Society is developing, the times are progressing, and all aspects of people's lives have undergone profound changes. If you have to choose an access point to compare this change, what the author thinks of is the status of women in marriage. Feudal women bound by ", Three Obediences, Four Virtues, " have no status or rights in marriage, and can only marry a chicken, follow the chicken, and follow the dog.
Nowadays, women have long been liberated. Not only do women have the freedom and right to choose marriage, but they also dare to file for divorce after the marriage fails.
The status of women in marriage has undergone earth-shaking changes, but the process is long, especially for women in the era of new and old ideas. While they have endured people's strange vision, they also prove that women can have a better life.
In modern China's first divorced couple is the talented man Xu Zhimo and his wife Zhang Youyi . To be precise, Zhang Youyi was divorced. This requires a lot of public pressure, especially for Zhang Youyi.
Meeting Xu Zhimo is Zhang Youyi's greatest misfortune, and her family gave her great support. After Zhang Youyi's divorce, the fourth brother of gave her a villa, the second brother arranged a free job for him, and the eighth brother also gave her the Yunshang he managed. With the help of his family, Zhang Youyi made his life after the divorce.
Betrayed during pregnancy
People know Zhang Youyi, more because he is Xu Zhimo's original wife. When future generations talk about the love story between Xu Zhimo and Lin Huiyin, they often ignore a hurt woman Zhang Youyi.
Zhang Youyi's family was originally from a good place and received a new style of education. Xu Zhimo was interrupted after he was 15 years old. Although Zhang Youyi did her duty after marrying into the Xu family, she was never Xu Zhimo's ideal wife.
Three years after getting married, they gave birth to their first child, but the arrival of the child still did not change the relationship between the couple. I don’t know whether it was to pursue ideals or to escape from life. After his son was born, Xu Zhimo traveled across the ocean to study.
1920, Zhang Youyi also came abroad, but Xu Zhimo was not that happy. When Zhang Youyi excitedly told Xu Zhimo that she was pregnant again, Xu Zhimo just coldly asked her to abort the child.
Because Xu Zhimo had already met his goddess Lin Huiyin at this time, Lin Huiyin had a very good background. In order to be worthy of her, Xu Zhimo wanted to divorce his pregnant wife. Zhang Youyi did not agree to the divorce, so Xu Zhimo disappeared directly. A pregnant woman was alone in a foreign country, and life was difficult to imagine.
The second brother in Paris Zhang Junmai After learning about the situation, he took Zhang Youyi to his side. Later, his seventh brother Zhang Jingqiu took his sister to Berlin, Germany, where Zhang Youyi gave birth to his second son Peter.
Just shortly after the child was born, Zhang Youyi learned that she had been divorced because Xu Zhimo had unilaterally announced in the newspaper that he had broken up with Zhang Youyi.
Restart after getting divorced
Xu Zhimo abandoned his pregnant wife for Lin Huiyin, and later did not get the beauty back. After Lin Huiyin returned to China, he got engaged to the same-sized Liang Sicheng , leaving Xu Zhimo alone depressed.
Even so, Xu Zhimo did not think about finding Zhang Youyi again, but developed feelings for his friend's wife Lu Xiaoman .
Xu Zhimo kept circling around, but Zhang Youyi was different. The blow of divorce had not yet passed. The youngest son unfortunately fell ill and died, which made Zhang Youyi very sad. After arranging the future of his younger son, Zhang Youyi returned to China under the arrangement of his eighth brother Zhang Yujiu.
After returning to China, Zhang Youyi was not immersed in the shadow of losing her son and the failure of her marriage. Instead, she quickly completed the turning point of her life with the help of her brothers.
The parents have passed away, the fourth brother Zhang Jiayu In order to give her a home, let her move into her own villa. Zhang Youyi has not yet gained a foothold and can only obey her brother's arrangements.
Zhang Youyi first found a job as a teacher. Although it was stable, her salary was not high. Later, someone came forward to hire her as the bank president. Zhang Youyi knew very well that this was the fourth brother secretly helping him. If the fourth brother was not the vice president of Bank of China , who would have hired a divorced woman who had no work experience and no professional knowledge at all.
But this job is not particularly suitable for a completely layman after all. Zhang Youyi’s eighth brother Zhang Yujiu joined forces with his friends to open a clothing company named Yunshang. Zhang Youyi served as general manager under the care of his younger brother .
This time, Zhang Youyi's talents have a way to display. She inquire about everything, no matter big or small, and often communicates with the tailor to design the latest styles. The clothing business is booming for a while.
But the second brother Zhang Junmai couldn't bear to see his sister working so hard, so he also used his ability to find an accounting job for Zhang Youyi.
This job is obviously a free job. Zhang Youyi also understands the good intentions of her second brother. The more her family cares, the more Zhang Youyi feels that she should be self-reliant and self-reliant. She finally proves her ability with practical actions.
Found a new life
Zhang Youyi's brother and younger brother care about her so much, which is also related to her parents. When her parents were alive, they were always worried about this divorced daughter, so they were reminded to take good care of Zhang Youyi.
Fortunately, the sons of the Zhang family are all promising and can help Zhang Youyi, but Zhang Youyi's final success is still due to his ability and hard work.
Xu Zhimo and Zhang Youyi had two children, but in Xu Zhimo's eyes, Zhang Youyi was still a half-new woman. Unexpectedly, after the divorce, Zhang Youyi made the rest of her life like a different person.
, and Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman's married life was not happy, because Lu Xiaoman has never changed his life habits of a rich lady, and their living burden was very heavy. Finally, after the two had a big quarrel, Xu Zhimo bought a plane ticket to Peking , but unfortunately died.
After divorced Xu Zhimo, Zhang Youyi focused all her life on her career and achieved success, but she has always been alone in her relationship.
Of course, there are also suitors in the middle, but Zhang Youyi refused. Until 30 years later, she met Su Jizhi. Before she planned to get married, Zhang Youyi wrote a letter to ask her eldest son for his opinion. The son naturally hoped that his mother would have a companion.
This time Zhang Youyi experienced what happiness is. Her relationship with Su Jizhi has always been very good, which also made the Zhang family completely relieved.
Su Jizhi died in 1972, leaving Zhang Youyi alone. Fortunately, she had accumulated enough pension money in her early years. Although she was alone, she didn't feel lonely even if she had children and grandchildren around her knees.
Summary:
Marriage is not the whole of a woman, but for women in the Republic of China period, divorce is definitely a fatal blow. Men are afraid of entering the wrong career, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. Once a woman is entrusted to someone, she is destined to go through disasters.
Zhang Youyi is the heroine of the first divorce case in the Republic of China. She was betrayed by her husband when she was pregnant, gave birth to a child and was divorced again. The youngest son's premature death was even worse.
But all this did not crush Zhang Youyi, and she cheered up with the help of her family. The fourth brother gave her a villa, the second brother arranged a free job for her, and the eighth brother gave her Yunshang Company, all of which made Zhang Youyi a different Zhang!
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