"Hey, I know someone, named He Ping, I will definitely get along with you. I want to introduce you to you!"
Deng Rong did not take this matter seriously at the time, but Lu Tongyan was a person who did it just by doing it. When he returned to Beijing, he really went to find someone.
Due to Lu Tongyan's enthusiastic connection, Deng Rong and He Ping, two people who had never met, were forced to send a letter to him.
Due to similar experiences, Deng Rong and He Ping passed several letters and felt that they had many common languages with each other.
At that time, they were very simple, and they did not talk about personal relationships between men and women, mostly revolutionary ideals.
Through letter exchanges, Deng Rong learned that He Ping was a self-reliant, hardworking, positioned and responsible young man.
He Ping also told Deng Rong some thrilling things before he was born.
He Biao
In a battle, his father He Biao escorted the troops and the wounded, leaving only his mother and brother behind. At that time, his mother was still pregnant with him.
Seeing that the enemy was catching up, his father He Biao had to use his horse to pull a broken car and run forward with his wife and children.
However, because the horse had not pulled the car, he heard the wheels in the back ringing and rushed forward in fright. Although
has been bumpy all the way, fortunately, he was in danger and He Ping saved his life in his womb. Two months after
communication, He Ping told Deng Rong that he was going to Jiangxi to visit his parents. He wanted to pass Nanchang and wanted to visit her parents.
At this time, they had only been communicating for two months. They had never met once during this period, but they had just exchanged photos with each other.
Deng Rong agreed and reported the situation to her parents truthfully. Deng Rong said to his family, "He Ping is coming to Jiangxi!"
Before this, the family did not know about Deng Rong and He Ping, nor who He Ping was.
Deng Xiaoping
So, Deng Rong's stupid words made everyone confused. Someone asked: "Who is He Ping?" After the question of
was asked, the whole family held their breath and waited for Deng Rong's explanation. Deng Rong was not embarrassed, and said very simply: "He Biao's third brother."
After learning that his daughter was in love, Deng Xiaoping and his family were very happy.Because they were worried about finding a partner for their children at that time. When the whole family heard that He Ping was coming, they were extremely happy.
, always taciturn, with a serious expression, Deng Xiaoping said with an unconcealed smile on his face: "I know He Biao, I have the ability, and my bones are hard!"
, He Biao is an old Red Army soldier and a military doctor. During the Long March 6, due to the harsh conditions, eating wild vegetables and eating bark is inevitable. However, some wild vegetables are poisonous and there were no special identification tools at that time, which led to many people being poisoned by accidentally eating wild vegetables. Among them is He Long.
once, after eating wild vegetables, He Long continued to have a high fever and vomited continuously. When He Long was dying, He Biao used local methods to cure him.
In addition, He Long's daughter He Jiesheng was also rescued by He Biao, and He Biao also treated Wang Zhen and others for their illness.
He Long
Due to his superb medical skills, He Biao is known as "Red Army Hua Tuo" and "Red Miracle Doctor".
, and almost at the same time, He Biao and his wife also saw a photo of a girl from the letters sent by their son.
He Ping told his parents in the letter that the girl with thick eyebrows and big eyes was Deng Xiaoping's daughter Deng Rong.
He Biao's wife Chen Kai took the photo and looked at the girl above carefully, thinking to himself whether these two children were in love?
, but He Biao didn't think much about it. In his opinion, it is normal for students to be connected together, and boys and girls to be together. So, they didn't know that their son was in love with Deng Xiaoping's daughter at that time.
The day when He Ping arrived in Nanchang, Deng Rong personally ran to the train station to pick him up.
Since the two had never met before, Deng Rong was myopic again, so he did not recognize He Ping immediately, but He Ping recognized Deng Rong first.
Deng Rong’s first impression of He Ping was: This person is so tall!
He Ping went to Deng Xiaoping's house to "take the exam" of his son-in-law
to pick up He Ping, Deng Rong took He Ping to take the bus and returned to Bus' home.
Since Deng Rong and He Ping met for the first time, neither of them thought about anything at the time.
However, I heard that the son of the old Red Army came to "take the exam" of his son-in-law, Deng Xiaoping, Zhuo Lin and Xia Bogen, were as if he had entered a "state of emergency", and he couldn't stop.
Recalling the scene at that time, Deng Rong said:
"When my mother came, she asked questions, as if she was a son-in-law. Grandma knocked the pot and made a lot of food, and put a small square dining table full of..."
Seeing that the Deng family was so enthusiastic about him, and then looked at the table full of dishes. He Ping, who came from afar, did not pretend to be polite, and acted very generously, just like at home, sat down and ate with open stomach.
The Deng family was very happy to see He Ping eating very happily. Because they treat , Sichuan people , they just like they can eat it.
After dinner, looking at the empty plate and empty bowl in front of He Ping, grandma Xia Bogen was overjoyed.
In the afternoon, Zhuo Lin and Xia Bogen were planting loofahs, and He Ping took the initiative to go up and help . Because he was tall and good at working, He Ping set up the loofah rack after two seconds.
Xia Bogen said happily: "It's still useful to be tall!"
On the evening, their family sat upstairs and chatted with He Ping again, and the atmosphere was very harmonious.
During the two days of He Ping staying at the Deng family, most of the Deng family were observing He Ping except for being busy.
Deng Xiaoping often lit a cigarette and looked at He Ping who was busy and rushing to do his best. During this period, Deng Xiaoping also listened carefully to He Ping's situation.
Zhuo Lin and Xia Bogen
During the conversation, Deng Xiaoping learned about He Ping's thoughts and positions, and also set up a "longmen formation" with He Ping.
Two days later, He Ping bid farewell to the Deng family and prepared to visit his parents.Before leaving, he broke a cloud of smoke that he brought to Deng Xiaoping and divided it into two parts, leaving half for his future father-in-law Deng Xiaoping and half for his father. (Yunyan was not easy to buy at that time)
After Deng Rong sent He Ping away, she returned home and found that her father, mother and grandma were moving a small bamboo stool, sitting next to the loofah rack behind the kitchen, talking about something.
Seeing Deng Rong coming back, Zhuo Lin quickly called her daughter over, which seemed very formal.
After Deng Rong passed, his father Deng Xiaoping happily patted his thighs and said in a strong Sichuan accent: "It seems that this marriage has been decided!"
. After He Biao learned that his son was in love with Deng Xiaoping's daughter Deng Rong, he said to his son He Ping:
"Her father is a good person! You boy, you must take good care of her!"
Later, Deng Rong and He Ping married successfully, and Deng Xiaoping and Deng Biao were also transferred back to Beijing to work one after another.
Deng Xiaoping
After returning to Beijing, He Biao visited an old comrade near Deng Xiaoping's house and wanted to go to the in-laws' house to take a look.
So, He Biao knocked on Deng Xiaoping's door.
Seeing Deng Biao, Deng Xiaoping happily stepped forward to shake hands with him, and at the same time told his wife Zhuo Lin: "Come on a distinguished guest! You are a guest! He is from Hubei and loves to eat fish. You need to make some fish!"
Zhuo Lin responded repeatedly, "Make fish, make fish, be sure to make fish!" After
sat down, the two old men began to recall the few meeting scenes in the war years...
He Biao respects Deng Xiaoping very much, and Deng Xiaoping also respects He Biao very much. On the dining table, Deng Xiaoping kept asking He Biao to eat more fish, and said that Hubei people would not get stuck when eating fish...
Since then, Deng Xiaoping and He Biao have formed a deep friendship. He Biao and his wife liked Deng Rong very much. They got along very happily and were very concerned about Deng Xiaoping's family.
Deng Xiaoping likes children very much and likes to play bridge very much. When He Biao was in Yan'an in his early years, he also learned to play bridge.
Therefore, Deng Xiaoping and He Biao were together, often talking about their children and grandchildren, or playing bridge. They all think bridge is a brain-friendly sport.
In addition, since He Biao is a doctor, when the two talk about elderly health care, He Biao will do his best to remind Deng Xiaoping to pay attention.
Deng Rong
Deng Xiaoping was hospitalized, and He Biao reminded He Ping: You must be responsible for taking care of Comrade Xiaoping
One morning in December 1996, Deng Xiaoping suddenly felt uncomfortable after waking up, Difficult breathing , can't swallow food, can't do anything.
The doctor was unable to deal with this situation and immediately sent Deng Xiaoping to 301 Hospital.
At that time, Deng Xiaoping's condition was already very serious. However, 89-year-old Deng Xiaoping acted very strongly and kept silent.
Some patients will also lose their temper in addition to moaning and shouting. But Deng Xiaoping has always been very calm.
Medical staff recalled that Deng Xiaoping's ward was always quiet. If the person who entered did not pay attention, he would think there were no patients in the room.
Moreover, Deng Xiaoping never made any requests to medical staff and did not want any medicine.
Deng Xiaoping is also very tolerant of medical staff. Because Deng Xiaoping's vascular was not accurate at that time, he often had several injections to find the blood vessel. Deng Xiaoping never said anything about medical staff, let alone asked to replace the acupuncture personnel.
The medical staff felt very sad when they saw Deng Xiaoping like this, and they also admired the perseverance of this man in his 90s and his attitude towards illness.
Deng Xiaoping's later years
After learning that Deng Xiaoping's physical condition worsened, He Biao had a bad premonition and said that he would go to the hospital to see his in-laws in person no matter what.
At that time, the central government restricted visiting the disease in order to take care of Deng Xiaoping's treatment and rest. worried He Biao didn't care about these things at all. He made an exception and "violated" for the first time in his life. Without asking for instructions, he visited Deng Xiaoping at his old subordinates at 301 Hospital.
Deng Xiaoping, who was lying on the sickbed, was very happy to see He Biao come to visit him. At that time, Deng Xiaoping was in good spirits, and the two chatted for a while with their children and grandson. During
, Deng Xiaoping said that he was confident of overcoming the disease, and He Biao happily congratulated his in-laws on his final victory!
Since then, He Biao also reminded his son He Ping:
"The Deng family has many daughters, the boy is in poor health, Comrade Xiaoping is hospitalized, you must be responsible for taking care of him!"
He Ping always remembered his father's advice. During Deng Xiaoping's hospitalization, He Biao was always with him, busy.
What He Biao did not expect was that the meeting in 1996 was the last time he and Deng Xiaoping were. Deng Xiaoping, who had been strong all his life, still couldn't overcome that hurdle...
Deng Xiaoping passed away
On February 19, 1997, Deng Xiaoping had respiratory failure and could only breathe with the help of a machine. The medical team quickly reported the situation to the Politburo.
Although the medical staff tried their best to rescue Deng Xiaoping, they were still unable to make up for the situation.
At 9:08 pm, the head of the medical team and the vice president of 301 Hospital and others officially announced: Stop rescue. The medical staff present were extremely sad and cried...
When He Ping called his father and told his father about the bad news, He Biao was very sad and wrote a long poem "The regret lasts forever, I have no chance to send you to the road" to express his grief:
The grief shook the earth, the dream was broken, and the bitter rain in the nine provinces was drifting. There is no hurry to drive the crane south, and you can leave the long rainbow point as the road. The eyes are close, the sounds are far away, and the tears are hard to lock. The regrets last forever, and I have no chance to send you on the way. But I remember the romantic young man, who is strong and strong. The sea is crossed, the world is saved with great achievements, and the blueprint is drawn with one hand. The vast sea is surging, and the tide is strong, and heroes are searching for nowhere. The special merits are engraved, and the Chinese history is forged.
On the morning of February 24, Deng Xiaoping's body was cremated in Beijing.
On this day, Deng Xiaoping's body lies quietly among flowers and evergreen pine and cypress, with a peaceful face, covered with the bright flag of the Communist Party of China, and four People's Liberation Army soldiers stood solemnly with guns, guarding both sides.
The masses bid farewell to Deng Xiaoping's body, a flower basket presented by Deng Xiaoping's wife Zhuo Lin and her children were placed. The ribbon of the flower basket reads: "We will love you forever!"
There are also many wreaths sent by central leaders, democratic parties, non-party members, people's organizations and people from all walks of life in the capital.
At 9 am, the leaders of the Party and the state slowly walked to the farewell room wearing white flowers on their chests and black veils on their arms and stood solemnly in front of Deng Xiaoping's body. Amid the sorrow and music, they bowed three times to Deng Xiaoping's body.
On this day, He Biao got up very early. He sat in a wheelchair and led the family to the farewell room, crying to say goodbye to his in-laws, comrades and comrades.
Because of his sorrow, He Biao's legs could not be used. He could only let his daughter-in-law support him and bowed nine times in front of Deng Xiaoping's body!
bowing nine times is the rule for He Biao to give a great gift in his hometown. He said his final farewell to Deng Xiaoping according to the highest etiquette in his hometown!
After the memorial service was held on February 25, Deng Xiaoping's ashes were sprinkled into the sea by 81-year-old Zhuo Lin. This is Deng Xiaoping's last wish.
Deng Rong choked and said:
"Dad, you return to the sea and return to nature. Your last wish has come true. Rest in peace!"
He Biao
After Deng Xiaoping passed away, He Biao, who was not very optimistic, asked the hospital to stop giving him good medicine.He Biao said:
"Comrade Xiaoping can go with such a great person, why can't we go? As our generation, the task has been completed and we have no regrets!"
On March 31, 1999, He Biao passed away suddenly at home. Before
's death, He Biao left a last word:
does not set up a mourning hall, and does not say goodbye to the body. Don’t affect other people’s work, nor do you affect the emotions of old comrades. Make your old comrades think that I can still play with them...
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